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Have you told your mum you paid for them?

sod09:
I told my girlfriend about it,thinking it's was a joke...she's still mad sha

Lmao

Lol damn Brazil, wot u doin

DonPiiko:
I will find it for you, I know he has new songs haven't checked them out yet.

Found it!

In my mind it was either Phyno or Illbliss


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XlhC28eG_Iw

Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

EmekaBlue:
get one for urself quick

In due time

DonPiiko:
where do you find the jamz?

One friend I used to call my personal DJ who'd recommend songs, youtube, TV and I also actively search sometimes

DonPiiko:
I will find it for you, I know he has new songs haven't checked them out yet.

Thank you

I've been slacking, I'm usually very up to date

Mariangeles:
I was going to ask where the stew went...but

YorubaAssasin:
They're cute ONLY when they're not your's...

There's this song I think is by Pyhno featuring someone else where he is repeatedly saying 'ratatatatatata tatatata' or something that I don't know the name of, DonPiiko do you know the one I'm talking about?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=daMkeOtlDRY

MrOwonikoko:
Abeg make i gv u belle abeg bikonu

Are you fine and rich?

Lol I know this is supposed to be shade but I'm laughing sha

mikejj:
..i see you,,,white rice and meat

Lool I didn't make it na, I would've added some kind of sauce, otherwise it's essentially just rice and stew with meat but, without the stew

The meat juice made it bearable

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QgoizPHtgkE

https://i65.tinypic.com/sc8bdf.gif

https://i65.tinypic.com/1zegtqx.gif

I love babies - toddlers, so cute

edimolu:
Thanks ibk!!

Exactly my point, i like that you are aware it'd upset her, she even called me few hours ago, and trust me, i realized this would be a lil difficult!!

if i can't say it on phone, how the hell ama supposed to say it in person, not like am scared of her , but i can't begin to imagine how bad it'd break/ruin her esteem, now that's what scares me!!!

Say it in person

At least, if you're face to face it will seem like the thought just hit you because you're in close proximity or something and that's why it occurred to you to say something. If you say it over the phone it will be as if you've been pondering over it deeply, like it's that big of a dilemma, which it is, but....yeah....I don't know, it won't be easy regardless sha

CDCEO001:
Ok thanks.
So it goes well with cashew nuts?

Lol I wouldn't say it goes well or badly, it was just a random combo

CDCEO001:
What's the dark red stuff?

Cherries

Lol the title though

Oh dear, to be honest, no matter how nice you say it, it will probably upset her. It may even be underlying health issues so apply tact if you end up addressing it. Include yourself by saying something like ‘we all have our bad days etc’ or something.

DonPiiko, please how did you take it when you were told? Maybe OP can learn a bit from your experience

Rice with beef and a salted caramel frappe for lunch. Didn’t cook

pemiakd:
Pounded yam with efo worowo

Nice

NoToPile:
First food post alert, have always been a salivator

I hope it uploads this time

Akara
Dodo and beans porridge

Yum

Maybe you can be friends with benefits instead, if she’s up for it

If you’re going to send nudes (because it just happens sometimes, in the heat of the moment, especially in relationships), don’t send anything incriminating lol as in make sure there’s no way of identifying you for sure

Optionally:
I've tried countless times to speak to him about it but he only gets angry and only on few occasions he hit me.

No justification for physical violence unless it's in self defence, not everyone can be helped or wants help and he's not likely to stop so leave him asap

Have you spoken to him about this? If so, what was his response? Is he aware of his problem? Has he at least tried to change? Do you know if there’s a deep rooted reason for his behaviour? Is he abusive?

Situations like this usually only get worse and may get physical (if it hasn’t already). I know you love him, but do you really want to live the rest of your life treading on eggshells because he can’t control his temper?

If he’s at least self aware, actively trying to change, is hot tempered, but not necessarily abusive and a decent enough boyfriend in other areas to make staying with him worth it anyway, don’t abandon him if you personally are still willing to save the relationship, work with him in taking steps to improve. Get him to see a specialist (if you have access to one), anger management classes etc. It will take a lot of patience and only do it you’re willing. Also, don’t be that long-suffering girlfriend who continues to stick it out if there’s no sign of improvement by the way, it won’t take a week, but if it’s been like 6 months for example and there’s no marked improvement, it’s time to hang up the towel.

If he’s abused you in any way and/or is not even aware that he has a problem and isn’t willing to try and change, it may be best to move on. 2 years is a long time and I’m sure you’ve both invested a lot into the relationship, but don’t underestimate the danger you could be in if this is left to worsen.

thatigboman:
Was nice to my in laws initially when we got married.
When requests started flooding and all kinds of misbehaviour started. I said no no. And my wife was supporting. Asked me if i didnt know i was supposed to buy a car for her family when i wanted to marry her. I say ehn? Then cut them all off. 100% cut off. Now none comes to my house without calling me. And we discuss how long thwy will stay and give them ground rules. If u like come, if u dont want to come, good.

Oh lawd

AHCB:
After much budsweising.

Nice, I like it when rice looks like that, thin with no mushiness

AHCB:
don't take this the wrong way, but i'm beginning to love the work of your hands.

Haha thanks but all I did was boil it in water over the stove tbh, came straight out of the packet, condiments included

Don't think that's Cee C, definitely a look alike though

Spicy shin ramyun noodles and then fruit to negate the carbs, life is about balance

AHCB:
Ibkayee. It finally came.

Wa jeun.

Yum