HubbyofaVirgin:
Hello Nairalanders,
Please am in serious need of help... I got married 3weeks ago to the love of my life and she's a virgin. We've been trying to have sex since we got married buh she keeps complaining of not being able to bear the pain. We've tried missionary style but it makes it harder for us... Doggy style helps a bit but as soon as am about to hit d jackpot, she cries in pain and jumps away.. Now am out of options.. Please anyone with useful information or advice ll be greatly appreciated...

NB.. I make sure there's pre-intimacy and she's wet before insertion and i also bought a lubricant to make it easier.. Lubricant dun wan finish sef and nothing never happen...

Matured advice and replies only.. Our future depends on it please.. Thanks in anticipation

HubbyofaVirgin:


U mean i should insert 2 of my fingers in her vagina? I tried 1 finger sef gaan she squeals.. 2 fingers go be wahala ooo... Moreover after several attempts and we stop, na after 2days or 3days we retry again

MrBrownJay1:


To tell you the truth, I have done it once and it did work wonders... It is all about the chemistry that you have with the babe. My biting was just a way to have her get focus on something else than the vjay pain. Yes, on the moment it was indeed very painful but within 10 minutes, I was free...and within a month or two, you wouldn't believe this babe was a virgin.

HubbyofaVirgin:


U mean i should insert 2 of my fingers in her vagina? I tried 1 finger sef gaan she squeals.. 2 fingers go be wahala ooo... Moreover after several attempts and we stop, na after 2days or 3days we retry again

richidinho:
Virgin Nigeria girl?

You are very lucky if you are sure she is not using alum

HubbyofaVirgin:
Hello Nairalanders,
Please am in serious need of help... I got married 3weeks ago to the love of my life and she's a virgin. We've been trying to have sex since we got married buh she keeps complaining of not being able to bear the pain. We've tried missionary style but it makes it harder for us... Doggy style helps a bit but as soon as am about to hit d jackpot, she cries in pain and jumps away.. Now am out of options.. Please anyone with useful information or advice ll be greatly appreciated...

NB.. I make sure there's pre-intimacy and she's wet before insertion and i also bought a lubricant to make it easier.. Lubricant dun wan finish sef and nothing never happen...

Matured advice and replies only.. Our future depends on it please.. Thanks in anticipation

HubbyofaVirgin:

Thanks.... I appreciate

HubbyofaVirgin:

Thanks.... I appreciate

Jagaban880:

how old is ur wife self? hope u no go marry underage

austyne22ex:
I don't usually do this for free but let me just help u since u just got married...see ehn, after all the pre-intimacy and u are sure she is all wet, don't put the d*ck immediately, try to insert ur index finger first, once that one goes in, insert 2 fingers...gently....if she is able to take both, then give her the dick and tell her to try to insert it herself...it works every time...all the best bro

PS: she would definitely feel pain, u can't make omelet without breaking some eggs...

somehow:
Make sure you try it multiple times a day until you get in.

Enough lubrication

Enough pre-intimacy

Try to find out what tickles her Fancy.
None should wear clothes all through
If you're to have sex that day, try preparing her mind as early as possible. Flirt with her alot too.

Missionary for a start

Or try the wrapping of her legs to your back.

You must also tease her clit with your shaft until it becomes extremely wet.


Took me almost a week before I got into my wife after wedding

HubbyofaVirgin:



Wow.. Mine is 3weeks now... Ll kip on trying everyday now.. Thanks

frozen70:


Unless you have a big dick, she should have been getting use to it by now

You actually knows that she is a virgin and you went for it without considering this particular issue

Ask her how she wants it done that will make it less painful for her

For how long will she be in that state and sti expect to be pregnant

Making love yo her 2/3times a week will help to open the passage for her

Like I said earlier, if you have a big dick, then that is where the problem lyes

somehow:


Dated and courted mine for 11 years, it wouldn't have passed 2 days if not for the fact that she was always afraid. but as soon as i made head way, she became ever ready. just deal with her fears and once there's a breakthrough, na she go kill you with demand if you do it well o.

I forgot to add this, please teach her too on what to do, control her and let her trust you. please do not give her head before breaking in, otherwise, she won't enjoy sex without head. after breaking through, you can give her head once a while if she's clean o. (no offense meant)

Mrkumareze:
Wow. I had the same experience but mine was done same night .. I had to pour sperm on the surface then come up again.. not easy anyway but I finally made it... it cost me my lovely bed sheet...

famouscargo4u:

She is not an underage. She is 28 years old. I know because she is my ex.
Hubbyofavirgin, be patient with her and at the same time , be a man and do a full thrust once unexpectantly.

ThePreachersSon:
Your wife may have Vaginimus.

Vaginismus: When your body just says no to sex, and fears penetration.

The vaginal muscles tighten up and the woman has no control over it.

Someone with it may find it hard inserting a tampon, struggle to have sex or feel a burning or stinging pain.

I'm not so sure. But, if this is what she has you shouldn't force it. Else you should be prepared for penis captivus, a situation when you get stuck inside her.

LilMissFavvy:
Hmm....I am giving this advice because you are a married man, otherwise I wouldn't. To me it's normal, because Some women are like that, it will take a while before you will succeed. Even after you are able to enter, she will still be complaining of pains during sex. Maybe after a year or so, she will be fine. How can you even think of disvigining a gal from the back, very bad idea. Also, no virgin would enjoy fingering, the best tool to use to go in is your stuff, but you need time and patience. You can still visit a doctor if you wish.

HubbyofaVirgin:
Hello Nairalanders,
Please am in serious need of help... I got married 3weeks ago to the love of my life and she's a virgin. We've been trying to have sex since we got married buh she keeps complaining of not being able to bear the pain. We've tried missionary style but it makes it harder for us... Doggy style helps a bit but as soon as am about to hit d jackpot, she cries in pain and jumps away.. Now am out of options.. Please anyone with useful information or advice ll be greatly appreciated...

NB.. I make sure there's pre-intimacy and she's wet before insertion and i also bought a lubricant to make it easier.. Lubricant dun wan finish sef and nothing never happen...

Matured advice and replies only.. Our future depends on it please.. Thanks in anticipation

essenceplus:




Lubricate first, then start with two fingers. AFter then, you can insert ( lubricated ) when she too's very wet, and move gently ( do not thrust ) doping this for the first 2-3times/days will expand the orifice.

HubbyofaVirgin:




I guess that's my first mistake... I have given her head.. Nd she enjoys it more than ever.... I dun 4ukup sha!

Prakash247:


While you await the matured advice,I just want to let u know that you r clueless.Is sex food?

HubbyofaVirgin:




Although I have never tut of the size of the joystick dou she do complain about the size.... Thanks for the tip

somehow:
Quit giving her head until you drill the oil bloc.

One more thing, you can ask her to play with her clit when you're trying to enter. playing with the clit increases the urge and enjoyment, reduces her concentration on the pains.

somehow:
All true virgins sees their husband's dick as big, if it's otherwise, then your woman is no virgin.

LilMissFavvy:
Hmm....I am giving this advice because you are a married man, otherwise I wouldn't. To me it's normal, because Some women are like that, it will take a while before you will succeed. Even after you are able to enter, she will still be complaining of pains during sex. Maybe after a year or so, she will be fine. How can you even think of disvigining a gal from the back, very bad idea. Also, no virgin would enjoy fingering, the best tool to use to go in is your stuff, but you need time and patience. You can still visit a doctor if you wish.

HubbyofaVirgin:


U mean i should insert 2 of my fingers in her vagina? I tried 1 finger sef gaan she squeals.. 2 fingers go be wahala ooo... Moreover after several attempts and we stop, na after 2days or 3days we retry again