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Investment › Re: Happy Times Savings Ltd Needs Investors With 12%ROI Annually by ibechris(m): 6:09am On Jan 20, 2025
The two of u calling the guy a scammer are financial illiterates.

Not everything u don't understand u should call scam.

He is even in the collection point of the business while I have done this for the past 14yrs.

Businesses are dying in this country many of u are responsible for such...because u used ur bad mouths to kill it even before it matures.

Parasites...attacking other good and well intentioned businesses.
Crime › Re: Fake Brad Pitt Who Duped French Woman Of €700,000 Tracked To Nigeria by ibechris(m): 5:50am On Jan 20, 2025
derico:
Somewhere in our mind, we are proud that Nigerians pulled a clean AI scam so soon.
Like we beat a whole techie India to the title.

Naija to the world!

Hushpuppi would be proud right now!
Indians are using their knowledge to become big honest CEO's world over,but Nigerians are using theirs to create bad image world over.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 2:42pm On Jan 19, 2025
Ohraykon:
all these simps why una just plenty for naija, you came to this world to be a slave to a woman!
Alpha male...satanic alpha male.

E pain u small.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 8:33pm On Jan 18, 2025
smasher1:
Let's just pray to have money. I also invest some money. But it's not easy for over 95% of people out there. So don't think they are lazy. They may really not have enough.
Be motivated all would be fine.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 6:31pm On Jan 18, 2025
1Sharon:
You know that will never happen.
Why are u helping him to know that? Are u the lady?
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 6:24pm On Jan 18, 2025
spartachico:
Last year I had the chance to go to Abuja to work with some company and luckily I met this single lady and this was after I spent over 500k in June to change my wife phone and gave her money for household items and money for the kids and her personal needs... Omo within myself I believe say I get cloth not until the Abuja lady enter my life, she first spent her money to baff me up and me looking at the mirror I'm like God dam... Oh boy I ended renting an apartment for her oo after 3/4 months I came back to Lagos ... I pack all the clothes in my wardrobe and threw them in the trash .. if I dress up that am going out, my wife is always in awww and look at me one kind, mind you every week within that 3/4 months away from home, I always send 50 to 100k for my family as upkeep at the end of the week Dem go say money don finish, this Abuja girl was always in shock that what are they buying... Anyway to cut long story short, naso this Abuja babe changed my dressing code oo infact I don dey use ear studs on weekends outing.. making me feel young agan... And Abuja girl is still behaving normal and still takes good care of me, if Lagos tire me na to travel to Abuja for work even when there's no work ... Man must take good care of themselves and worse case scenario is when drink and flex with friends is when we think say we are doing well in taking care of ourselves or enjoying life ... Theres more to do for our longevity of life.
U might end up marrying her finally congratulations in advance.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 6:18pm On Jan 18, 2025
Free2Fly:
You initially said in their 20s, now you're changing it to 40.
Read what I said very well.


Is like understanding is the major crisis in this country. U are eager to find faults in what I said rather than understanding what I wrote.

Shame on u.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 5:07pm On Jan 18, 2025
Jonathan:
Lol
Weyrey
Everyone is billionaire on the internet
You're most likely one struggling kid
You'll be fine
Whatever u called it.

I can help u to grow financially but now that u started with curse...I can tell ur tribe,ur state of origin and how badly u were raised.

There is even no need.

Keep ur Internet poverty in ur pockets.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m):
Jonathan:
Una go just open mouth waaaa without much reasoning...
Na e easy and life doesn't happen, right?
U guys see this life with a poverty mindset and that is why many of u think every person should be at ur levels.

U see that write up I put up there,I said it without prior apology. At ur 40's,ur life shouldn't be too hard. Na una like to suffer.

If u did what was supposed to be done...e no supposed hard honestly.

I am opening my mouth wa because most of u prefer to gamble over being responsible and then,after few years u would start crying like u are doing now.

I made my contribution because of people like u who would get Offended instead of learning now that it is still early.

I stand by what I said and there is no apology yet.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 3:58pm On Jan 18, 2025
OlawaleBammie:
Lol, Mr Santiago Vargas, as a new Chile citizen...I am not suffering here sir.
Not that I am bragging but I actually turned down Canada links twice just to stay here in Nigeria..

My monthly income here in Nigeria can take care of three wives with two kids each and I will still have savings...no be everybody dey suffer here sir.

I just want to get more funds, buy stocks from other developed countries stock markets, invest for my old age and have some properties.. kpele...we that are in Nigeria also has brains, we just decided not to move to a country where a rat race is bn lived in a regimented manner.




Where do dey do dna for less that 200k sir??
Say it loud.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 3:51pm On Jan 18, 2025
Free2Fly:
Where does an average Nigerian see 30million??
Did you have 30m in your 20s?
At age 40,80% of men should have been with less pressure economically.

Which when translated to what i just said here earlier,starting early is very much important such that 30 or 20 million saved over time would have help reduced or alleviate all the economic pressures
confronting almost every households today.

U might say it is very difficult to achieve this,then the question is,how much does one need to retire if that amount is too much for a 40 year old fellow.

Yes,I know everyone can't be lucky but many guys engage in frivolities when they are much more younger,hence the crisis confronting them at this present age and time in thier marriages
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 3:33pm On Jan 18, 2025
Broveens42:
When you choose a certain life style, be prepared to match that life style with corresponding responsibility.

A lot of Nigerians are often influenced by "what people will say" than their own personal conviction, and if I insinuate that a certain man made religion could be partially responsible, don't argue with me ;

1. How can a human being who has a wonderful structure in his village and large farmlands and spaces at the market square, settle for 100k job in a town he would be required to pay rent and other bills ?
2. How can a human being give his first salary to a pastor rather than a woman who shared the umbilical cord with him?
3. What informs the decision of Humans to get married to an unproductive and unaccountable partner; Do they hope such partner would change after marriage?


I'm not married but I still have common sense to continue with the things I do, because I know it will still be the same case in marriage.
U are a very matured young man my brother. There is sense in everything u just mentioned here.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 3:15pm On Jan 18, 2025
GloriousGbola:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boots_theory
I was once a victim of this theory and I have since contacted it.
Politics › Re: VATS ! Name Single Food Crop Produce In South That The North Depends On # by ibechris(m): 2:38pm On Jan 18, 2025
The day the entire southern Nigeria decides to revitalised their agric sectors...the north would become a pariah state.

Currently,many persons especially youths in my village are now doing goat farming and cattle farming.

There is a guy that has close to 100 cows in my village as I speak to u.

He rears them for commercial purposes.
Education › Re: 2-Year-Old Rapheala Ogbodo Dies At Smiley Kids Montessori School Sangotedo by ibechris(m): 2:27pm On Jan 18, 2025
All the nonsense news about schools in Nigeria are often heard in Lagos.

This shows that the officials who allowed these kinds of schools to be approved are corrupt.
Crime › Re: 29-Year-Old Mother Slaughtered While Harvesting Vegetables In Ogun State by ibechris(m): 1:41pm On Jan 18, 2025
mauchiz:
Jesus have mercy on Nigerians, this is serious, what do we do, because this is terrible, my relatives are from Abeokuta,
President Tinubu should sign that death warrant for killing.
U see as bad as Borno is,people live there in fear but me as a person,I fear Ogun state more than any state in Nigeria.
Crime › Re: 29-Year-Old Mother Slaughtered While Harvesting Vegetables In Ogun State by ibechris(m): 1:33pm On Jan 18, 2025
mauchiz:
Is possible, but there youths should rise up and stop it, is giving them bad name already.
Whatever they can do to stop it, should be done.
All these rituals they are doing will hunt there generation in the future, they think they are enjoying, tomorrow they will start running to mountain of fire to break yoke of madness and untimely death.
There children should better run to mountain of fire now and go and learn the consequences of there actions, because it must come to pass with different sickness and bondages.
The youth have been caught in the Web as well. They are the ones doing the killing and selling the human parts to their leaders and politicians.
Politics › Re: Obidients Will Never Support Tinubu 2027 Ambitions " No To Tinubu Re-election" by ibechris(m): 1:18pm On Jan 18, 2025
No sane Nigerian would ever vote for that ugly man...u see 2027 election.

It is an election between Nigerians vs INEC.

Mark it.

By the time the ground work is done,u all will feel the heat.

It is going to be rig and be killed.
Crime › Re: 29-Year-Old Mother Slaughtered While Harvesting Vegetables In Ogun State by ibechris(m): 1:13pm On Jan 18, 2025
JOACHINpedro:
Not tryna be tribal but Ogun State should enact a strict law against skull mining. It has become endemic
Their leaders are the ones using human flesh and u want them to stop it.

How now?
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 1:09pm On Jan 18, 2025
Godwin4444:
is it real that people truly give their first salary to church?
Like seriously I have heard it a couple times but don't believe it's real

The day my wife tells me that is the day she will start taking care of herself n start feeding herself or better still she should b collecting money from those pastors
Any man that marries such a woman is in trouble.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 1:05pm On Jan 18, 2025
juwoonn:
Same here
Pls,tell him to stop bad mouthing our women.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 12:47pm On Jan 18, 2025
tiswell:
You better focus on the topic in context and take advice sad

Ndi beloved wife shocked

Tomorrow you go hang yasef wen ya beloved wife go shock you sad
Sorry,na u digress and i had to prove u wrong.

After marrying a white woman,u go tell urself the truth.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m):
Gerrard59:
No excuses, sir. Why should a man have four children in the first place? No matter how things are horrible, it is easier to manage with a child or two than four. That is an undeniable fact.

Any man who has four children then complains afterwards is to be blamed. There are a thousand and one ways to prevent childbearing. Nigerians should learn to be responsible for their lives. Everything is in their hands. This is not Tinubu or Jonathan. People should learn to be responsible for their lives. The country is hard, okay, why you go born four children? Is that Tinubu's fault?
I have four children Mr,Gerard,and I am happy for them all.
I am 41 presently, and I have more than the means to take care of them. I am not boasting and I have not complain because my formular is working for me.
My passive income takes care of my family expenses and why shouldn't I have the number of children I want. I work and my wife is a seasoned banker as well.

If i no get money...I get #×××××naira in various investments. And i don't engage in dirty yahoo or fraud of a thing.

So why should anyone question why i should have 4 four children?...when my mates with less cash than me,have more than four kids.

It is my choice and not urs.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 12:25pm On Jan 18, 2025
nams77:
Spoken like someone who does not live in present day Nigeria. This advice will not work for most people. Where you wan see 30 million?
Remember the administration met us not as if we met them.

We should always be ready to prepare ahead.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 12:20pm On Jan 18, 2025
Jorussia:
Thank u my brother.If u nor do fraud I wonder where u want take see #30m.This life na prayer go save person o.Nor be as we plan most times things take dey happen.
My brother,I still don't agree with u too.

Is not everyone that is into fraud.
At 27, I have had two vehicles I was using for taxi while still working in the bank at that time...some of my peers I knew back then who served in FCDA in Abuja are doing pretty well too.

Everything boils down to your risk appetite especially when it comes to investments. And there is no one way formular to wealth. Just do the right thing.

I won't say more than this.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m):
Godwin4444:
this your analysis is flawed

Many Nigerian men graduate from school late 20's, they serve n start hustle early 30's. If u didn't do fraud or from rich family it is 30's that u will try to b stable which it's not everyone that gets lucky to b stable in their 30's.

N besides where will d 30 million come from cos u present it as if there's a place people can collect 30 million
The analysis is not for everyone just like someone have phobia for marriage so is in making money.

The advice I gave is not for everyone...but for those in their early age.

And for those who may find the analysis to be flawed,the figure is just a tentative one and u can as well choose ur future rightly.

Note: it is not for everyone. It is a theory that has worked for me and already.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 11:42am On Jan 18, 2025
Bobodee09:
Is so bad that has a married man you can't even buy yourself new wears.

Throughout last year I couldn't get myself a new set of jeans trouser even tho I needed it badly despite having the money.
All the money I made last year 90% when into paying bills and household expenses.
It so crazy how you has a man you will have over 200k in your acc and you be scared to even buy yourself something of 10k cos of fear of the unknown.
In all of this my wife and kids still has many clothes they haven't worn I paid for you.

Last weekend my wife bought herself over 10 new shirt and when I saw it I reminded her how I couldn't even buy myself new jean....she told me nah me no wan buy nah.
It really hurt me cos whatever money I make the family expenses come first before my own personal needs but it isn't same for women.

I just feel marriage is design for men to suffer honestly.
People just taking from you and no one really care about what you need.
Honest truth.
I only sew two clothes last year,na my wife buy me the rest.

Family wahala no be any body mate.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 11:39am On Jan 18, 2025
Jennyclay:
Why would he have 4 kids when he knows he’s broke and poorhuh undecided

Gone are those when people born as many as possible. undecided

Take care of your wife and have just 1 or 2 kids that you can cater for without stress. Simple!!
Be calming down young girl.
Life happens and people are consume in it. That is why there is a local parlance in this nation where they say,may Nigeria not happen to u.

When u grow up,u will see why we are called men.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m): 11:35am On Jan 18, 2025
Savedday2:
Marrying a 9ja girl is one of the greatest disservice you can ever do to yourself as a man.

If you are married to a 9ja girl, you are a big SIMP aka "girl is more important than my life" because they don't add any value to your life except stress and death.

All 9ja girls are totally useless. It is the importance you as a man attached to them that make them look as if they are important.

Stop SIMP today and know the true worth of any 9ja girl, aka ashawo/Olosho/borehole/money for hand back for ground/gold diggers/from prick to prick. They are all the same.
U are alone on this.

Nigerian women are still the best,because I married one of them and she is my beloved wife.
Family › Re: Married Men Take Care Of Yourselves, Don't Die Young Trying To Please Anyone. by ibechris(m):
Na men dey like to suffer.

When u are in your 20's start early and awake ur investment mindset.

If u can do this early enough,at your 40's ur passive income should be enough to take care of your family expenses while u continue to grind with life.

I learnt this technique at an early age...not from my father but from someone whom I lived with years back.

Example is. If u have 30million,invest it for one year,use the proceed to settle all family expenses for one year,after that u can rest and be happy. Not all the time,waiting for salaries that isn't enough.

May his soul rest in peace and may this serve as a lesson to all our able young men especially our teenagers.

For those who may not find this feasible,this theory is working for me and u can always adjust it to suit ur figures especially if u think the figure is too high. remember na advice ooooooh.
Politics › Re: Hardship: Women Scavenging For Valuables In Garbage Dump To Feed Their Homes by ibechris(m): 8:12am On Jan 18, 2025
EmperorCaesar:
cheesy

Random article with no picture and even false names like a badly written fictional story by an unexposed Author


This should be binned.



Low lifers will believe it tho
Random because they didn't add Enugu to the list.

Be calming down...there is poverty in the land and stop coming to behave as if u guys are better off.
After northerners,yorubas are the poorest in this country.

I have moved round this country and I can confidently say this any where.

There are places u will go to in Osun,oyo,Ogun and Ekiti (permit me not to mention Ondo because that area is gone) u will cry for the people.

They live like animals...no access road to houses,no good sanitation. The houses are in terrible habitable conditions.

Everywhere u look,extreme poverty and ignominy.

I am not surprised



Keep supporting APC instead of speaking up and be upright in all u do.

U think is by supporting ur tribes man while ur parents are suffering.
Politics › Re: Nigeria Police Obtains A Court Order To Arrest Reno Omokri! by ibechris(m): 7:56am On Jan 18, 2025
Is a welcome development.

More charges awaits him.

Na this kind hand them go take appoint am as a spokes person.

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