MaDaRa01:
Your moniker said it all, you are confused... She just upgraded(downgraded actually) you to friend with benefit, no strings attached.
I don't believe in love anymore. A word that holds no true meaning...

PEACE OUT!

My thoughts too, I just feel she's doing the friends with benefit game with me, I feel she's just using me to pass time even though she claims to love me

I'm gonna be brief as much as possible.

I'm dating this girl and seriously, some things amaze me. We're actually in a distance relationship and Just recently, we were having a conversation and then, she told me anytime I feel like having sex and she is not around, I can have sex with any girl I want to and she won't get angry, omo, I was shocked, to be honest, that a girl can suggest such to her boyfriend. Then again, I was just trying to see what she'd say, I told her I was travelling to see a female friend in her house and I'd spend the night in her house and return the next day, to my surprise, she was totally cool with that, no questions or anything. This one really weakened me, I feel she doesn't like me at all cos no girl will act like this

What's do u guys things, isn't this a red flag?. Do u think this girl really loves me?

Kondomatic:
You didn't answer his question.





How are you able to do that?

What's there?. Like I said, I'm really not in love so it's easy for me. I'm just doing my thing, call when I'm supposed to, I'm not too emotionally attached to either of them.

Isokoson1:
Mehn,op this mata tie wrapper...bros op u go just sit down ehn,reason dia mata..which one u think say e go best for u....the earlier the better u ...just man up and tell the one way u no like say make she go...abi u wan marry two wife ?

Thanks bro

nappy760:
This one na lab tech student

I'm a medicine and surgery student. It doesn't matter here anyways. I only said it to explain the fact I am not ready for marriage yet

danietohbadt:


You're a very wicked and bad person.

Didn't you see all the flaws in the first girl before you took her virginity? Cos I wonder how you're able to see her flaws only after you deflowered her.

That wasn't even enough, while dating her, you still went ahead, you created time, stood and supported another lady, then eventually fall in love with her while you're still dating someone else.

Where lies your conscience?

If another girl comes tomorrow, and she seem better than this new girl, I'm sure you'll definitely leave her again citing one excuse or the other.

See, let me tell you the truth.

You'll ruin your own life if you continue this nonsense you're doing.

Na premium tears go end am.

Bro, U can judge me, it's fine. I did break up with her at a point but she came begging and playing the emotional card, we came back together, then I had not deflowered her already. She's obsessed with me and it's really not my fault.

As for the other lady, I didn't create time for her, she was depressed and was always complaining about committing suicide so the best I could do was always check up on her and call her to know how she was fairing, according to her, I gave her what she needed the most at that point and she doesn't ever want to leave me again.

I've a conscience, that's why I don't want to hurt anyone. I just need the easiest way out of this mess, cos I see it as a mess, I wonder how guys break ladies heart without even considering their feelings.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
You're keeping two girlfriends at the same time and you say you're a medical student...how are you even able to find the time to do that?

I don't joke with my studies, plus I'm not the one that is really deep in love now, I'm just stuck, if not, I'd have left both relationships, dunno how to.

Hello guys. Good morning.
I'm in a state of confusion now, please don't judge me. Last year, I met this girl, we got talking and along the line, we fell in love with each other. She was a virgin and one thing led to another, I took her virginity(my mistake). This girl loves me so much, I cannot explain it, she has introduced me to her mom and I know almost everything about her and her family, pls note, I'm a medical student and I'm not even ready for marriage or anything of such in the nearest future, she will be graduating early next year. She has always been reminding me never to break her heart, she wants to marry me, she wants this and that. Now, the problem I have with this girl is that she has never assisted me once since we started dating, very dependent on me, always I love you, I'm here for u and those nonsense that won't add value to my life. She's so dramatic too and very emotional, it has made me lose a lot of interest in her lately, but I know for sure she loves me very much.

Why this?
So not long ago, I stumbled on this lady, we also got talking but it was on purely on friendship grounds but this girl started having feelings for me cos I was always there for her and comforted her when she needed it. I don't know what happened but I asked her out and now we're dating. Few months into dating this lady, this girl has impacted so well in my life, she gets me stuff(I'm not concerned about this but guys will understand the value a lady gets when you're not the only one giving) and she's now even teaching me how to make money online by legitimate means. This girl loves me like mad, she says if I break her heart, she's going to hurt herself and all that. I won't lie, I've feelings for her too cos I see her as someone who can make a good family and help a man stand, she's also very independent, she hardly requests for anything and according to her, "she wants just my love"

Now my problem is, how do I even let one of them go?. How do I let the former or the latter go?. I broke the former's virginity and I'm scared she'd be so hurt if I break her heart like that cos she really loves me. Now this, I really want her cos she has value, a whole lot of value and of course I also love her.

How do I even go about this?. I'm very confused. I don't want to hurt anyone. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. I wish I can just let the two of them go and get a new life.

What do u guys suggest I do?.This is no fiction, I get really worried anytime I think about the whole thing.