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This is how Helinues would grow to be like this shameless man.

Welcum:
Sorry, I don't mean to insult you, but I honestly think you might need the attention of a psychiatrist. If not, can you tell us why this is a "bunkum" report? Is it because it contradicts what is on ground or because it has a wrong source or you found anything wrong with the data or its analysis? Or, you just want to let us know you are familiar with the word "bunkum" which you have used so wrongly?


I will try and invent a technology that allows me to be slapping you over the internet. I will not sell it. Instead, I will only be using it on you.

Even if you are paid to do this, do it with some sense like your other colleagues.

That guy has been cursed.

Does he ever behave normal to u.

They are the most productive and resilience people in Africa.

In fact,they are the richest tribe in Africa.

Take them away from Lagos and Ogun ur IGR will collapse completely. Yorubas aren't goog in paying tax and even paying loans.

Go to any tax office in Nigeria especially in Lagos and Abuja,the people who pay the buck of all the tax are igbos...it is on record.

U can kill yourself about their region but we all know that they are the most productive people ever to surface on the continent of Africa.

For those of u who hate a girl child,hope u will be able to train ur sons to be successful like her?

U see this life,it can surprise u.

This country would soon explode.

Igbos

This economy slide exposes the fact that Tinubu is not educated,

That is why his first cabinet members were full of men with questionable identities. Low pedigree fellas. Even Someone who just enrolled into NYSC is a minister. A man with no single pass in English and maths is also a minister and they want to turn the economy around with ewedu politics.

I cringe for una.

Chinjo2:
Everything about this Supreme court Governor is fraud.

He has always been a fraudster before the supreme court allowed him to become a governor.

But both are very different.

The former Singaporean leader wasn't corrupt and has never had a drug related case nor started school before the school was established.

He was elected when he was pretty young,precisely at the age of 35 in 1959. He was not just a descent man but he is known as the father of modern Singapore.

He has no criminal records like the idiots u are referring to here, he was a mentor to cabinet members even after he left office in 1990.

He wasn't a tribalist like the one u are referring to. A drug lord who has no plans for the nation but keeps stealing to enrich himself and nothing more.

angelboy01:
He should accept her back simply because you are a simp, weakling and probably not the husband in the marriage. So what's the big deal in marriage? So because of my kids I should accept my wife cheats on me steady. Lol

Wetin concern fools with marriage?

Alpha male that has no sense.

Hmm

flokii:
GEJ did far worse during his tenure as he marginalized Yorubas and appointed mostly Igbos into key Agencies and parastatals. The only notable Yoruba appointed by GEJ was Mr. Akinwumi Adeshina so why are the SEners making noise?.
They even went as far as taking up all the slots meant for Lagos State and were filling them with Igbos residing in Lagos , neglecting the indigenous people. First to do no dey pain.

U are pure liar.

The records are there for all to see.

Pls,accept ur wife with open arm and don't contribute in damaging ur children by making them live under another person roof.

I beg u...I am older than u in marriage I am only pleading.

Don't listen to those alpha male whose lives have been damage since time immemorial.

God bless u brotherly...
There is simply nothing like a happy and united family.

Afodot0022:
Good morning and happy Sunday to my nairalanders fam and happy new month.
I know so many of you will have clue about my history here and my stories, if you don't, kindly check through my profile. This forum have helped me to navigate some difficult situation especially on marriage, even though I still get bashed and insulted, I can tell that I still get genuine advice from matured and experienced people here. It's all about taking the wheat from the shaft.

I and my wife had been separated for almost 2yrs and reason was that I saw some chat on her phone that she was having emotional affair with another man under my roof, I sent her away due to this and have been leaving my life since then, the kids have been with her and have been taking responsibility over them, recently she took my kids to her parents without my approval due to her traveling for months and now that she is back from the official trip, she had refused to pick the kids from her parents place to start living with her, that was the recent issue we both had and up till now, the kids still stay with her parents instead of her.

I have tend to move on concerning this matter and we have already had an agreement concerning the kids welfare and the rest. They are just 7 and 6yrs.

I married traditionally and ever since we separated, there had not been any formal divorce and the bride price is yet to be returned. Now it happens that I and my wife started chatting back on Whatsapp and my reason for allowing this was to know the situation of my kids and to keep track on them, but in those chat with her, I could see some form of remorseful from her and some calmness from her to the extent that she pleaded that I should forgive her for all the wrong she had done to me . I was surprised to see all this write up from her cos I never expected her to apologize cos of her over bloated ego. In her write up, it seems she want us to resolve our differences and come back together as family but I wasn't buying that.

Now my question is to matured and experienced men that have gone through this particular situation of separation from you ex wife, does it worth it given such woman a second chance knowing what lead to the breakdown of the marriage, she had an emotional affair but didn't caught her having sex though, is it worth forgiving her and taking her back, I just want to be sure I won't regret these cos I don't know her true intentions, we have been separated for two years now and I asked her if she have had any sexual encounters during those period, she told me she never dated or had any sex during our period of separation, I am finding it difficult to believe that, how can a woman that was once married and separated not feel the urge to have sex for almost two years. Pls experienced
married women in the house, is it possible for a woman to keep herself that long, I am assuming she is just using that to make me feel good about taking her back.

TBH, I still care about my kids cos they are my focus now and if I will be doing this, it will be for my daughters cos they have really been through alot during this separation, they have been staying with their grand parents and only God knows what they are passing through there.

I just want to know if it worth it given the marriage a second chance again despite everything that occurred or I should just move on with my life and forget about her and just take responsibility over my kids cos I don't want to regret this move, pls men that have gone through something like this scenario, kindly share some advice and tips on how to navigate through this situation. I know I will be bashed by some but will still appreciate honest opinion and advice from both gender and especially from experienced ones. As it is been said, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know . Pls all advice will be welcomed and well appreciated.

AmalaAtiEwedu:
shut up

U can only make noise here...if u meet me in real life,u would be saying bros I greet u.

But for now,keep being stupid.

EreluRoz:
Both the woman and the men sleeping with her knowing fully well she's married are stupid. It's not so hard to remain single if you know you have problems being faithful in marriage.

Discuss is what the writer requested but u have cursing...yoruba,them do una with curses?

Sirchiboy:
It is hard to become rich in a legitimate way in Nigeria.
Most of my course mates are married , built house and driving the latest car through illicit way.
I am here driving uber without tangible gain.
To make 5k a day Is even thanksgiving.
This life is for the strong and not for the weak

Think out of the Box and don't think this to be true always.

The two guys might have contested elections in South West...

That how they do it.

They copy their brother.

vanitybutiwanti:
Two thieves but igbos who claim to be saints are now supporting one of the thieves? You better tell peter obi your brother to invest the money he set aside for 2027 on his supporters because from the way you guys defend misdemeanours of people you claim to support, Nothing and nobody can remove APC in 2027, its only a fhool that will reliquish power in Nigeria, Tinubu til eternity

This shows u have no brain...where is igbo written here...

How to spot a foolish fellow in this21st century,easiest of all is tribalism.

Shame on u.

If not that u are stupid,what concerns other tribe in the affairs of these two idiots.

vanitybutiwanti:
Anybody you guys support is destined for failure, fubara already knows he won't end well, if you like curse and abuse wike on the Internet, what will be will be, this is Nigeria and deep down political observers know how fubara will end even though some of you choose to deny it because of your primitive tribal inclination and blind hatred for wike. All of a sudden to the defenders of Nigeria and new Nigeria crew, fubara who won election the way president Tinubu won his election is now a good man and a saint. . It's the same way some of you saint would have defended illegality if saint obi had won. Tinubu knows these things, reason he doesn't pay attention to the noise and criticism. Its Tinubu till 2070 since Nigerians have chosen to be hyocrites

They both stole power by rigging massively now e don reach to share the loot....fight come out.
Two thieves.

He has eaten dog meat cooked with Cameroun pepper and black Ghana pepper...

Meet her to undo those curses now but thank God it wasn't ur Dad that cursed u.

U for dey cry by now.


In all just dust off and restart ur life.

Smart guy...since Wike wants to kill PDP,at least u will help him to kill it completely at the state level.

Let him come and be relevant in the state while he is killing PDP notionally.

drevillway:
Very funny people. I don't know why there Are Nigerians still emotionally attached to Jews! Can you people grow up?

Leave them let them be deceiving themselves.

The war go soon tire them all.

Waste of protests.

My aunty used to say,God blesses those whose heart are clean.

This present north has not really prepared for anything good for its people. Yes,do they collect tax gotten from gaming and alcohol? They do and they don't condemn it at all.

If u must bar gamblers and those who drink alcohol in Kano,u should as well refused to accept tax accruing from it.

U can't hate gambling and alcohol yet u collect allocation coming from such ventures.

Trendy247:
If you can afford 40k bill on a month, then you can afford to get your own prepaid meter. But be aware that prepaid meters are not movable.

They are movable within district.

Although, Nepa as they are generally called in Nigeria usually frowns at it.

I hate to see stupid fathers.

This man can't promised anything and fulfill it.

Crazy countries.

Both Israel, Iran and America are foolish for wasting human lives.