Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:57am On Jun 24, 2018 |
zicoraads: You spoke of intellect, very different from being a failure. I've seen that word being bandied around a lot, sometimes by ladies. Unfortunately, having intellectually stimulating conversations with a lot of ladies is very hard to come by nowadays. It's the age of money and the good life after all. No one really cares if someone's intellect is all there.
But being able to hold and sustain intelligent input on a lot of issues, if you can do that, will be highly commendable.  SMH There is an asslicking thread, go and register ur moniker
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Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:54am On Jun 24, 2018 |
philcz: And you think you just made sense? Iamj is having identity crisis. even countries that Gained Independence later than us are more developed? If that is not backwardness I don't know what is |
Romance › Re: My Sister's Pre Wedding Pics by iamJ(m): 11:52am On Jun 24, 2018 |
Rukkydelta: Beautiful couples Happy married life. I can see beautiful kids loading no Honesty Na wa, arent you a christain again? Why lie? |
Romance › Re: Should A Guy Beg For Sex? YES Or No [read What Happened To Me] by iamJ(m): 11:50am On Jun 24, 2018 |
MrLankeeee: Why should someone beg for sex abi nor be she go enjoy am pass.
I will be wondering why boys goes on their kneels being for sex for me it's not right because nor b only the boy go enjoy am....
Girls change ooo have u begged B4 Abeg lie, be a hypocrite |
Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:49am On Jun 24, 2018 |
philcz: At the end of the day you're still a mess.k.ing black man so I will pass. No wonder you were ready to sell your soul for a few dollars. Nigeria will be like this forever, Africa will never progress, na why una still dey consult una olodo ancestors |
Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:47am On Jun 24, 2018 |
pryme: let's leave Africa abeg. Let's go to Hollywood movies what happens when a guy falls in love with a girl?
Do you notice how they try to bring her the moon, and try to cross the ocean for her?
More often then not it's the men that do this.
Even Eminem said in one of his lines (Mockingbird)
"daddy felt like a bum, see daddy had a job But his job was to keep the food on the table for you and mom" it's called symbolism, he isn't going to do all that na, he is just explaining how much he cares about her na Oh na Africa they don't understand anything, na so una Dem dey read Bible literally but when someone steals una put tyre for him head burn am, meanwhile una dey preach say Bible says thou shall not kill Hypocrites in Chief, backwardness professors |
Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:43am On Jun 24, 2018 |
philcz: This one has gone m.ad again backwards descendants of backwards descendants Backwardness no go kill una  God self no go bless Nigeria, una no get sense at all Meanwhile come collect
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Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:38am On Jun 24, 2018 |
zicoraads: Do you consider yourself in the category of the lady you just described? it's a burn 
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Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:38am On Jun 24, 2018 |
zicoraads: Bro, just in the sense of as a man, you are the man. Work, work, work. Provide, provide, provide. See the woman as a weaker vessel who should not be stressed and all 
But as per coming from this continent, truth be told, we are really backwards and stagnant. that's what i'm saying, doing African things is why men act like they own women and it's what is making our women radical feminist Provide for your family, if she is comfortable she will play her part equally, less or more |
Romance › Re: My Sister's Pre Wedding Pics by iamJ(m): 11:35am On Jun 24, 2018 |
haywire07: Please don't edit again. It's not in your destiny the man reminds of homo eretus and the woman be like slug Their pikin eh  God will have to hack that dna to prevent the creation of a new kind of animalistic hybrid human |
Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:31am On Jun 24, 2018 |
Akinbahm: No matter how a lady can become independent she still gonna depend oh her Man either emotionally, financially or advicially lol... A Man and Woman are wired to offer/depend on each other by the Supreme God a woman can be more matured, more successful and more intelligent than a man, oga no sex is dominant |
Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:30am On Jun 24, 2018 |
pryme: That's because you have programed yourself to be responsible man, or maybe it has been drummed into our heads since we were kids by our parents, that as a man you must be responsible for the family, for that reason you expect more of yourself, you work harder because if you can't do it you will see yourself as a failure. This is every man's reality. The society won't be too hard on a women if she fails in these aspects as compared to a man. is it not the African responsibility that makes men beat women and treat them as if they own women Anything African is rubbish, you are not her father |
Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:27am On Jun 24, 2018 |
zicoraads: I think your last paragraph captures the real definition of what the feminist movement represents. We are all equal and must be seen to be. Nothing wrong in a woman providing for the home or a relationship in all aspects, if the man can't do it.
Your other paragraph captures the Naija woman version of it. Where in one breath they champion the equality song, in the next breath they expect a man to do everything for them financial wise.
My views on that are somewhat tilted towards the first part. I have never dated a lady who would want to throw the "I'm independent" thing all over me. But then, since I left school, I have never dated someone who is still dependent either. You must have something doing, or the relationship won't even start off. I don't like liabilities.
But I still recognize that I'm the man. Maybe that's the African in me talking, but leaving the woman to cater for financials is something I am not sure I can do. pls what is African? Una like to use am Africa is backwards, stagnant, negative and poor, everything African is rubbish and should be deleted from history |
Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:24am On Jun 24, 2018 |
pryme: Pls Sir read my post again, am sure you missed the part where I said women are Now Professors and CEOs. I did, read my last paragraph again, I responded to that |
Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:16am On Jun 24, 2018 |
pryme: I don't know which of the versions, but let me take you to the location am driving at -
For centuries women has always been the liability, I guess it was more of a man's world then, cos women were deprived of a lot of things like education, occupation, to be independent and so on.
But that has changed over the years, now women are Professors, CEOs, Single Moms and the rest. Even with that 90 percent women are still liabilities to men, that's why you always get the early warning from most ladies that if you dont have money or you are not well to do (or have the potential to be wealthy)you should just stay away from them. This the norm in the society, and 99% men has accepted this as the norm, that's why most of them go off to try to make money BEFORE they settle down with a woman, nothing wrong with that right? And nothing wrong with the woman playing the liability role because she is a WOMAN.
Now we have these people that are parading for gender equality (in all aspects), Aka the Feminist. These set of women should not see settling for men that are liabilities as a problem, they should also accept it as the norm. different issues na, the reason why women were liabilities was because they were hindered A man has no reason to be a liability that's why women complain when that happens, una can twist things |
Romance › Re: When A Man Becomes A Liability by iamJ(m): 11:13am On Jun 24, 2018 |
Elmojiid: feminist again. where feminist here? Abeg grow sense |
Romance › Re: Nairaland Guys & Asslicking! by iamJ(m): 9:14pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: World Cup - 0 - 2 On 16th June 2018 by iamJ(m): 10:18pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
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Celebrities › Re: Dele Momodu Observing National Anthem Infront Of His TV During Nigeria Match by iamJ(m): 10:11pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
poverty tv |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: World Cup - 0 - 2 On 16th June 2018 by iamJ(m): 10:07pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: World Cup - 0 - 2 On 16th June 2018 by iamJ(m): 10:05pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: World Cup - 0 - 2 On 16th June 2018 by iamJ(m): 10:04pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: World Cup - 0 - 2 On 16th June 2018 by iamJ(m): 9:58pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
hahahahahhahahaha
after all the jersey hype
after all the oracle pig vision
after all the queue to buy jersey
after all the noise
see una face
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Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: World Cup - 0 - 2 On 16th June 2018 by iamJ(m): 8:10pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Time to laugh |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: Nigerian President Vs Croatian President In Pictures by iamJ(m): 6:57pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
this is not the president na, thats coco, the moderators and bloggers on this forum eh  |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Croatia: World Cup - 0 - 2 On 16th June 2018 by iamJ(m): 4:07pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
i go laugh for this thread tire today |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by iamJ(m): 4:05pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by iamJ(m): 4:01pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Nihilstjnr: Don’t forget that this a team of farmers coached by a part-time dentist. One on the centre backs is 35 years old and doesn’t even have a club The keeper is a movie director, football is his part time job. |
Romance › Re: There's Child Support And Sharing Of Properties Laws In Nigeria by iamJ(m): 3:09pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Elder001: and how did you know I'm poor? are you the one feeding me and my wife?
There's difference between child support and alimony.
Child support is strictly for the kids. I'm not the cause of your ignorance. You can check matrimonial causes act section 72.
Eating from child support money is a criminal offense. ure poor na and jobless too, see how ure disturbing people with this useless thread, if them turn u inside out + all ur properties u no even worth 50k, abeg get lost |
Romance › Re: There's Child Support And Sharing Of Properties Laws In Nigeria by iamJ(m): 1:23pm On Jun 16, 2018 |
Elder001: 60% of Child support money aren't spent on kids.. women use most of the money for themselves not the kids.
If you think I should give you child support why don't you allow me to take custody so that you can pay me the child support?.
Funny as it sounds, any woman that shares properties with me or request for child support and she doesn't spend 100% of the money on the kids won't live long enough to enjoy the money.
I hate people who back stab me.. It'll be a clean job because the name of the payment is child support doesnt mean that women shouldnt enjoy from it, u wen no get money go dey shout up and down |
Romance › Re: Ladies, No Matter How Hot A Nigerian Guy Is, Never Ask Him Out by iamJ(m): 8:28am On Jun 15, 2018 |
Ok rat hold your peace, it's a new day |
Romance › Re: Please Help; All Our Girls Are Becoming Prostitutes Even Graduates by iamJ(m): 8:27am On Jun 15, 2018 |
Most girls are prostitutes na, propose a good deal or offer and you will have them Yes oooo ask me if my mother and sister are among and let me remind you the meaning of most girls means Prostitution is the exchange of money for sex, oya let me prove it Girl loves you, she comes to ur house, u have sex and u give her transport and some pocket money, what's the difference between that and an Olosho? Is it because she collected money that wasn't pre defined Girl wants a phone, u say sex first then phone, she comes u have sex and u give her money for phone, what's that? Girl needs a loan, she is desperate, u ask for sex first and she does, what's that Think about most girls and u will see that it's a transaction that's why I hate poor girls, they are the Oloshos hiding under the name of girlfriend, a rich girl will never ask for ur 1 Kobo, to even make my point more concrete, think about this, if she wasn't an Olosho, how come a guy with more money and style can easily take her from you |