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God bless all the wonderful father's in the house

DaWorshiper: All these pretenders sha... Which one is more difficult to do? Using dsame mouth u use for food to lick dat dead hole or using ur hands to wash d pant that's coverin d station?
Aldo, i can't do it sha.

Lwkmd

The husband looks like her father

OLAADEGBU: Do you mean they get married at the time of the act or thereafter?

it means once you av sex outside marriage, the spiritual implication is dat you are already one wit the person. So if you commit fornication with 5 girls it means you are joined with those five girls.

Doclight: 1000likes!!!
*Feeling sorry*

you're wlcm

Doclight: sorry!!!

There's nothing to be sorry about. To each his own

Doclight: please stop decieving yoirself

please go and study your bible very well. That pre marital sex is the in thing now doesn't mean it is acceptable by God. God's clear injunction is that the marriage bed should be undefiled if you know what that means

yes, if two unmarried people have sex it means they've joined themselves together to become one. Cos in the right sense, it is sex that makes two become one in marriage

the person at fault

Feraz: 2 - 8 years gap is okay

ok o

Tallesty1: 5-10 years gap is okay.

aiit tks for ur contribution

Tallesty1: Really??

so what's ur own opinion?

Elantracey: As long as he has not married before I don't think age should be a factor .

hmmmmm ok o

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Nonsense.

lols. Don't crucify him, everyone is entitled to his/her opinion

Sophyrocks: There is nothing like ideal age gap because each and everyone of us have different age gaps we are comfortable with. It depends on individual. She must make sure he never uses this age gap to be verbally, emotionally and physically abusive. If he isnt the abusive type, fine.

i quite agree wit you and if the lady won't mind people tagging her a gold digger, like she married the man for his money

Yomieluv: 20 years.

wow that's more like getting married to one's father na. God forbid bad thing

yuncka: Check wen U started having puberty, add 9months to it/or 1yr aproximtly. If the sum total U get is equal or above d age bracket between U and d person. Dnt marry. D presumed love wil fade wit old age.

see analysis! What if the person started at 15

One of my friends shared this with me, she's in love with a man 14 years older than her and her parents doesn't want to hear about it. Left to me i quite agree with her parents. I think the ideal age difference should not be more than 5 years. Am i right or wrong pls enlighten me

Bryan12: All these features you mentioned cannot be found in an average 21st century guy.

with God, all things are possible

Bryan12: Unfortunately for you this is the 21st century.

how do you mean?

God wil help us in this generation. Morals has really degenerated. You see people mocking those dat still manage to uphold their moral standards. Half unclothedness has now become the in thing now pple have forgotten that cloth was invented to cover our unclothedness and not to show it. Its only God dat can help us

we can't date if 1. You are not a child of God 2. You are not handsome in my sight as beauty is in d eye of d beholder 3. You are not at least taller than me and dark in complexion 4. You are not caring. Tks

Virgin this, Virgin that. Una no dey tire?

this post made me remember a nursery rhyme which goes thus: "learn to say please if you want anything, learn to say sorry if you hurt someone, learn to say thank you in appreciation and God will be with you"

Omonipon (child is strong)

lalasticlala: It's a mixture of medical and social advantages.


1 STIs: there is no way a virgin an be infected with STIs·

2 HIV-AIDS: There is no way a virgin can have AIDS or HIV infection, which is transmitted by sexual interactions. She may still be at risk with the blood infection through cut skin etc but this last category forms only 5% or less of HIV infections.

3 Unwanted pregnancies: There is no way a virgin can become pregnant

4 Falling in love: A virgin does not fall in love with any and all persons ho comes her way the way non-virgin do and therefore make some avoidable mistakes. To most virgins, love is not blind; it has some sense, although it may be a little vision impaired.

5 Lust: Most of the activities of non-virgins are borne out of lust which we shall define here as an exaggeration of the feeling of love to such a point that it becomes closer to hate than love. Most people have seen how those in 'lust' have harmed their objects of affection in the name of jealousy or anger etc. True love is calm and never violent and never wants to harm. What teenagers call 'crush', infatuation' etc are just naked lust. And most sexually abnormal behaviors, which tend to inflict harm, are all borne out of lust and not love. Here we define anything abnormal as one that provides more harm to the biology of the individual (that is his true nature), than good.

6 Love: There is a lot of true love in virgin marriages. A woman who marries as a virgin rarely sees, or complains of problems as often as the non-virgin. Sometimes (or most times) in interpersonal relationships, it is our perception of situation that created problems which ordinary do not exist.

7 Getting married: It is difficult to find a virgin who has a problem getting married and usually at very early age which biology teaches is the optimal time for conception and establishing long and lasting relationship. For most female this must be under 25 years. A woman of the age of 27 and above is considered in medical science to be past her prime of having safe first conception.

8 Preparation for marriage: Virgins tend to be better prepared for marriage than non-virgins because of excitement. The non-virgins are worried about the future and have to make conscious effort to let their marriage work if they so wish.

9 Fun: There is lot of fun and excitement for the virgin couple on wedding night. I know a couple he spent two nights trying to break a thick hymen. The bride jokingly told the groom to please hire someone to do it for him if he cannot perform.

10 Respect from Husband: Most men tend to respect virgins throughout their marriage vows. Virgins rarely have break up marriages. I am yet to see a man who will divorce a woman whom he married as a virgin.

11 Sexual deviation: It is difficult to define deviation in sexual behavior but we can say it is any form of sexual behavior that causes biological harm. But it is impossible to see a true virgin involved in any form of sexual behavior that may be considered deviant by any standard.

12 Infertility: It is difficult to find a woman who got married as virgin having problems getting pregnant. Although there may be some born with infertility problem, but the acquired ones are not found in virgins. For example STIs which cause infertility by scarring reproductive organs in both male and female are no found in virgins.

13 Beauty: The beauty of an innocent woman is indescribable. It is like new rose.


http://www.oluwoleogunranti.com/afash/scientificvirginity.htm


Do you agree with all these points?

so so true, God bless you for this post. at last a deviation from dangers of marrying a virgin and the likes

donroxy: Hiaan, If I here ..... Huh, I believe you

lols

SURULERE

its not a must to get married. Life is all about choices, you choose your choice and live with the consequence happily ever after