₦airaland Forum

MarketDispatch:
Is that not Senator Oshio's constituency?

pongwa:
You are not bothered about what he put up but rather about him leaving your religion. Chai

Zionmdde:
And who were those appointed to head SEDC? what is their qualifications aside being loyal to tinubu and APC?
Is it sensible comparing apc criminals In SW and those in SE?

The south East are sengalese while people for the south wests are Fulanis! Are you ok now?

Ejyksneh:
I don't believe this, tell that to the birds of the air

Kindly check my signature for a very interesting topic and amazing facts

newnigeriannew:
But leaders go to Adeboye for prayers, not to the youths. So, how do you want the youths to drive the change?

Antoeni:
How can you protest as a Pastor when fuel was ₦95, but now that it’s ₦1,350 you’re saying Let’s pray?

escortafrik:
I’m a lady in my mid-30s and life was going very well for me except for one thing everybody except me seemed obsessed with - marriage.

I have a good career, I’m financially stable, respected in my field, and I genuinely loved the life I built for myself. But every family gathering, every wedding, every phone call from relatives somehow turned into:

“So when are you getting married?” You’re not getting younger oo

Eventually, I met someone through mutual friends.

He was unemployed at the time, but that did not bother me much because he was intelligent, kind, calm, and surprisingly very knowledgeable in the same profession as me.

We connected deeply and for the first time in a long while, I felt like I had found the ‘one’

As our relationship became serious, I started helping him professionally too. I helped him restructure his CV, prepared him for interviews, connected him to opportunities, and eventually introduced him to my organisation when there was an opening.

Thankfully, he got the job.

I was genuinely happy for him because I knew how difficult things had been for him financially before then. And after he got the job, things became even sweeter between us.

And some month after he proposed to me ! my joy became complete! My family was overjoyed.

Then, just as our wedding plans were moving forward smoothly, the company we worked introduced a new policy stating that married couples could no longer work in the organisation together. Once two employees got married, one person would have to resign.

That was when the real problem started.

I assumed we would sit down and discuss it logically.

I have spent years building my career there.
I’m more senior.
I currently earn more.
And if we’re being realistic, my position is more stable at the moment.

But my fiancé shocked me.

He told me I should be the one to resign because:

“I’m the man.”

Initially I didn’t take him seriously but as the wedding date drew closer, he kept pressuring me to resign !

I then reminded him that I was already established before he came into the company. I was the one who helped him get the opportunity in the first place. If anyone should logically stay, shouldn’t it be the person whose career was already firmly built there?

But he said it would be embarrassing for him as a man if he was the one leaving while his wife continued working there, that I could do something else like supermarket business.

Imagine !

Since then, everything has changed.

Wedding plans have paused.
We now fight everyday
Even his family are supporting him, telling me to resign !
my heart is broken.

Not just because of the job itself, but because I genuinely believed I was building a life with someone who saw me as an equal partner.

Well I have concluded that I won’t resign and I will also make sure he is sacked. No one should call me wicked because he is very wicked for wanting to do this to me.



https://community.escortafrik.com/d/198-i-helped-my-fiance-get-a-job-in-my-company-now-he-wants-me-to-resign

Dshocker:
Rent a big space, then partner with Redeem Christian Church Of God

Or partner with Winners Chapel.

Profit sharing ratio is 60/40

suckprick:
Hmmm. I sleep for a living.

HisaacPlus:
The Redeemed Christian Church of God has issued responses to the barrage of allegations and accusations against its General Overseer, Pastor Adeboye, clearing things out

My father d!ed on a Sunday waiting for a qualified doctor. You know why? All the qualified doctors went to church. This is why you can’t find me in a church.

- Keji Giwa pic.twitter.com/FObxsc56ry

— Dami’ Adenuga (@DAMIADENUGA) May 30, 2026

Thewrath:
In a country with no press/journalism freedom,nothing is real in the internet in such country.

Brendaniel:
Are you saying all soldiers and police will also die by the gun?

franchasng:
Lagos is overburdened already, adding more seaport to Lagos is not helping the state but killing it. They should focus on building excellent cargo rail from existing Lagos seaports to states like:

Kano
Anambra (Onitsha)
Kogi
Adamawa


It will reduce the burden of loads on Lagos roads which causes traffic congestion and fast road wear. But with cargo railways from Lagos ports to other commercial states, movement of cargo containers will be swift and the loads on Lagos roads will be reduced, traffic will also drop.

saintokwuluora:
They were surprised these calibre of men are ready to lead and they liked it. Tinubu is done for.

Mandem05:
[s]As per say the state governors cannot be called to order by The president na[/s]
LET'S CONITUNE ALL THE MUD SLINGING WHILST THE KILLING CONTIUNES UNCHEKED BY THE GOVENMENT.

Lukgaf:
Kidnapping has become frighteningly rampant in our society today. People travel and their families begin to panic until they arrive safely. Some are even attacked in their homes. Wallāhi, these are difficult times.

The recent incidents around Oriire Local Government and many other places are enough reminders that security and safety are truly from Allah alone.

As Muslims, while we take physical precautions, Islam also teaches us to seek protection through du‘ā and remembrance of Allah.

Among the beautiful supplications for protection is:

اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّا نَجْعَلُكَ فِي نُحُورِهِمْ وَنَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شُرُورِهِمْ
“O Allah, we place You before them and seek refuge in You from their evil.”

And also:

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الَّذِي لَا يَضُرُّ مَعَ اسْمِهِ شَيْءٌ فِي الْأَرْضِ وَلَا فِي السَّمَاءِ وَهُوَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ
“In the Name of Allah, with whose Name nothing in the earth or the heavens can cause harm, and He is the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing.”

These adhkār are protection, comfort, and reliance upon Allah.

In fact, one of the greatest protections a Muslim can maintain daily is the morning and evening adhkār taught by the Prophet ﷺ. Many of these can easily be found in the popular booklet Hisnul Muslim (Fortress of the Muslim). Let us revive this Sunnah in our homes, for ourselves and our children.

Make these adhkār part of your daily routine:

- before travelling
- before sleeping
- after Fajr and after ‘Asr/Maghrib
- for yourself, your spouse, and your children

At the same time, let us remain vigilant, careful, and prayerful.

May Allah protect us, our families, and our communities from evil, kidnappers, bandits, and every form of harm. May He restore peace and safety to our land. Āmīn.

PS: Please remember to recite Suratul Khaf

UniQue84:
She is very fetish ...she visit babalawo as if she is going to a chemist..

She even sent her mum money for her village yearly juju stuff.

I just knew her family background is not far from idol worshipping.

For me i can take a lady that doesn't have any religious affiliation but to be fetish a big NO..even as a wife if I catch u ..u re gone.

galantjoe:
Both of us are married
But she lost her husband recently
So I activated Okafor's law