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Piiko:
The first two were specific, the third is ambiguous so it can swing both ways joor, me I haven't been raped yet and I don't think it's such a bad idea, I will heal

The only thing that was 'specific' about that writeup was this part in regards to the first counsellor

Her work earned her an appointment with the Abia State Governor as an SA to the governor on matters related to the girl child.

And it's talking about her previous works, not necessarily that only female victims are welcome to be helped.

The rest of the writeup only refers to survivors as 'victims', coming across as gender neutral

pocohantas:
Women lover, I see you...mtcheeeeeeeeeeew!



They didn't read it, no one who read that post without bias will type what they are typing. I've seen so many that are focused on only the girl child, I know how they are written. This one mentioned youths in general, teens, minors, victims...there was no gender indicated.

Which is good development. They all need good counsel...

They're actually stupid

I thought it was great that they didn't make it gender specific since a lot of males are underrepresented

JeffreyJamez:
Yeaaah, it's always about the female victims. The male Victims can go to hell and burn.

Victims weren't specified by gender you dumbf*ck

tosyne2much:
Who should men also consult when they are being faced with the same sexual abuse?

I recognise that male victims tend to not be paid as much attention to in comparison to females, but the write-up didn't specify that the victims had to be any gender, did you guys actually read it?

Or are you just here to be fake outraged and invalidate the true plights of female rape victims? Pathetic

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Gwaihir:
What are your thoughts?

I think Molly proved a theory of mine correct, where people convictions are only as deep as their experiences. After the discovery of her dad, she didn't find anything wrong with sleeping with Drew.

Yeah you're right, have a feeling he's lying about the marriage being 'open' too, we shall see lol

As for Issa and Daniel, I think you were right, there was no being "take advantage" of in what happened. I guess it makes the cheating a lot more unforgivable? Daniel doesn't seem of the same mind with her though.

Yeah she wanted it as much as he did, whilst he knew she was in a vulnerable state, it's not like he prodded her or anything, only bad thing about it was he knew she was in a relationship

I find it puzzling though, that even as Lawrence friend said women would naturally gravitate to a man who got his stuff together, as Issa did with Daniel concerning Lawrence she still does not see it fit to have a relationship with him that is not based on strictly sex? Is that to say the heart wants what it wants irrespective of how illogical it may be and/or in the presence of better options? From a female angle do you find that to be true?

I just think she got out of a long term relationship and doesn't want to stress herself jumping into anything serious so soon and especially with an ex, feelings don't just go away like that, seems like she doesn't want emotions involved just yet and just wants to have fun, it happens lol

Gwaihir:
@ibkayee
Have you watched the latest episode?

Yeah I've watched it, what are your thoughts?

Gwaihir

Lol it's cool, I have

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Gwaihir:
I should be asking you that

Is there something am missing?

Lol missing something how?

Gwaihir:
@ibkayee

What's up? Hellooo??

Madam wetin happen na?

Gwaihir:
@ibkayee

Please if you can read this come online, I miss you

Lol nawa o, hope everything is ok?

Bojack horseman season 4 coming soon!

HML! x

Piiko:
plot twist I know the couple that's my friends younger sister hubby, so he did a great deed

Giving your own son a bath is a great deed lol, got it. What of drying him after the bath?

sunshineG:
wow I can't believe it but I just have hope it is true
One very beautiful black British lady actually eats and more importantly digs my local amala

I am ecstatic right now ( dancing and blushing )

By the way, I just hhave to bring it up, since we didn't really reach a conclusion the last time

Hmm about your age

42

sunshineG:
wow that is great

Emmmm but yam porridge dont exactly qualify as local food
Even from the name, you can tell

Common don't tell me you don't dig a of plate hot amala with goat meat

Don't let my ibo bruv see it * covers face in shame*

I think asaro is another word for it. Yeah I like amala, ewedu etc

sunshineG:
really
Praseeeeee the lord *phew*
I was starting to think I will drop my favorite amala and start to eat what ever it is you guys eat over there in England

By the way, although it is none of my fucking business but I just have to ask anyway

Do you eat local Nigeria food
If you do which is your favorite?

Lol yeah I do, yam porridge

Piiko:
Sharap I meant bathing the baby was a regular chores add doing the dishes and cooking to that list kapish

Lool!

Gwaihir:
Small small oh.... Do not make those who are hopeful of marrying you casualty of war o

Lool small play

Piiko:
lol regular chores I like to hold out the doors for ladies and buy them food, its the little things that matter. I would consider getting to the peak of my career as a good enough accomplishment, wouldn't you

These ones are chores?

Gwaihir:
Madam you have been gun blazing left and right, are we safe or is there an atomic bomb too?

Looool

God forbid marrying a Nigerian man if this is what is considered an achievement chai

Lol but he outrightly told her he doesn't want to date her

collinsebuka:
note: The guy has told her expressly he doesn't want to date her, said he can't do long distance etc she on the other hand feels it's just an excuse not to commit to her and he just needs time that he would date her

Now she has ignore a lot of guys for him, stopped going on dates and told everyone she was in a relationship simply because she didn't want to cheat.

Lmao she is mad, please help me contact the guy instead and tell him to run