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TSOM:
Self-demeaning, dimwitted comments like yours are why some members of my gender think all women are disposable pleasure-objects up for sale at a bargain.

Ill-thought-out comments like yours reenforce the widely-held belief amongst the menfolk that "transport money" (as you Nigerian girls call it) is the euphemistic term for "sex pay" which would in turn mean you are prostitutés. Prostitutes: that's what anyone who expects to get paid for sex in some way ( even though not outrightly called so)is called, right?

The moment you are about to leave a guy's place or a hangout with him, look with askance expecting to be given money in exchange for the time you spent with him in a sexual context, you are a PROSTITUTÉ.

Turn it around, add flowery words as much as you can, try to morally rationalize it...still, you are a prostitute - you got paid for sex.

You even had to explain reasons for calling her a prostitute. They don't worth the stress, just tell'em what they are.

kimbraa:
A big one at that.

Are you a virgin? NO!

And you are here giving us useless story and claiming church girl. You think we don't know your type?


Na una dey suck pastor preeeeq wella

Truthsbitter:
it was only your imaginations...
I have noticed all these church girls claiming over holiness always imagine sinful nature of others which doesn't exist .....I might be wrong though ...

funny enough they tend to be my friends and want everything that concerns me by all means and I keep running, telling them we are not compatible and I can break a heart without thinking twice but they won't believe me they just think because I am sincere then I am good. #sigh....hmmm....what a life we live.

You said it all.

Sig4real:
You meant this was the cause of the commotion in the bus?

This is highly not acceptable. Kindly take down this picture.


She be moderator oo

kimbraa:
He's worse than a useless person and an insult to the useless ones. I was just being economical with words.

You should be happy your body gave a man an erection It happens, maybe a result of a negative thought, you know.

femi4:
cos her name is Kim BRA

kimbraa:
I decided to take a look at the dp some guys were talking about. Any other question?

You know what I had in mind.

kimbraa:
This one happened to me years back.
It was on a Sunday morning, so, I decided to fellowship with Salvation Ministries as I was a new convert in the church then. Waited for the church bus for 3rd service at my bus stop, when it came, it was full so we were made to stand since it was the last bus for 3rd service. I stood on it while holding the rod by the aisle. Then I noticed that someone was very close to me and I was feeling his dick on my ass. When I turned, he looked away, like he wasn't aware of what was going on then I decided to be quiet and monitor his activities at my back. After a while, he continued. Jezz! That day I realised some guys are irredeemable if someone could do that in a Church bus on his way to service. I excused someone in front of me and moved away 'cause I didn't want to create a scene there. When we got down, I stood and waited for him to come down so I'd access him very well. Some guys are useless! I swear.

So because a man got an erection because of your body(Back view) means he's useless?

kimbraa:
Sis, your bra is out on that dress you wore and it's inappropriate to put out an under wear.

Wetin you dey find for your fellow woman bra?

tensazangetsu20:
He should also do a dna test. The child might be a bastard too.

You are so right. Permit me to modify.

ubunja:
i always find your comments hilarious

She's truthful and straightforward on issues, even when she's a victim or not.

Boland:
I just answered your question, bro. Answer mine and we can talk about this.

Have a nice day

Boland:
They aren't old. They are not yet 50.
Well, it depends on your own definition of old.

Let me ask you these questions.

I believe there is always a reason for every action and there is always what we want to derive from our actions.

What's your motive for calling them old?

What do you seek to derive from such action?

A single lady of 30s is young, right?

It's a very big abomination in Nigeria to see a woman who will respect, value, be loyal and be faithful to her husband during hard times.
You'll only see their loyalty when you are doing well, not during hard times.

Contact a good lawyer and flee from anything that has to do with that prostitute of an ex-wife.

While doing all these, also go for DNA test to be sure that you are father of the said child. So that you don't end up being used and extorted because of a bastard child.

Boland:
Young women sometimes give so much problem that if care is not taken it can destroy the marriage, after all she's still hot cake, some men are still chasing her.

Although your assertion came off as shallow and rude but you have some valid points, however, what could we possibly derive from "slut shaming", condemning, cursing or mocking these ladies? It wouldn't add sense to them and I'm sure as hell that it wouldn't briddle the younger ones against following such path.
I think all we see here is in a bid to frustrate these ladies and this won't solve any problem.
I think guys purposely do these things to vent their own frustration on these lads, prolly because they aren't having their ways with them or they've been outplayed in their own games or maybe they've been hurt.

There is nothing positive about these actions. Some men prefer older women and that's a fact, even some younger men prefer older women.

A 35 year old lady just got married in my church and the funnily thing is that, there hasn't been much attention about the whole thing.

We are not slut-shaming anyone. We are telling them what they are.

Are they not old?

jessca048:
who told you we are not working our ass up to also earn a living, you think that it's only men that hassle

Then you lots shouldn't bother about men with vision and television.

jessca048:
your opinion just as we all have different finger prints so also our way of viewing life differs

You ladies should go and work and stop looking for men with vision and television.

jessca048:
being broke is not a disease, why are we making an issue out of it your focus should be if he is making an effort to move out from that state.there is a saying that goes like when a woman leaves a man with a vision and settle for a man with television then she will watch the man with vision on her husband's television

Hope of the poooooor

ibkayee:
Semi healthy

Your goods in your store?

COOLDK:
Truth is not been sugar quoted sir.

Alright then.

Rescue-mission and evening-newspaper set of ladies should be a no go area for any man who wants to enjoy any woman and live a long life.

The younger, the better. Any lady yet to have a husband in her 30s must be suffering from hidden problems. Either attitude problem or so.

Career isn't an excuse for them because we have smart, young and hardworking married ladies building their career.

Stop sugarcoating the truth.

izzou:
Oh, you can afford her?

Good for you. Add that to your achievements then

Congratulations on being able to afford a hoe

Grow a tough skin to ignore negative mentions. Out of all the mentions you had in this thread, you had to reply that one because it's a negative one.

Cutehector:
At least they don't drink poison or commit suicide like d ladies after a breakup

Or start looking for men to stab to death because they got rejected

Sinaj

This is what happens when a born criminal tries to form holy.

You are lucky he didn't buy you tom-tom or baba-blue as a reward.

Thief! See as em face be like expired liver.

Shugavee:
raised brows* u know naw

Don't get it twisted

We are all sinners, we shouldn't judge anyone because we ain't perfect. But we should have a choice.

There's nothing as sweet and joyful as having a younger lady in her 20s as a wife.

>Fresh and good physically attractive body features.

>Biologically fertile to have kids as much as the partners want.

>Strength, fun-loving and energetic life.

>Perfect boost to sex life with less body counts and depreciated body.

>All aged single ladies are the same(Character wise)

>Someone that'll be ready to learn from you, not an aged lady who'll always feel she knows it all as a result of much relationship and breakup experience.

I can go on and on.

Let's be real and stop sugar-coating the truth. You can never compare a single lady with an aged lady, never. The young the better.

Mind you; Africans don't marry for love, but for personal gains.

A lady wishes to marry a man who'll be able to care financially for her and kids, a caring husband and a good father for the kids.

While a man will wish to marry a young lady who'll will respect him, help him build the family and give him peace.

This is what you gain when you accept the truth and work towards it.

You lots are hoes, lots of you, the difference between you and the rest hoes is that you accepted what you are, made it official and started working towards it to earn big.

While the rest hoes are busy deceiving themselves and disguising as girlfriends with deeper pussay , fvcking and sucking different diiiicks and earning Sharwama, indomie-egg, okpa and zobo.

Congratulations wise hoe, more huge diiiicks in your pussay.