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Alondrah:
Hi

How are you doing today? Hope you had a stress free day

Not totally Yes.

Was told you had a date today, how was it?

Alondrah:
I couldn't reply with my main the other day because it was banned, Well I wish same too cause you indirectly helped me that day. When you called my attention to SPD, I researched on it.

I hope you've seen a shrink now

Lol..... No.

FitnessDoctor:
Like I said before, theories are more easy to postulate.. To create effective practical steps, a close connection to you will be required.. Your lifestyle, your past, your background, your upbringing... All these things add up and it works differently for different people... General practical steps which I would normally give may not work for you, but I am sure with a closer connection, you and I can go deeper

Anything to make the book a possibility is welcomed.

You can ask me any question.

Alondrah:
Honestpen


Your attention is needed here

I keep wondering these days what my first wish will be the day I escape the block wall of emotional incarceration, my SPD, and I find out it will be making you my best friend.


Uhm, My Doctor, as Alondrah pointed out, It will be more than okay if you can proffer not just a theoretical but practical steps into overcoming that constraining compelation of the mind. You should understand what that means.

Kondomatic:
There seems to be a contradiction there @Emboldened



You care but you like that James Bond feeling

Probably true. The care is I don't care given the norms expected from friends outing the gender. I am worried because I am making somebody worried.

NaWetinDey:
Do you have sex with her? If yes, then you are either a sadist or mentally unbalanced. Either way, you need help.

Although, you have not told us if you are ugly but your pocket is as beautiful as a model. That will help nairaland investigators and shrinks to do a perfect job on/for you. Good luck.

Sex and schizoids are not on the same page. It's one of the reasons I do not want beyond the friendship level. Sex irritates me most in life.

Your second paragraph? I don't think I am ugly.

JacksonD7:
Keep talking to her, find an expert to explain things if you can. And can schizoid disorder be treated?, if yes work on that.

All treatments are psychologically bounded to that inner will to break those rigid wall of limitation which is basically lacking, so far there has been no cure. As per the expert, I will try that out.

Honestly speaking, I can't convince myself what this is, love or stubbornness, I simply can't find the right word. I mean, I can't relate at all.

I met Sophia(not real name) not quite a long time ago. Nothing so exceptional about the meeting just that I find in her an unusual friendliness that continually assure trust and sincerity, and this reliance I can't describe. Sophia quite has been supportive and understanding except for this one case which is constantly giving me concern. Sophia wants something I can give, my love and attention.

I am a schizoid. I and emotions are certainly not on the same level. It's not like I don't have emotions, just that I can't call it to the surface, can't get in touch with it. Even our friendship has been characterised with this lack of care and affection. I have told her we can't possibly be more than friends due to the SPD but she doesn't seem to understand and it is getting me worried.

I sincerely don't know how to explain this further to her. She can't view things from my perspective. Any idea on how to make her understand things will be helpful.

Cc: Lalasticlala

Stop being conscious of your sins.

Bumbae1:
For some people food is better than sex wahlahi ..
i pick ewa agoyin over a guy everytime

But i wont want a house help .. .. no room for temptation

Lol......funny you. I don't think any man can be tempted with you as his wife.

tosyne2much:
Those are the things that can trap any man

Not any man.

Bumbae1:
Toks what about womens needs too
What is the way to our heart
Lol dont say money

Op right though food and kitty ... hand in hand

Understanding revelled with constant admiration i believe is the key to any woman's heart irrespective of personality. However to me, I will prefer food to sex. But then, women are not slaves, cooking or other room as they tag it should be a duty shared in understanding. Why should wife cook, when there is luxury for house help?

Alesandese:
That's a personality disorder, you know? And it should be treated

Something out of the norm is not a disorder.

A mad man sees a sane man as a mad man, while a sane man sees the same thing for a mad man.

If you ask me, I will say the man that talks unnecessarily to other people and desire marriage plays the crazy man, that's from a schizoid view but then, to you, anyone that sees this in a different way is crazy, abnormal, with personality disorder.

There is nothing wrong with schizoids, we are not broken machines, and we don't need to be fixed.

Let them strike, what's my business. In any case, we would have by then here in OAU be done with our examinations.

OAU.

Don't know, but sex irritates the hell out of me. But then, what's wrong with that born again guy, why turn his dick to a disk?

cherriex:
why not?

Because Schizoids don't marry, and i am one.

Wish I can marry one day. Sad.

Toks2008:
Biko receive sense and see this as a creative piece rather than launching unwarranted attacks.

There is no creativity in nonsense.

firstking01:
The both are anti-social beings...the thing is, schizoids are far worst psycopaths.

Man is by nature a social animal; an individual who is unsocial naturally and not accidentally is either beneath our notice or more than human. Anyone who does not partake of society is either a beast or a god."

​— Aristotle, Politics​

Unsocial not antisocial.

shinarlaura:
I don't even know where I belong

You might be just a normal person.

Divay22:
When you meet them you wonder if they talk,but when you get to know them shutting them up will be the next thing on your mind.....

They rarely talk,but engaged them in a topic of their interest you don buy market be that.

Introversion is extroversion buried.

Divay22:
their own is worse,to me They need help...
I'm fine with an introvert

lol....... they varies; the degree. For example, I am a schizoid, I can be introverted, extroverted, cold and responsive at the same time towards someone while other schizoids can't be that flexible.

Aside the emotional incarceration which can be escaped with a trigger, I will say a schizoid may just be perfect for your personality.

firstking01:
They are kinda inter-related in character.

I am a schizoid, they are not related in any way.

Divay22:
but on a second thought like attract like,it all comes down to your understanding of the both of you.....

But I and extrovert I find it hard to cope ,like just won't understand he is a talkative,or if i refuse to go to party it will look like I'm outdated.....

But dating your like,mehn You guys don't just care about the world,both of you together is the world........
If wishes do come through I'll wanna date my LIKE...(introvert)

You can try out schizoids. They have the introversion in extremities. Trust it will be more than comfortable.

Alesandese:
Yea yea.... I'm an introvert * Rolls eyes*

Number 8

Not necessarily an introvert, you might just be yet this rare awesome specie called schizoids.

firstking01:
They are all in the same both.

It differs in great extremities.

darbeelicous:
extroverts rock mehnn..... We're living the real life as it ought to be

Knows what God feels like not needing anyone, same with introverts, that feeling of independence, not having your happiness defined by others. You sure want that feeling.

firstking01:
You just said it bro, you just said it...it's hell dating an introvert.

What do you say then about schizoids?