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DarkRebel69:
It's only a bad thing bacause she has deprived her step-daughter of some photographs of her late mother. It's not an unforgivable crime though. The man only needs to put himself in the shoes of those who lived in the pre-Camera era and reason backwards: "If cameras didn't exist, then the issue of my ex-wife's photographs getting destroyed wouldn't even arise at all because there wouldn't even be any photograph in the first place".

If he reasons this way then reconciliation should come easier.

I don't agree that the new wife did not have a right to be insecure. She had the right. If you got married to someone but your mind is still fixated on your dead wife, then it is you who is selfish and inconsiderate of the emotions of your new wife. Why commit to one when you are still emotionally attached to another? (Worse is when the person you are attached to is nothing but a heap of dust boxed up in a casket). Am I being cold? Well, unless you equate coldness with realism...

I don't get this though. We know all know death would come to us someday, one way or the other. And yet when it eventually happens some people can't just move on (Just as some ladies over-exaggerate their feeling of surprise when a guy proposes, even though they saw the proposal coming from a hundred yards out)
I don't understand this weakness of the human nature.

I think we need to evolve as a species. Attaching sentimental importance to something as material as the photos of our departed ones? To me, it's primitivism and weakness. But I guess we all see the world differently.

Being insecure, jealous etc is normal. Issue is more how she went about it, getting rid of it wasn't her place. She also kept it a secret until asked

Benita27:
I still stand on my point that only an Angel would've tolerated that. The lady rushed into marriage with a man that was still attached to his late wife. If her husband had moved on, he could've moved all his late wife's belongings that the daughter may need into a safe box for her incase of future reference than having some photo albums littered in their home.

Being jealous is normal and understandable, point is dealing with it the way she did isn't

She could've 'not tolerated' it by putting those things in storage or something and the fact that she also kept it a secret until she was asked is telling

Blackfyre:
[b]Wonder why she couldn't have had it stored in a storage, [/b]how could she have ignored her daughter would have needed those.

Exactly

daylyt:
Ehnn..
How are you?

I'm ok thanks, hope you're well

Oyindidi:
Throw her out of the house

Wouldn't blame him if he did

Benita27:
For what?. Her only mistake was not having a heart-to-heart heart talk with her husband concerning pictures of his late wife littered all over their home. She married a man that hoards. Any woman would've felt same being in such a situation except if you're an Angel, 'cause the pictures were constant reminder that you're in a competition with his late wife.

I'd add selfish and insecure to that, plus the fact that she did it behind his back.

Consider that these things are irreplaceable and the fact that these are also memories of his daughter. 'She married a man that hoards' also kind of underplays the situation, dead wife not secondary school ex.

This isn't normal behaviour, nothing to do with being an angel or not, it sha teeters on psychotic.

LadyGoddiva:
What a selfish, insecure bitch!

Exactly

Lool if the OP isn't trolling, I'm just concerned he may actually take what some of the posters joking above are saying seriously

Title is misleading since it's only factoring in the financial sector, it's corrupt but it can never be the 'most' when countries like Nigeria, Somalia, Venezuela etc. exist. Maybe the most corrupt of the least corrupt countries in the world lol

AryaSand

Hey, so I think I know who you may be and if you're who I think you are, I'm a big fan of your work

If not, my mistake and don't mind me

Tottenham are winning this

daylyt:
I trust you too

Most people do

Thegamingorca:
Favourite jam

Thegamingorca:
Stromae is cool

Ahh I trust you

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ChiefPiiko:
that would be more like it, aren't you turning up its Friday

Soon sha

ChiefPiiko:
you will legit sicken me, no wonder you don't reply PMs and all that, you deserve your own crowd

Lool I like most genres tbh, don't worry we can listen to Duncan Mighty too

Blue | Eiffel 65

ChiefPiiko:
Damn I almost shed tears out of boredom you are geek and I am sure you dope, such weird and grotesque taste in music

This boy you're useless

ChiefPiiko:
lemme check YouTube

Watch the video

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@ChiefPiiko try this one out

ChiefPiiko:
instrumentals are for mad people my old man fancies beethoven and all that nonsense I term him mad

Lool I love instrumentals, I also like Beethoven

ChiefPiiko:
you think so, I don't want to be disappointed plus note that I sold my fone to buy data

So you haven't even heard it? Mtchew

Doubt you'll like it sha, plus it's more an instrumental

ChiefPiiko:
our major difference is taste in music, you are weird men

Lool such a great song though smh

Merci | Stromae

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