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Education / Re: Sell Your Jamb Pin Here by Hotonions: 7:55am On May 29, 2021
SamgoldBaba:
grin

Jamb pin,
Are you sure that will be a safe approach??

What do you suggest I do. I'm stranded
Education / Re: Sell Your Jamb Pin Here by Hotonions: 7:55am On May 29, 2021
Commmy:
You can't use an e-pin that has already been purchased by another person because the e-pin is tied to your profile code and number.

Last year I sold my e-pin to someone and the person used it. The only thing was that the person later on had to make some amendments to his details
Education / Sell Your Jamb Pin Here by Hotonions: 9:26pm On May 28, 2021
Please I urgently need a jamb pin. My profile code was delayed and I just received it tonight but now I hear its too late to purchase a pin. Please is there anyone that has a pin for sale I'd like to buy it
Crime / Re: Father Of Priscilla Ojong: My Daughter Is Still Missing (Video) by Hotonions: 7:48am On May 17, 2021
AntiAPC2023:
I taya oh.
it's Crutech and not unicross

Its actually unical and not crutech or unicross
Crime / Re: Priscilla Ojong Still Missing - Friends Of UNICROSS Student Stage Protest Walk by Hotonions: 8:38am On May 16, 2021
It's very likely that she was compelled to make that video by her captors. Everything about that video screams danger. The dark room where the video was made is very suspicious. Why didn't she make the video in a nicer a environment. Plus no filter, very unlike her. Let's not talk about the clothes...how many days since she travelled and she is still wearing the same clothes. Those that know her know what they saw
Romance / Re: To Be Good Or To Utilize My Youth? by Hotonions: 4:06pm On May 12, 2021
poshestmina:



Thank you very much for your post, this particular one has really encouraged me
Romance / To Be Good Or To Utilize My Youth? by Hotonions: 10:21pm On May 11, 2021
Permit me to rant a little but its become so hard to be a good girl.

The pressure is too much. I feel like nothing works for me anymore because I'm not allowing myself to follow trends. Is there even any assurance that there's a reward for not doing bad things or will i grow old regretting my wasted youth that I did not use to have fun.

The difference between my friends and I is always so clear. I honestly can't point out 3 of my peers (classmates, old friends new friends relatives) who uphold integrity like I've been taught to do. Everything is about money now anything to grab the bag.

I try my best to be as independent as I can so I don't feel as much pressure to go into illicit dealings out of desperation but it seems like none of that is paying off.

My first job was at the age of 17 the same year I finished my secondary school not necessarily because i needed the money then (i was still very young and very dependent on my parents) but because i was trying to build myself towards independence in fact during that period my older siblings were at home relaxing. I dedicated my time to only productive things.. No flexing no partying nada. I was all about work work work.
I thought I was disciplinhg myself but in the long term I don't really see how that had helped. Anyway I left the job at the age of 18 because I was being used by my boss. A whole year of service and I'd only gotten paid for 3 months. Now to the present, I'm in my early 20's and I have a truckload of work experience which hasnt really been of any help to me.

Recently, I attended a wedding not as a guest but for work purposes and I met some of my old schoolmates, every single person seems to be doing well from hair to clothes right down to their skin its obvious that these people are on bar. whether its illicit money oo or legit money i really dont know but what i saw was that this people were doing way better off than me. Its easier to say it's fake life when you see them on social media but when you come face to face with physical evidence there's obviously no denial...now this really got me thinking...is there any use maintaining this whole good girl thing? E no dey even pay. Besides in the long run its not like these girls can't settle down. and turn a new leaf isn't that eating your cake and having it back...what do I even have to gain from all this...moreover even the legit work I'm trying to do people have refused to regard it. Not because I'm not offering quality services oo but because I refuse to play dumb and satisfy their pervertous taste.

At work, i often get advances from older men and married men which makes up a higher percentage of my customer base. This advances which i can easily manipulate to my advantage and monetize i turn down. On the other hand im aware that if i do decide to play along knowing fully well i have no intentions to reciprocate their feelings (which is technically scamming) i could make so much money not only for my business but for my pocket as well. Ater turning down several advances I decided to give it a try today. I gave an older man from work my number. As appreciation for giving him my number I received a shocking alert of over 30k. This is money that I will toil and toil for weeks in business I will not see but just for phone number I was gifted this? I really need some convincing at this point that good does pay. I don't want to waste away my beneficial years when I could be utilizing it.
Romance / To Be Good Or To Utilize My Youth? by Hotonions: 10:15pm On May 11, 2021
Permit me to rant a little but its become so hard to be a good girl. The pressure is too much. I feel like nothing works for me anymore because I'm not allowing myself to follow trends. Is there even any assurance that there's a reward for not doing bad things or will i grow old regretting my wasted youth that I did not use to have fun. The difference between my friends and I is always so clear. I honestly can't point out 3 of my peers (classmates, old friends new friends relatives) who uphold integrity like I've been taught to do. Everything is about money now anything to grab the bag. I try my best to be as independent as I can so I don't feel as much pressure to go into illicit dealings out of desperation but it seems like none of that is paying off. My first job was at the age of 17 the same year I finished my secondary school not necessarily because i needed the money then (i was still very young and very dependent on my parents) but because i was trying to build myself towards independence in fact during that period my older siblings were at home relaxing. I dedicated my time to only productive things.. No flexing no partying nada. I was all about work work work. I thought I was disciplinhg myself but in the long term I don't really see how that had helped. Anyway I left the job at the age of 18 because I was being used by my boss. A whole year of service and I'd only gotten paid for 3 months. Now to the present, I'm in my early 20's and I have a truckload of work experience which hasnt really been of any help to me. Recently, I attended a wedding not as a guest but for work purposes and I met some of my old schoolmates, every single person seems to be doing well from hair to clothes right down to their skin its obvious that these people are on bar. whether its illicit money oo or legit money i really dont know but what i saw was that this people were doing way better off than me. Its easier to say it's fake life when you see them on social media but when you come face to face with physical evidence there's obviously no denial...now this really got me thinking...is there any use maintaining this whole good girl thing? E no dey even pay. Besides in the long run its not like these girls can't settle down. and turn a new leaf isn't that eating your cake and having it back...what do I even have to gain from all this...moreover even the legit work I'm trying to do people have refused to regard it. Not because I'm not offering quality services oo but because I refuse to play dumb and satisfy their pervertous taste. At work, i often get advances from older men and married men which makes up a higher percentage of my customer base. This advances which i can easily manipulate to my advantage and monetize i turn down. On the other hand im aware that if i do decide to play along knowing fully well i have no intentions to reciprocate their feelings (which is technically scamming) i could make so much money not only for my business but for my pocket as well. Ater turning down several advances I decided to give it a try today. I gave an older man from work my number. As appreciation for giving him my number I received a shocking alert of over 30k. This is money that I will toil and toil for weeks in business I will not see but just for phone number I was gifted this? I really need some convincing at this point that good does pay. I don't want to waste away my beneficial years when I could be utilizing it.

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Romance / Re: I Love Him So Much But I'm Afraid I've Lost Him. by Hotonions: 11:26pm On Dec 10, 2020
I don't even blame you...if I had read this post last month I would have accused you of not using your head but after going through something similar to this recently my advice to you is to leave this guy alone ooo. Apparently baba is hot stuff and is looking for better knacks (I've come to discover that guys brag about the calibre of ladies they are able to lay as if the mere fact that they've been in bed with this person adds value to their being). They'll show off your pictures to their buddies and get credit for being able to get someone as hot or as successful as you are (something they cannot get from knacking olosho ) don't allow this to be your case. he probably hurries conversations with you and wants to get to know everything about you as quickly as possible. This is because for a "decent girl" its most likely that you wont let someone you are not well acquinted with have access to your body so if getting to know you is what will make you comfortable enough with him to let him touch you then by all means tell me everything about yourself. He'll want to know everything as quickly as possible almost as if there's a deadline on his head that's a red flag, an obvious sign that he doesn't intend to have anything long term with you.
Saying I love you is one thing but acting it is another. Do his actions match his words? I bet this guy hasn't invested shi shi in you. Why would he anyway knowing fully well whatever is going on isn't meant to last. Even the plane ticket is based on promises not like he actually paid o set you're still the one that is sponsoring yourself meanwhile this is someone that is supposed to be "financially stable" mtcheww

If a little disappointment and he's ghosting you like this imagine how much more painful it would have been if he actually got under the sheets with thee.
Use ya head

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Religion / Re: How Do I Receive The Holy Spirit? by Hotonions: 12:19am On Nov 23, 2020
zakkxx:
My brother the Bible says the Devil believe so much that he trembled. you cannot believe more than the devil because he was with God physically. your victory is in your overcoming sin (not believe in God), such as lost, fornication etc. if you have a girlfriend forget it holy ghost cannot stay with you because your body is the temple of the holy ghost. mind what you watch- if u de watch BBN or American movies forget it. is hard my brother- don't play circular songs only listen to gospel music only! now you know why u don't feel the comforter. E hard men, if you know your marriage is not any time soon live your girlfriend along you will not die, don't go to parties because they will surely place circular songs. once you do this lost will die, u will begin to see every lady like your Sister, all this slay queens they will begin to smell to u no matter how they dress. more grace brother man.

Thanks for the input. But it's sister not brother
Religion / How Do I Receive The Holy Spirit? by Hotonions: 1:45am On Nov 22, 2020
I need your advice on how to go about with this. I am born again and I have been baptized for years now and yet I don't feel like I posses the holy spirit it's something I want really badly and yet I don't see myself receiving it.
Note: this is not as a result of lack of belief because I very much believe in the holy spirit and his works.
I also know that with the Holy Spirit to navigate you, the race becomes easier to run

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Crime / Re: Policeman On Bonnet Of Speeding Vehicle Of Lady Who Refused To Stop by Hotonions: 2:47am On Apr 16, 2020
The so called officer even had the audacity to wear bathroom slippers and stop her. I don't blame her for refusing to wind down who knows he might have even been a fake seeing that he wasn't even in proper uniform at the time he flagged her down. Talk about the risk she would have put herself in with his unprotected mouth, who knows how many people he had already come in contact with earlier that day
Politics / Re: Coronavirus: No To 5G In Nigeria - Dino Melaye Tells FG by Hotonions: 10:16pm On Apr 04, 2020
benji93:
You better get off this space and do some studying. You are seriously lagging behind in your knowledge regarding these things. As much as it would be scientifically foolish to say 5G created Coronavirus. It's not ridiculous to say 5G could worsen the effect of Coronavirus in the mutation of the genetic material of the virus. 5G and the current devastating CoronaVirus strain are new things and no one knows for sure if 5G affects the behavior of Corona Virus in cells. As much as it's foolish to take such a hypothesis as fact, it would foolish not to think it could be True. We'll find out as this plays out. Don't be melodramatic. Why don't you sit down and watch the movie? Given the fact that the US has the highest number of cases but haven't began deploying 5G yet(allegedly), it's quite premature to assert any link between the two.

Of course you don't expect the same proponents of this 5g to tell you that their product is harmful. No salesman discredits their work. These people are all working under some government or another trying to convince as many countries as possible to buy into the idea if 5g.
Politics / Re: Coronavirus: No To 5G In Nigeria - Dino Melaye Tells FG by Hotonions: 10:11pm On Apr 04, 2020
benji93:
You better get off this space and do some studying. You are seriously lagging behind in your knowledge regarding these things. As much as it would be scientifically foolish to say 5G created Coronavirus. It's not ridiculous to say 5G could worsen the effect of Coronavirus in the mutation of the genetic material of the virus. 5G and the current devastating CoronaVirus strain are new things and no one knows for sure if 5G affects the behavior of Corona Virus in cells. As much as it's foolish to take such a hypothesis as fact, it would foolish not to think it could be True. We'll find out as this plays out. Don't be melodramatic. Why don't you sit down and watch the movie? Given the fact that the US has the highest number of cases but haven't began deploying 5G yet(allegedly), it's quite premature to assert any link between the two.
Politics / Re: Coronavirus: No To 5G In Nigeria - Dino Melaye Tells FG by Hotonions: 9:40pm On Apr 04, 2020
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Crime / Re: Man Caught Defiling A 15-Year-Old Girl In Lagos, Says We Have Enjoyed Ourselves by Hotonions: 8:31pm On Feb 22, 2020
Lmao. Udemes on Nairaland rn

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