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generalbush:
This was your post. You said I don't love myself, and I said "Prove to me"
Is that difficult?



Prove to me "I don't love myself"

Self-love is selfishness, not true love.

Get that.

generalbush:
Drop points and explain them. It isn't difficult. You said Unconditional love isn't true love, I disputed with a clear definition of unconditional love.

Now what is the link for?

Explain your points - that is how to stake your claims.

Now go back and do it.

You can play fools, not me.

You first disputed my statement with "Getting a babe". Right or wrong?

You now deflected to Mother-Child Yha smart.

Until you prove unconditional love to me with a general illustrations and example just like that Google definition, I won't prove shiiiit to you.

The link- I wanted you to read a statement there, but you couldn't attempt reading it out of your ignorance.

The statement ; But there is a point beyond which even the most committed parent cannot go.


Furthermore; God's love is conditional.

generalbush:
Support with points.
Has any action ever been carried out without a reason?
Just answer the bolded - nothing much.

You asked about "Self-Love".
I gave a simple statement, and you are yet to agree or counter it


Self-Love is selfishness. Right or wrong?

generalbush:
If he was a bad child... . So the child was perfect?

Now you are bringing your own mentality into play.

So what if I told you that the boy was stubborn and a criminal, yet the father chose not to give up his son's location? - conditional love right? . Let me guess, cus he would enjoy the money in his grave.


Our only problem is that you are using words without placing them correctly.

I still maintain my statement. Unconditionally love doesn't exist.

No, tell me the boy shot his dad and threatened to kill her and she still sacrificed for him.

How about that?

generalbush:
You know Google search is actually free.

I LOVE you and I did it for you unconditionally - without expecting rewards.

Read the image below.

Goodnight.

Definition without backups.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fighting-fear/201405/unconditionalconditional-love


https://www.parentingforsocialchange.com/conditional-love-html/

Read and learn, do your searching well.

Smh!

generalbush:
You haven't countered any of my points. You are asking further questions.

Establish an argument, turn it into a fact with points.

But to ride on your own lane.

Conditional or unconditional, you said there was nothing like TRUE LOVE.

From my stories, the recipients of such love never got a chance to pay them back - good or bad.

Now answer your question.

Conditional or unconditional Love?

Conditional.

generalbush:
In arguments, counterpoints before driving home your own points.

If you think it is a conditional love, explain the rationale behind that before you throw further questions.

So give me reasons why you called it conditional love.

Below.

generalbush:
My aunt loved her child so much that she donated her kidney to save him.

I supposed you mean love of Mother-Child.

There are conditions surrounding her act of saving her child.

The love of parents to their kids v'got to do with conditions. A mother won't sacrifice for a son who once attempted to kill her.

A Mother won't love a bad child, no matter what.

Love of most parents depends on the behavior of their kids.

Truth is; Don't see it that your Aunt loves her child because there are behaviors the very child will start exhibiting, she'll never sacrifice for her.

generalbush:
A neighbour I know of hid his son and refused to give him up despite being under gun threat. He was finally killed.

This boils down to my initial explanations.

He will never do that, if he was a bad child.

generalbush:
I don't want to go personal to avoid being trolled later on in the future.

If this isn't true love, what is it Mr?

Prove to me I don't love myself.

Self-love is selfishness.

Right or wrong?

generalbush:
I quoted you twice, you skipped one.

I have dropped three scenarios where love played out.

Your issue is streamlining everything to romance. Love isn't romance. It is further than that.

Love isn't just for a boy to a girl; a man to woman, boyfriend to girlfriend.

Love is general.

Dog to man, man to man, father to son, son to mum, mum to daughter, daughter to uncle, boyfriend to girlfriend.

Love doesn't expect the favour back. Just that when it happens, you would call the person a fool and dumb - because you aren't used to it.

The aforementioned are nothing but conditional LOVE.


conditional LOVE isn't real LOVE.


Wake up.

generalbush:
The other guy won't see this. he thinks love is just about relationships.

Why would you take the HIT for someone, when you know that you might be at risk.

In the exam hall, this guy loved his buddy so much; when the dude was caught with an implicating material, he threw it over to another desk where his buddy sat. The guy picked up the paper and chew it.

The exhibit was gone, the case was cancelled at the panel.

Is this an unconditional love or conditional?

kimbraa:
You that just said love is a scam now desires to give it to who's worth it. I don't even get the correlation. So because you love yourself, you don't need love from anyone? Smh.

No point.

generalbush:
My aunt loved her child so much that she donated her kidney to save him.

A neighbour I know of hid his son and refused to give him up despite being under gun threat. He was finally killed.

I don't want to go personal to avoid being trolled later on in the future.

If this isn't true love, what is it Mr?

Prove to me I don't love myself.

True LOVE indeed

That's conditional love Bruv


In a simple statement ; SELF-LOVE means SELFISHNESS. Right or wrong?

generalbush:
Your arguments are highly contradictory. If you say that True Love doesn't exist, why do you end up saying the bolded?

Because that's what women want from a men, that's what they call love. ls that suppose be seen as REAL LOVE? Isn't it conditional?



You are yet to prove we've got REAL LOVE.

generalbush:
you can prove this logically?
give it a shot.

Only if I can get a logical proof of existence of real love.

Then I'll perfectly prove it to you.

Join ARMY

kimbraa:
Obviously you've never loved or been loved or that comment was made in a bid to be politically correct.

First; I don't love, because I hate pretending and deceiving people. The true love a woman wants from you is care and attention, and I'll give it if she worth it.

Second; I don't need anyone's love because I love myself already.


By politically correct, you mean?

generalbush:
[s]

Go find better babe.

Love is real and will remain real...

Who no experience am no know! [/s]

You don't even have a real love for yourself, let alone another person.

generalbush:
If a girl calls you a theif, wetin e mean?

Does it mean something romantic?

She's admitting that you are smarter than her(Not all)

[s] How To Know If A Guy Really Loves You? Lets Find [/s]

Topic should be.

HOW TO KNOW IF A GUY REALLY WANT TO KEEP YOU AS A SEX PARTNER

LOVE is a scam to humanity, there's nothing like LOVE.

You lots should better buckle up and stop deceiving yourselves.

Both the lover and the lovee

Twoclans:

Rule No 5.

The picture in that thread(Sex position) might result to a ban.

She should keep ranting on social media.

I'll keep saying this; We all are responsible for any consequences or negative results that follows our actions . We'll be held responsible for it.

You had an option to save yourself from this, but didn't use it.
You lots should start having sense of not taking in for boyfriend.

Next time, keep your legs like this.

Lalas247:
Yh not everyone will see it that way ... u too sank Nl na
The people who will report won’t even comment seff that’s the thing ...

Trust me age been there

Reason why I keep saying you lots are enemy of the truth. Why report such a humorous comment?


Right now, I'm angry

Lalas247:
I knew that will happen .. tried telling her too but ... u know
She said it’s her opinion and she don’t care about how others will feel .....(ladies not being impressed ) cause she didn’t specify

You mean that harmless first comment she made here?

SQDeltan:
Hi there,
Contemplated if I should reply or not. Well, here it goes.

To reply your question. First, sadly, I got reported to the MODs and got served a ban.
Naturally, all posts connected to "it" were flagged down.

Second, you see, many a time( not always), whenever a post is made by me and I realize it is taken as a subtle jibe/ snide remark, I pull it down because I am empathetic enough to let some things slide and not let is raise much dust.

I opened this thread but couldn't see your first comment, hence my question.

Got reported? Tell me it wasn't for the earlier post you made here.

Credits to your ways of letting things slide. I commend that.

The smell of that boxers can give a pregnant lady miscarriage.

EzendiEgo1:
Sorry next time bro

Thanks tho

Until then, this thread remain useless.

You are welcome Bruv.

EzendiEgo1:
check my profile

Nice picture Bruv.


But couldn't see any name written on a paper.

N0favors:
I hope you also show yours Mike

What is Yours Mike ?


Na name of pant?

Lalas247:
hope u have a beard .. this one u kissing on a Sunday

I never even grow pubic hairs sef.

Shugavee:
for ones u impress me

See dem

EzendiEgo1:
ok

Hahahahahah.
Ezego 1of Nland.
Ezego 1 of freshest.

Baba, why fall our hands
We believed you.

EzendiEgo1:
I will promise one thing
Even if I will do it not today bro

Baba dn begin PROMISE us.

We didn't ask for your face ooooo......Just swag.