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generationz:
There was a post on this same issue some days back on Stella dimoko korkus blog on the daily series: chronicles of a blog visitor


You guys will have to see a gynaecologist

Its a medical condition I believe


The gynaecologist might be the one to deflower her with a finger and then you guys can use different sizes of dildos till she's comfortable.


The muscle around her vagina is stronger than normal

You'll have to be very patient and loving to her because its going to be a long journey for you both.

You guys can try other ways to satisfy yourself
You can check google for other ways to sexually satisfy your partner apart from penetrative sex


Go to Stella dimoko blog , scroll down you'll see her mail

Send her your story .

TheQuirkyPen993:
Obviously, this goat never marry. He just want comment. Person wey never get job.

lulufaj:
Hi,

I read your story and my advice will be for you to go to the hospital and be seen by a good gynaecologist.
endometriosis and vulvar vestibulitis syndrome, read about those 2 things. You can message me if you will like to get help.
Gooddluck.

Actuarydeji:
Congrats man! You're receiving the best gift ever. Anyway, you don't need any lubricant sef, you need long pre-intimacy and after that you will ensure that she has wet very well, but at the point of entry do enter fast, you will be entering slowly, slowly, and come out a bit, and again you thrust slowly after that you can now connect the wire into the speaker and with that you will hear a very strange voice. I wish you all the best.

Prakash247:
Alright,I am eating now.I don't talk while eating.I will answer you when am done.You know am a badass professional.

Prakash247:
There r better things u can do with your life.Ain't u tired of all these sex talk..BTW,how old are you?

CHESTER48:
once dated a girl like your wife. Just eat her pusssy, when she is trying to cum. I mean squirt then immediately go in at that moment. Or if you don't want to eat her, you can Bleep her clit. Let her stand up, then put you dick in between her legs and bring it up to her vagina. Then Bleep her like that, she will like it. Let her close her legs. And grip your dick with her laps or thighs. Then Bleep when she is bout to cum, carry her to bed immediately and Bleep

somehow:
All true virgins sees their husband's dick as big, if it's otherwise, then your woman is no virgin.

somehow:
Quit giving her head until you drill the oil bloc.

One more thing, you can ask her to play with her clit when you're trying to enter. playing with the clit increases the urge and enjoyment, reduces her concentration on the pains.

Prakash247:
While you await the matured advice,I just want to let u know that you r clueless.Is sex food?

LilMissFavvy:
Hmm....I am giving this advice because you are a married man, otherwise I wouldn't. To me it's normal, because Some women are like that, it will take a while before you will succeed. Even after you are able to enter, she will still be complaining of pains during sex. Maybe after a year or so, she will be fine. How can you even think of disvigining a gal from the back, very bad idea. Also, no virgin would enjoy fingering, the best tool to use to go in is your stuff, but you need time and patience. You can still visit a doctor if you wish.

ThePreachersSon:
Your wife may have Vaginimus.

Vaginismus: When your body just says no to sex, and fears penetration.

The vaginal muscles tighten up and the woman has no control over it.

Someone with it may find it hard inserting a tampon, struggle to have sex or feel a burning or stinging pain.

I'm not so sure. But, if this is what she has you shouldn't force it. Else you should be prepared for penis captivus, a situation when you get stuck inside her.

famouscargo4u:
She is not an underage. She is 28 years old. I know because she is my ex.
Hubbyofavirgin, be patient with her and at the same time , be a man and do a full thrust once unexpectantly.

Mrkumareze:
Wow. I had the same experience but mine was done same night .. I had to pour sperm on the surface then come up again.. not easy anyway but I finally made it... it cost me my lovely bed sheet...

somehow:
Dated and courted mine for 11 years, it wouldn't have passed 2 days if not for the fact that she was always afraid. but as soon as i made head way, she became ever ready. just deal with her fears and once there's a breakthrough, na she go kill you with demand if you do it well o.

I forgot to add this, please teach her too on what to do, control her and let her trust you. please do not give her head before breaking in, otherwise, she won't enjoy sex without head. after breaking through, you can give her head once a while if she's clean o. (no offense meant)

frozen70:
Unless you have a big dick, she should have been getting use to it by now

You actually knows that she is a virgin and you went for it without considering this particular issue

Ask her how she wants it done that will make it less painful for her

For how long will she be in that state and sti expect to be pregnant

Making love yo her 2/3times a week will help to open the passage for her

Like I said earlier, if you have a big dick, then that is where the problem lyes

somehow:
Make sure you try it multiple times a day until you get in.

Enough lubrication

Enough pre-intimacy

Try to find out what tickles her Fancy.
None should wear clothes all through
If you're to have sex that day, try preparing her mind as early as possible. Flirt with her alot too.

Missionary for a start

Or try the wrapping of her legs to your back.

You must also tease her clit with your shaft until it becomes extremely wet.


Took me almost a week before I got into my wife after wedding

Amanew:
Olodo way no sabi Bleep

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lord have mercy

showstopperss:
I quite understand your plight cos I similarly experienced such which is not a palatable one, my candid advice is just be patient with her even though it takes Gods grace to, pls shun wrong counsel,let her see reason why she needs to surrender her body,let her know its your right to browse her VJ..get ky jelly, or rather seek medical help/counsel, what I discover causing her to react to your touch base on the experience I have with my wife is fear which I believe is also affecting your woman..today myself and wifey has moved on from that level and my patience during those moments made her respect me more till date, wish you all the best brother

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lol. Possible your kini is even too big for d puni. Well, keep trying perhaps she'll get used to you soon. After all d professionals were once virgins too.

rainmoredays:
because here looks a health centre.

By the way, tell your wife to stop using alum to make her V.Iggy tight.

anthonyuncle:
u'll have to be patient with her and will be managing her like until her hole can accommodate ur conveniently

vVera:
you are mentally unstable.

Between the two of us, you know you are the retard.

Attention seeking frustrated bitch.

austyne22ex:
I don't usually do this for free but let me just help u since u just got married...see ehn, after all the pre-intimacy and u are sure she is all wet, don't put the d*ck immediately, try to insert ur index finger first, once that one goes in, insert 2 fingers...gently....if she is able to take both, then give her the dick and tell her to try to insert it herself...it works every time...all the best bro

PS: she would definitely feel pain, u can't make omelet without breaking some eggs...

daddytime:
Gargantuan gbege of enormous proportion...

I hope say the thing never peel your dick finish....

You enter boutique see shoe wey you like...chook hand for pocket...comot ya wallet pay...reach house begin test shoe wey your leg no fit enter....

Which kind wahala be dis my guy...

You for jejely test your market before you buy..
No mind my joke jare...

Go see a doctor...

U no serious oo

yomi007k:
My brother. This mistake is trying after 2 days. You should do it daily till it can accommodate.


Talking from experience.

Furiosa:
I don't explain myself to retards.

sleemoon:
U ll keep trying ooo... Don't relent... Some takes longer b4 it breaks

Aieboocaar:
Which kain unfair world be this??

Marry Virgin = PROBLEM
No Marry Virgin = PROBLEM
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Maybe my brothers smellysperm or iTearToto will have something to say

nzeobi:
my guy enjoy the offer while it lasts.

Amanew:
and u are silly idiot!