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Romance‎Dilemma Of Mistakenly Spending Money Meant For Important Expenses by IBenardoo(op): 6:53am On Aug 16, 2025
‎Dilemma of mistakenly spending money meant for important expenses (school fees and rent)

‎I just dey laugh and at same time still dey vex for this mumu, like what kind of orientation do most ladies even have, as seen on the internet I say make I share with my ppl for here to hear what they think about this young lady, abeg your judgment shouldn't be like[img][/img] another horoscopic page😂😂
‎I didn't even know the suitable topic for this peice sef😁
‎Admin please post for me and hide my identity. I am in a big m3$$. I am a 100 level student at the university. On Wednesday, one rich alhaji who has been ch@sing me asked for my bank account details and promised to send me money. Yesterday morning I received an alert of  2 million naira, I guessed it was from alhaji, quickly I composed and sent him an appreciation text message but he didn’t reply, and voom I went shopping in town. I bought an iPhone, long hairs ( by the way I love long hairs), high quality clothes ,  shoes , hand bags,jewelry, perfumes and stocked my kitchen with plenty food stuffs.  Yesterday evening my elder brother who is sponsoring my university education called me to find out if I received the 2 million naira he sent to my account from a pos agent , it was then I realized that the money was from him and not alhaji. He went on to say that the 2 million naira  is the grand total of my school fees and house rent for the remaining three years of my studies, he added that he was relocating with his family to Australia next week and he does not know how long it will take him to get a job and start earning money over there so he thought it wise to send me the money  in advance so that regardless of whatever happens I will be able to complete my university studies . I told him thank you and started cr¥ing, he asked why I was cr¥ing , I said it’s t3ars of joy and gratitude.

‎I have been so s@d and c0nfused since last night, I don’t know what to do cos I have already spent 85 percent of the money to buy high class stuffs for my self, my challenge now is where and how will I get money to pay for my school fees and house rents for 200l, 300l and 400l? I tried calling alhaji’’s number but the 1d10t bl0;cked me on all networks and platforms. I can’t open up to my elder brother on the blund3r I made, he will simply ignore me. Please house help me, what should I do? I can’t think my head is qu;@king, please advice me on what to do.
‎Admin please post for me and hide my identity. I am in a big m3$$. I am a 100 level student at the university. On Wednesday, one rich alhaji who has been ch@sing me asked for my bank account details and promised to send me money. Yesterday morning I received an alert of  2 million naira, I guessed it was from alhaji, quickly I composed and sent him an appreciation text message but he didn’t reply, and voom I went shopping in town. I bought an iPhone, long hairs ( by the way I love long hairs), high quality clothes ,  shoes , hand bags,jewelry, perfumes and stocked my kitchen with plenty food stuffs.  Yesterday evening my elder brother who is sponsoring my university education called me to find out if I received the 2 million naira he sent to my account from a pos agent , it was then I realized that the money was from him and not alhaji. He went on to say that the 2 million naira  is the grand total of my school fees and house rent for the remaining three years of my studies, he added that he was relocating with his family to Australia next week and he does not know how long it will take him to get a job and start earning money over there so he thought it wise to send me the money  in advance so that regardless of whatever happens I will be able to complete my university studies . I told him thank you and started cr¥ing, he asked why I was cr¥ing , I said it’s t3ars of joy and gratitude.

‎I have been so s@d and c0nfused since last night, I don’t know what to do cos I have already spent 85 percent of the money to buy high class stuffs for my self, my challenge now is where and how will I get money to pay for my school fees and house rents for 200l, 300l and 400l? I tried calling alhaji’’s number but the 1d10t bl0;cked me on all networks and platforms. I can’t open up to my elder brother on the blund3r I made, he will simply ignore me. Please house help me, what should I do? I can’t think my head is qu;@king, please advice me on what to do.



RomanceBaby Girl Treatment Gone Wrong... by IBenardoo(op): 6:08am On Aug 16, 2025
I just dey laugh and at same time still dey vex for this mumu, like what kind of orientation do most ladies even have, as seen on the internet I say make I share with my ppl for here to hear what they think about this young lady, abeg your judgment shouldn't be like[img][/img] another horoscopic page😂😂
I didn't even know the suitable topic for this peice sef😁
Admin please post for me and hide my identity. I am in a big m3$$. I am a 100 level student at the university. On Wednesday, one rich alhaji who has been ch@sing me asked for my bank account details and promised to send me money. Yesterday morning I received an alert of 2 million naira, I guessed it was from alhaji, quickly I composed and sent him an appreciation text message but he didn’t reply, and voom I went shopping in town. I bought an iPhone, long hairs ( by the way I love long hairs), high quality clothes , shoes , hand bags,jewelry, perfumes and stocked my kitchen with plenty food stuffs. Yesterday evening my elder brother who is sponsoring my university education called me to find out if I received the 2 million naira he sent to my account from a pos agent , it was then I realized that the money was from him and not alhaji. He went on to say that the 2 million naira is the grand total of my school fees and house rent for the remaining three years of my studies, he added that he was relocating with his family to Australia next week and he does not know how long it will take him to get a job and start earning money over there so he thought it wise to send me the money in advance so that regardless of whatever happens I will be able to complete my university studies . I told him thank you and started cr¥ing, he asked why I was cr¥ing , I said it’s t3ars of joy and gratitude.

I have been so s@d and c0nfused since last night, I don’t know what to do cos I have already spent 85 percent of the money to buy high class stuffs for my self, my challenge now is where and how will I get money to pay for my school fees and house rents for 200l, 300l and 400l? I tried calling alhaji’’s number but the 1d10t bl0;cked me on all networks and platforms. I can’t open up to my elder brother on the blund3r I made, he will simply ignore me. Please house help me, what should I do? I can’t think my head is qu;@king, please advice me on what to do.
Admin please post for me and hide my identity. I am in a big m3$$. I am a 100 level student at the university. On Wednesday, one rich alhaji who has been ch@sing me asked for my bank account details and promised to send me money. Yesterday morning I received an alert of 2 million naira, I guessed it was from alhaji, quickly I composed and sent him an appreciation text message but he didn’t reply, and voom I went shopping in town. I bought an iPhone, long hairs ( by the way I love long hairs), high quality clothes , shoes , hand bags,jewelry, perfumes and stocked my kitchen with plenty food stuffs. Yesterday evening my elder brother who is sponsoring my university education called me to find out if I received the 2 million naira he sent to my account from a pos agent , it was then I realized that the money was from him and not alhaji. He went on to say that the 2 million naira is the grand total of my school fees and house rent for the remaining three years of my studies, he added that he was relocating with his family to Australia next week and he does not know how long it will take him to get a job and start earning money over there so he thought it wise to send me the money in advance so that regardless of whatever happens I will be able to complete my university studies . I told him thank you and started cr¥ing, he asked why I was cr¥ing , I said it’s t3ars of joy and gratitude.

I have been so s@d and c0nfused since last night, I don’t know what to do cos I have already spent 85 percent of the money to buy high class stuffs for my self, my challenge now is where and how will I get money to pay for my school fees and house rents for 200l, 300l and 400l? I tried calling alhaji’’s number but the 1d10t bl0;cked me on all networks and platforms. I can’t open up to my elder brother on the blund3r I made, he will simply ignore me. Please house help me, what should I do? I can’t think my head is qu;@king, please advice me on what to do.
RomanceHe Should Have Ignored Me by IBenardoo(op): 3:49pm On Jul 10, 2025
"He should have ignored me" – Lady narrates how a guy she rejected wound down his car's window to tell her sorry while she walked in the rain.

RomanceMan Dies After Girlfriend Sets His Home On Fire by IBenardoo(op): 12:11pm On Jul 10, 2025
Man whose girlfriend set his home on fire in Port harcourt d!es,

On the evening of Sunday, July 6, 2025, a tragic event unfolded at No. 11B Okoro Street, Choba, in Obio/Akpor LGA, Port Harcourt. The Rivers State Police report states:

Cynthia Chukwundah, reportedly a 300‑level undergraduate at the University of Port Harcourt, and her boyfriend, 32‑year‑old Saint Sunny Amadi, were involved in a heated argument that escalated rapidly.

Neighbors reported that the disagreement centered on the pregnancy Cynthia was carrying, allegedly Sunny’s child.

According to eyewitnesses , Cynthia left briefly during the fight, returned with petrol, and when Sunny had fallen asleep, doused him and their apartment with fuel before setting it ablaze.

Both sustained severe burns—Sunny was rushed to the University of Port Harcourt Teaching Hospital (UPTH), but died from third-degree burns.

Cynthia also suffered burns. She was apprehended by the police and hospitalized under their supervision.

The Rivers State Police launched a full investigation; as of July 8, the probable cause of the fire was under review.
RomanceRe: Husband Writes To Cheating Wife In Benue State. (photos) by IBenardoo(m): 11:26pm On Jul 08, 2025
RomanceN-power Guys Do You Still Have This Device (picture) by IBenardoo(op): 11:20pm On Jul 08, 2025
N-power abi I should say ex N-power's😁
Tell us about this device
Where is it right now

RomanceHow Ungrateful And Insensitive Can This Lady Be by IBenardoo(op): 3:48pm On Jul 08, 2025
How on earth are some ladies like this..
Like what kind of gutter mentality is this for crying out loud🤦
It's actually a shame that we have millions of this type littered all over our society, well I'll advice couples to be careful when bringing in a third party into their home, some of them are the devil in disguise

RomanceRe: Nigerian Man, Fresh In The UK Risk Deportation For Not Minding His Business by IBenardoo(op): 1:35pm On Jul 06, 2025
VeeVeeMyLuv:
grin grin grin grin

Very good
Una no dey hear word!
Send back his ass abeg
Hahahaha
When dem bring am back with him bad character, naija go reshape am wella
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man, Fresh In The UK Risk Deportation For Not Minding His Business by IBenardoo(op): 1:34pm On Jul 06, 2025
Brandiebird:
Awe! Bless his cotton heart, he must be restarted grin
Opportunity that many are looking for werey go useless am
Chai, life is so unfair
RomanceNigerian Man, Fresh In The UK Risk Deportation For Not Minding His Business by IBenardoo(op): 1:04pm On Jul 06, 2025
Nigerian Man, fresh in the UK, MIGHT get sent back to Nigeria for not minding his business.

Some people can be a big mouth
Make me remember the movie "talking Thomas"

PoliticsDatti Baba Has This To Say On The Coalition. by IBenardoo(op): 5:08pm On Jul 03, 2025
READ 👇🔥

"I don’t yet see anyone in this coalition who can scheme and plan over 16 years. With all due respect to Atiku, he has contested consistently—this will be the seventh time. But tell me: is there anyone else in the coalition who will say, “Let it be the other person, and I will support them”? I’m yet to see that. Everyone seems only interested in their own candidacy.

"But what did Tinubu do? He invested in Buhari, unreliable as Buhari was. He backed him—and after Buhari, he took over. He stayed committed for 16 years and took it in 2023.

"Tinubu gave Atiku the ACN in 2007. Gave it to Ribadu in 2011. Backed Buhari in 2015. And waited until 2023 to take it himself. I’m saying: to defeat this phenomenon called Tinubu, you must do the unthinkable.

"If this coalition—which I recognise—thinks it’s business as usual, it won’t work. It has to be less about individual ambition and more about Nigeria. More action, less talk. Because talk is cheap..."
RomanceRe: Man Shocked As He Asked His Gen Z Sis To Write Price Increasement by IBenardoo(op): 7:28pm On Jul 02, 2025
RenaissanceGuy:
Rubbbbbish. You thread title was suggesting the lady "gbagaun", but your accompanying post showed otherwise.
Okay
Your opinion tho
Anyways noted, at least I'll learn from your own topics you've posted
RomanceRe: Man Shocked As He Asked His Gen Z Sis To Write Price Increasement by IBenardoo(op): 12:31pm On Jul 02, 2025
SeverusSnape:
Awwwwn "Special bread for special people". grin

This is enough to melt any customer's heart. They will understand and buy wholeheartedly.
I'm very sure demands will skyrocket after the notice have been placed 😁
Creativity with words
Person go still dey shout "sch na scam"
RomanceMan Shocked As He Asked His Gen Z Sis To Write Price Increasement by IBenardoo(op): 12:14pm On Jul 02, 2025
To me she did her best, she even explained in details to the customers
Baba should just promote her to MD jare😁😁

InvestmentRe: Investment Option For Small And Big Capital, This Works... by IBenardoo(op): 3:23pm On Jun 30, 2025
You can as well dive into accruing some company shares

InvestmentInvestment Option For Small And Big Capital, This Works... by IBenardoo(op): 3:21pm On Jun 30, 2025
It’s salary week. If your salary is weak, don’t waste it…. invest it.
If you can spend 18k on shawarma and drinks in one night then you can invest 10k in your future and still sleep well
Start where you are
Use what you have
You'll be shocked that small amount stack up over time

Before you blow ₦15k on shawarma, drinks, and vibes, here’s what you can do instead:

✅ FGN Savings Bond – start with ₦5k on AfrInvest
✅ Treasury Bills – safe & short-term from ₦10k
✅ Mutual Funds – experts invest for you on CowryWise
✅ High-Yield Savings- use PiggyVest Flex Naira
✅ Nigerian & US Stocks - start with ₦5k on Rise, Bamboo, or Chaka

You don’t need millions to build wealth just the right information and habits.
📊 I encourage the use of Expense Tracker

RomanceRe: Why Many Men Cheat by IBenardoo(op): 6:18am On Jun 28, 2025
Tenrack:
I no even bother reading your text. I just went along with the topic. I am not happy jare. No vex.
Lol, person no fit just dey this country still dey get joy na😁
I understand my brother, God go help us
RomanceRe: Please Help Me Masturbation Has Finished Me-will I Be Able To Father Children by IBenardoo(m): 10:09am On Jun 26, 2025
Therock5555:
Oboi e don red for you.


Good news, you go still born children.

Bad news, since one of your balls is dry, half of your kids bodies would be dry.....


Like if na girl child now, she fit get dry boobs like okporoko then big ass or if na boy, him fit get large arms like Jonny bravo with tooth pick legs....



So you have two choices, either you flatten the second ball or you pump air into the flat tire.
..


Thank me later....
Why you get bad mouth like this na
Omo you go dey calm down oo😂😂
RomanceNipple Amputated Because Of Piercing by IBenardoo(op): 10:05am On Jun 26, 2025
This is someone's nipples, amputated because of piercing...

"🚨Seeing this alone gives me PTSD🤦

Nipple amputation

Anything more than one spot ear piercing is a NO for me. Other places always make me vomit and some people pierce their clitoris too😑.

I so much detest multiple piercing on wómen.

This one cannot grow back. It is done‼️"

I do not understand this madness about piercing on every part of the body. This one now will remain nipple-less for life

RomanceRe: Why Many Men Cheat by IBenardoo(op): 10:00am On Jun 26, 2025
Tenrack:
holl up. Can you see the topic you created at all? It obviously says "many men" abi you dey whine me ni...it's all there... Maybe I have to have a second look
No hate Pls
But with someone like you, I'll just be wasting time
So senior man I rest my case
RomanceRe: Why Many Men Cheat by IBenardoo(op): 10:37am On Jun 25, 2025
Tenrack:
Oga speak for yourself. I don't cheat. See rubbish take. Btw it's hard to find a loyal, faithful young woman nowadays.
Well, if you had read properly which obviously you didn't, you'll see that I stated specifically "some men"
RomanceLady With Stunning Look Declared She Can Take Away Bf's by IBenardoo(op): 6:42am On Jun 25, 2025
"I can take your Boyfriend if I want to"....
23yrs Old Ghanaian Beauty 😍 Queen Laments!🤣🙆🏼‍♂️😊😁

RomanceLady Got Engaged To Her Bestie Of 10 Years by IBenardoo(op): 10:03pm On Jun 24, 2025
MOMENT Lady got engaged to her bestie of 10 years who was in her life all through when she suffered 3 different heartbreaks.

RomanceLady Got Engaged To Her Bestie Of 10 Years by IBenardoo(op): 9:54pm On Jun 24, 2025
MOMENT Lady got engaged to her bestie of 10 years who was in her life all through when she suffered 3 different heartbreaks.

RomanceRe: I Sponsored My Girlfriend’s Business, Now She's Getting Disrespectful by IBenardoo(m): 10:06am On Jun 23, 2025
shibyc:
Guys, today I believe women are truly different creatures.

I opened a small business for my babe – just something modest. She's now pulling in about 100k monthly, but ever since the money started flowing, her attitude has changed completely.

Imagine, I sell her products sometimes and give old customers a small discount—like ₦100—and she starts fighting me. Argument upon argument.

Then if I borrow small money from her during emergencies (just like ₦2k or ₦5k), wahala go burst. Even when she knows I have money and I'm definitely paying back, the way she reacts eh, like I’m begging her.

She forgets one thing:
The capital is mine. 90% of the customers are mine and everything she’s using today, I handed it to her on a platter.

Now I’m realizing that, if this business grows bigger, she might not even want me anymore. She could decide to go solo and live her own life.

So now I’m asking you all:

Is the best solution to avoid empowering a woman financially ?

I was doing it with the mindset of being educated and forward-thinking, but now I dey reason am twice.

What do you all think?
Omo people sabi dey take risk oo
RomanceWhy Many Men Cheat by IBenardoo(op): 10:04am On Jun 23, 2025
Personally why I think some men are single is because the character of the woman they want is not in the body shape they admire

They say men are cheaters in nature right, funny but somewhat true....
I can tell that no matter how much a man keeps to one woman and doesn't engage is fornication or adultery he secretly desires a curvy and perfecty figured lady he sets his eyes on, those thoughts run through his mind and for some men they lose focus and go after them, women knows this powerful tool is most men's weakness and use it very efficiently.

Men don't allow yourself to be called a "FINISNED MAN" Imagine that, all cause of momentary pleasure
true manculinity is the ability to stay with temptation and not letting it own and consume you

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