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marieolae: Virginity. It's a big word. But I don't think u should regret the fact that u lost your virginity after marriage. Its a blessing that most people tend to loose. You followed your heart, and that's the most important thing. But there comes a time when you grow from a girl into a woman. Sex is a beautiful thing. And its meant for a man and a woman. Why u feel disgusting and ashamed I don't understand! God believes that as a married couple, you should be fruitful and multiply. Its in Genesis. He said " Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it". Well I don't know if its the OP..but that's my advice to the lady that wrote this.

God bless you jare sister. At op Dat you regret ur decision doesn't mean others will its a free world everyone should do what works for him/her not imposing their opinion on others. A T M is still d best method. God help us

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teeo: No precious again joor abi you no know. Na only me waka come but you fit follow me go

eeyah sowi abt dat o

This is nonsense. All non virgins were once virgins so wat is ur stress about virgins. If you can't marry one don't bad month them for those who can. Tks

God is indeed great. Awamaridi nise Oluwa

Lateralmaths: She married him today. At the end of the wedding party, her mother gave her a newly opened bank savings passbook, with $1000 deposited in it. She told her, "My dear daughter, take this passbook. Keep it as a record of your married life. Whenever something happy and memorable happens in your new life, put some money in. Write down what it's about next to the amount. The more memorable the event is, the more money you can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do the others with your husband. When you look back after many years, you will know how much happiness you've both shared.' She shared this with him after getting home. Both of them thought it was a great idea and couldn't wait to make the next deposit! This is what the passbook looked like after a while: - 7 Feb: $100, his first birthday celebration after marriage - 1 Mar: $300, she gets a salary raise - 20 Mar: $200, vacation - 15 Apr: $2000, She's pregnant! - 1 Jun: $1000, He gets the big promotion and so on... However, as the years went by, they began fighting and arguing over trivial things. They didn't talk much. They regretted that they had married the most nasty person in the world...There was no more love. One day she talked to her Mother. 'Mom, we can't stand it anymore. We have decided to divorce. I can't imagine how I decided to marry this guy!' Her mother replied, 'Sure, that's no big deal. Just do whatever you want, if you really can't stand it. But before that, do one thing. Remember the savings passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out all money and spend it first. You shouldn't keep any record of such a poor marriage.' She agreed with her mother. So she went to the bank, and was waiting in the queue to cancel the account. While she was waiting, she took a look at the passbook record. She looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joyful moments came back to her. Her eyes were filled with tears. She left and went home. When she got home, she handed the passbook to her hubby and asked him to spend the money before getting divorced. So the next day, he went to the bank, and was waiting in the queue to cancel the account. While he was waiting, he took a look at the passbook record. He looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory of all the previous joyful moments came back to him. His eyes were filled with tears. He left and went home. He gave the passbook back to her. She found a new deposit of $5000. And a line next to the record: 'This is the day I realized how much I've loved you throughout all these years. How much happiness you've brought me.' They hugged and cried, putting the passbook back into the safe. Marriage is not a game, it's not easy......but it's beautiful........you will fight and argue, this is normal, because the both of you came from different background, different homes.....were raised by different parents, beliefs and moral......so you cannot expect that everything you say will be accepted by your spouse without their opinion being tendered first.......so before you give up, think back to the good times and to what brought you together in the first place.

Nice post

ayswags: You sound brainwashed.

like i said in my own opinion dat is wat i bliv. Give ur own opinion too and zoom off.

AmiableJay: My sister. Where in Ikire are you from?

irewole local govt sha

sosalekins: trust me..
Girls wid big nose are very honest!
#tesTed and confirmed

LWKMD. very funny

iamord: *clears throat* I think I best fit your description

Lols

early /mid twenties

his face, height, complexion and dressing

A very nice and thought provoking piece. God wil help me not to marry the wrong person in Jesus name. Amen

LWKMD

am interested also. And am in ibadan presently

it is well o, But seriously you need prayer. Maybe there are some forces somewhere impersonatin you to those ladies but i believe there,s nothing God can't do. Take it to God in prayer. All wil be well

i represent ikire. And you forgot to add: School of nursing asubiaro Osogbo

And it is better for him to be an animal. I am proud to be a woman cos am FEARFULLY and WONDERFULLY made by God. I am an Image of God. So if someone prefers to be an animal than being an image of God. Then so be it to him

Happy married life

am the last born of my family but i don't act crazy

Congratulations to them

adolfebad: bwaahahahahahaha you are one funny personality. Your niece removes her pampers herself at ONE when she wants to urinate in the midnight? hahahaha

What next. after removing the pampers she walks to the toilet, squats, pee and come back. Grabs feeding bottle or breast, sucks small, yawn, checks the time then goes off back asleep.

Wetin person no go hear for nairaland.

Seems you have one unique family different from the norm I hear you.

SMH for you. I reserve my comment

adolfebad: Madam what he's telling you is that its simply impossible to stop bedwetting by 1, when you can't talk yet or polly still wear pampers.

Take the correction now in good light and don't go embarrasing yourself or your parents in public by saying such.

excuse me am not embarrassing anyone here try and get my point. The fact that you stopped betwetting at 15 does not make everybody do dat and d fact dat i stopped at one does not make everybody do dat also. I av a niece dat won't pee in her pampers at one she wil cry or remove it herself b4 urinating and i av a nephew dat stil uses pampers at 3 so am stating fact here. And pls for the last time don't quote me again. If you can't accept the fact pls kindly ignore my post then

bennyrazz: how can you say your mother told you, you stopped bed wetting at the age of one and you believed her?? lies parents tell children. let me analyse somethings to you.

At Age 1, some toddlers are still crawling and trying to hold on to something to stand up while others start to take baby steps at 9months. At age 1 most babies can't talk they can only say little words like papa, mummy, mama, dada. At that age most mothers still wear diapers for their babies. So if you look at it, mothers can attest to the fact that babies under ages 2 still wee in their diapers and if they don't wear them they wee on the bed.

that is wat my parents told me so whether you believe or not is not my problem. Say ur own too and get away, nobody shld quote me again plsssss

bennyrazz: some Nairalanders can lie ooo

seriously, why should i lie wen its not that you want to arrest me wit police. And its not like am tryin to get anyone's approval. But y do some pple find it hard to bliv others. The fact dat you bed wet til you were 20 does not mean others did the same, pls get a life

God bless you for this insightful thread.

yes. At least i do. And i believe there are other ladies out there dat appreciate ur type of person

yes o, God makes everything beautiful in his time

MisterLongman: Where is the proof that makes it a fact

sex in itself is a covenant, not to talk of de flowering a lady on top of it. It means dat all the load i.e evil or good things d lady is carrying is exchanged wit urs and vice versa. So abstinence is really the best option. My own opinion

mum said i stopped at one and dats one of the reason y my father really liked me.

luvlyqueen: wen u deflower a grl ur indirectly taking a BLOOD convenant with her,

fact

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