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Until she answers to this question LIVE on a visual interview broadcast, I'll neither disagree nor agree. . Àdùnní-dunnì.

40K. . Non-negotiable, and yet no pictures ?? OK.

Nice. . Good move!

But, the implementation and retention of this innovation is the main bone of contention; will this ever come into actualization and, for how long . .or it's all just words-of-mouth?

WELL . . .

Merely understanding girls/ladies isn't really the problem here, it's you knowing what to do—I mean, the exact thing to make her stay away; well, that's if you really meant it.

Now, you need to know that we all ain't wired-up the same way, be it psychologically, mentally, or in every other aspects, both males and females, sensitivities and understandings vary; a somewhat reason one may say common-sense is sparsely common.

See, not everybody has the ability to or interest in read-ing, decipher-ing, absorb-ing or reach-ing conclusions based on whatever subtle digs you signal them, most people don't look out for that, some don't even get them; that being said, a lady truly in love or deeply struck and affected by attraction would possibly give every reasonable doubts even if she's seeing the obvious, until an evident fact presents itself; which prompts me to ask—Have you verbally denounced her and her love personally to her face, in person? Because, it's one thing for one to signal subtle digs, it's another for one's actions to correlate those signals; she might be seeing something different which still makes her stick around, perhaps she might just be one ardent clingy personality, which isn't that bad.

All that I'm saying is, there's nothing as evident and factual as words being said, it may be lies— that'd still go down as a "factual lie".
Here's what I think you should do: Sit her down and ensue a serious dialogue with her, not banters, and no small talks, discuss your denouncement with/to her; don't be rude or abusive but, TELL HER. . . LET HER KNOW.
Make it known to her so she won't keep wasting away her time and emotional investments/efforts . . I'd bet there're other guys out there that'd do anything to have her; just be realistic with her or maybe tell her there's someone else, be respectfully blunt, with no smiles or grins, mean it; you, try and do that —I don't think any sane and responsible lady would still stick around afterwards, unless she's really psychotic.

One last thing, be mindful of how you go about the dissociation with her, ensure it's an amicable one with mutual understanding and she will respect you and appreciate your sincerity afterwards; control your temper, hurling abuses and provoking contemptuous malice is needless, as that would only embed long-lasting grudges which is seemingly irrevokable —don't burn the bridge, just walk away from it . . because, you don't know tomorrow, and it's really a small world indeed; I'll assume you know what I mean, since you're fond of subtle digs. Much has been said, I guess.

"After all, when a woman truly loves, she loves for real" — Robert S. Kelly.

. . thanks.

BUT THEN . . .

Broke is BROKE, no matter how one choose to paraphrase or obscure it; because deep-down, he'd still know that he's Broke, and that's ugly. Could be depressing, even.

Now, without disputing these facts that "money doesn't make a man", money ain't really everything, well. . that's true; but then, money is still key —immaculate packaging, appealing courtesy, down-to-earth attributes, convivial sense of humor and affable mannerisms don't take on financial responsibilities, they don't pay the bills; hence, a man needs to make money.

I mean, how prevaricate can any broke guy act in any "love relationship". . for how long can be evasive? —Of course, someone has to expend money as there would be expenses, no matter how inexpensive; that essence of financial capability must at least be perceived otherwise, the love would just burn out or wither away in no time, after much of the fondness and physical attractions have phased out.

All I'm saying is, "financial security" is still a cornerstone in any whatever relationship(s) and should/must NOT be neglected —Let the broke ones strive and hustle to make money as they self-develop themselves, simultaneously.


"I just wanna stay broke forever", that's that shii no one ever said — Gerald E. Gillum.

Our Nigerians in this Nigeria though. . common hangout, even ordinary side-talks is dating to them. LOL!

So, 2017 BBN Winner and second runner-up cannot run adverts/campaign photoshoot sessions together in peace again? —Now that they're both public figures oo. Choi!!

The beauty of a Happy Marriage though.

fastgyal:
A twitter handle @kendus11 asked EFCC a question and got this reply.

A ".dat" file? Oh, c'mon!

24sqm:
Read your Bible bro, sex is suppose to be done the normal way and not otherwise.

So, the Bible condemns and prohibits sexual stimulation and fore-play, ba? Tch!

Oya, state the Books of the Bible, chapters and verses that prove this your claims.

Waawu!! So, Tonto Dikeh too thinks Marriage is an Investment with exit plans, eh? LOL!
Oya, let's see who'd be the next Nigerian man to ring her again now.

WELL . . .

TRUEEEEEE . . . BUT !!


Broke is BROKE, no matter how you choose to paraphrase or obscure it; because deep-down, he'd still know that he's Broke, and that's ugly. Could be depressing, even.

Now, without disputing these facts that "money doesn't make a man", money ain't really everything, well. . that's true; but then, money is still key —immaculate packaging, appealing courtesy, down-to-earth attributes, convivial sense of humor and affable mannerisms don't take on financial responsibilities, they don't pay the bills; hence, a man needs to make money.

I mean, how prevaricate can any broke guy act in any "love relationship". . for how long can be evasive? —Of course, someone has to expend money as there would be expenses, no matter how inexpensive; that essence of financial capability must at least be perceived otherwise, the love would just burn-out or wither away in no time, after much of the fondness and physical attractions have phased out.

All I'm saying is, "financial security" is still a cornerstone in any whatever relationship(s) and should/must NOT be neglected —Let the broke ones strive and hustle to make money as they self-develop themselves, simultaneously.


"I just wanna stay broke forever", that's that shii no one ever said — Gerald E. Gillum.

. . thanks.

▶ Only Time - Enya. ♪

kokosin:
witches

Naah!! African China mentioned and referenced OPC (Oduduwa People Congress), and not APC .. the fact that you never heard of them does not warrant your embedment of this vague opinion in this manner.

... update your facts!