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Did anyone notice how the Youruba culture is used to characterize the Nigerian people.?

Oahray: In your first post, you insinuated that being alpha male makes you able to send attraction signals without truly being attracted

I'm not out to argue the whole of body language with you.

All cleared.

Oahray: smh... This exactly is who a pseud is. Trying so hard to impress. Do you realise that you are mixing up being attractive for being attracted? Charms is part of being 'attractive', not 'attracted'. No wonder you keep presenting alpha male status as the reason you can fake body language. I wonder who taught you that.

Alpha males are attractive, and so are Rakes. However the reasons are different. You do not become a master of body language by being alpha. That's balderdash. Alpha males are attractive because they are confident and seem in charge while with other males. Females are naturally attracted. Rakes are attractive because they are masters of body language and use it to their advantage. They can easily read female body language signals, and send theirs just as easily. This is the group you are describing.

Being Alpha and being a Rake are neither synonymous nor mutually exclusive.

Every other thing you added in your post is simply information ill-dressed to the discussion.

you seem low down the line. And if I have to start defining what an alpha male is to you then the conversion isn't worth it afterall, you keep defining alpha male based on the pick up community that is why there is an argument am coming from a more social and Psychological stand point, you are seeing things from a micro stand point, from the seduction perspective thats why you find it hard to get it. Forgeting that body language isn't just about seduction but simple communication using non verbal cues, that is exactly why things like IDEALITY elude you. Now in few words this is exactly what am saying: Body language is dynamic based on settings and it is never and by no means static niether does a single signal describe a situation every single time it is seen. I do hope that helps throw meaning into it. You seen enthusiastic about seduction which is only one of many situation that employs the same principle in social psychology called non-verbal communication.

Oahray: smh, until you realise that faking the attraction body language cluster is a PUA thing and not an AMOG thing, you know nothing Jon Snow.

You guys have a warped view of dominance. You sound like being alpha male is written on stone. One could be AMOG in a group and yet not be when in another group because there's a more dominant male. An AFC could learn enough to become confident and even be AMOG with a set of people. Thought you'd know that. Well, there are pseuds who think themselves psycho-analysts.

Calm down before you derail am not in contention or negating whatever you are saying you've successfully repeated the same thing am saying an AFC turn PUA is just a typical example of those who have mastered the cluster of attraction language. Now there are another set of people, THE Naturals. They aren't fake, infact people assume attraction for this set of people until proven inocent, all this's down to a natural aoura they create not because they learn any of those non verbals but because they were born with it (charms), now anyone going about with a piece on body language in an artificial sense is down to get disappointed, I have a first-hand idea of what am talking about body language speaks 60 and 70% of communication based on settings, but there are the exception. Just like not all the thoracics are swift, not all alimentic are slow, not all musculars are troublesome. Just get it atleast if not from anywhere that there is a set called the IDEALS, they are naturals, they are not found everywhere, they definately deviate from the norm I hope you meet one some day maybe a female version. And may I correct your notion an analyst is always an analyst there no such as psuedo analyst because there is a reference point every other you find are mere admirers.

Oahray: smh @ pseudo-alphas... Being alpha male is with respect to other guys, not girls. The only effect is that he's more attractive to females than his peers and may find it easier to get female attention. However if he's interested in a girl he still would unconsciously display the body language attraction cluster.

It's not the same as being the typical Rake (casanova) who have learned to consciously flirt at the slightest opportunity.

Now am telling you that I could mirror act all of those, inculcate it within and still play it out in what is called puedo-persona and it wouldn't still mean anything except to help me get my way with anyone male or female, in essence what am saying is that body language, face reading and what ever you want to add to it eventually fails and do not necessarily mean absolute accuracy for the lay man to start using it in social judgement, except you are a natural at picking cues you would be in for a disappointment. And YES only alpha males can perfect that I mean the AMOG's and not AFC's turn PUA's if get me.. coming from a professional psycho-analyst| post-freudilian.

claireshan: if I hear,,No be only natural,,just talk say you no get money to buy her make-up I will understand

If you get the chance to meet a truely beautiful lady you wouldn't want the extra chemicals on her skin. Trust me. Leave face painting to those who are not particularly endowed with a great face structural genes, its part of courtship behaviour in humans since it creates the illusion of desire in men who are not careful to watch out for the details.
See female body transformation and a research article on facial hieght/width ratio (fHWr) on PT hope that helps the doubters.

This is a serious case of masturbation, she must have enjoyed that night so much to forget a hardware within her system for so long.

He is prolly not interested. Take your emotions else where.

Never! In my life.

You are on your own! I will do all of those things consciously and am still not interested as an alpha male. Same goes with BETA girls.

hot girls get truly hit on surprisingly
rarely

Some guys should learn to realise that atimes people just want to be left alone, and maybe its just not a good day for a conversation. It is also important to understand that not all conversation leads to a relationship beyond acquintance.. So when next a girl is unenthusiastic about talking to you do not misinterpret her acts. You should get a bit of self respect and not violate their boundaries.

Velvet86: I never told u I slept with all of them.

so how many did you sleep with?

Odilafta: We heard you the first time

Besides that's your headache...

if it were my headache I shouldn't get a mention.

I don't like kids!

I don't like kids

I don't like kids!

Haha, sorry o, i have unlimited permit in my country. Am not a tenant.

Weather compression tech or not, data allocation should be equally served and open at same prices, if an android user exceeds limit in shorter time good for them. And if they hang on data compression tech as a reason, then maybe blackberry users should get lesser data since their compression technology means they can utilize lesser data for large downloads.

However, I don't really care because newer blackberry 10 devices do not even have a place, which tells you their billing system will fail when older BB devices are out phased. Already i know alot of my friends who ported to glo just because MTN do not allow standard BB subscription on newer BB device. So I wander what will become of them when their so called BB faithfuls gets on the newer ones which equally has android capabilities. Only glo and airtel threw their subscription open for newer BB device making them also open to android. Etisalat & MTN remain stubborn, airtel insist on being dubious, Lets watch and see who wins android users or stubborn data policy only time will tell for now its airtel and glo.

Its only 2Gb that 4gb reads twice what is been used.

jsunex: See biggest lie of d year... op u b great mumu, I only know of glo bis that can work using bb desktop app to connect and share tru hotspot and changing of the imei of any bb and android, change of imei is wat am currently using on s4 and techno and it works great. Though downloadin don finish my megabytes... who go help me subscribe ooo.

please read up

How do you change IMEI on samsung phones s4 or tab.

Chidexter: But seriously, reading the scripture through phones e.t.c is a disrespect to God. can u use ur fone to cast out demons?

Reading the bible through a paper book is as well disrespectful why not use scroll or stone can a book cast out demon? (Naija film not your fault)

I thought this is supposed to be Nairaland? not Dollarland

Make use of high tech anti theft system. You ask who buys the item, innocent people like you ofcourse, you get to replace yours with another man's and the other guy gets yours and they make their gain thereby.

Awful! How can charm work on a christian? Huh never heard.

Who daash boko haram victory.

What a beautiful Nation! I love naija!

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But I no dey come back.

Its simple why he looks so great: James 4:10

And I don't blame them. Their success so far is a result of the blessings God pronounced on them through Abraham. Lets live with it.

That is the shocking thing about their religion. Its actually not a sin as they are being promoted by number of non-muslim death carried out.