Romance › Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date A Handsome Guy by ibkayee(f): 9:48pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Watch ugly guys come and claim they can 'relate'  |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Robs And Shoots Russian Woman In Thailand (Photos) by ibkayee(f): 6:34pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Gwaihir: Wonder what they will have done to him if it were Russia?  Waterboarded him |
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Romance › Re: The 4 Reasons "Good Women" Keep Getting Dumped By Men They Love by ibkayee(f): 2:05pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
eljayson: 1. The women aren't teachable: This comes in the context of not being adaptable to each other. Many women out there have the right job, right skills in bed, right body, but their inability compromise for their man makes him seek comfort elsewhere. In relationships, more than being right about something, it is better to be kind.
More than feeling love, showing love the right way is important.
Many good women out there have been left heartbroken because they did not show the kind of love their man needed at the time, and were too caught up in their own idea of what a man wants that they lost him because they did not bend.
The cure: Better communication and fluidity in decision making. Can you expatiate on this one please |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Cameroon: 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifier 4 - 0 (Full Time) by ibkayee(f): 7:40pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
Udom's pledge is really working wonders  |
Music/Radio › Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 2:36pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
Piiko: if bobrisky can do it what stops her Lmao |
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan Goes Gangsta In Camouflage (photos) by ibkayee(f): 2:03pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
Nbote: If she knows she's tough make she wear dat camo comot from inside studio pass army barracks  |
Phones › Re: 400GB Microsd Card That Costs N91,000 by ibkayee(f): 12:48pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
FemiEddy: In the next ten years, I just can't imagine what would be in vogue by then, my kids be laffin at me for using 32gig memory card by then  thesicilian: $250 is a fair price. Its looking big to you because you converted it into a worthless currency.  |
Sports › Re: Governor Emmanuel Udom Promises Super Eagles $10,000 Per Goal by ibkayee(f): 12:42pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
Misplaced priorities |
Romance › Re: What Message Do You Have For Your E-friends This Ember Period? by ibkayee(f): 11:34am On Sep 01, 2017 |
SunshineG Happy new month my friend! Thanks for the shoutout  |
Romance › Re: I Need A Girlfriend That Don't Demand For Money by ibkayee(f): 11:24am On Sep 01, 2017 |
muller101: Go to the mortuary and hang out with some beautiful female corpse. Lmao |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Kenya Election 2017: Supreme Court Annuls Kenyatta Re-election by ibkayee(f): 11:21am On Sep 01, 2017 |
Kenya setting the precedents. Zimbabwe next hehe  |
Romance › Re: What Message Do You Have For Your E-friends This Ember Period? by ibkayee(f): 11:02am On Sep 01, 2017 |
BETlordnowpsych Thank you dear, happy new month to you too  |
Romance › Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ibkayee(f): 11:00am On Sep 01, 2017 |
imustsaymymindo: Lol. Who would a guy have sex with? It's obviously a girl he knows either his babe or friend. Body no be stone o.
If a "nice guy" along the line starts loving you or becomes sexually attracted to you and you sense it, it does not mean the sole purpose of the friendship and his nice deeds were for sex. That is why it is neccessary to redefine relationships because it grows.
Everybody has a tendency to want sex, even a celibate person and it is not a bad thing. Unless you are looking for impotent men as friends. Or dont you ibkayee feel in the mood sometimes even towards a friend? If not, go to the doctor for a check up o.  Yeah I get, but I'm talking about guys who intentionally masquerade as something they aren't to get it. Not the scenario you just described |
Romance › Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ibkayee(f): 10:55am On Sep 01, 2017*. Modified: 12:44pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
sunshineG: so in essence you are saying that genuine good guys just have to live with being unfortunate victims of something they are not responsible for
After that it is life right? Sometimes, sort of how nice girls may become victims of guys who become 'bad' because they had bad experiences, it's a cycle. Not all, but they do tend to attract certain kinds of predatory woman who take advantage of them unfortunately. Unfortunately life doesn't happen like that because most genuine nice guys after being collateral damage a couple of times become bad guys and the Bleep boys we see today It does, it just becomes a cycle of genuinely 'good' people switching up and it occurs with both genders I reference iaj( Jude a popular nairalander) post yesterday where he stated that ladies taking advantage of him as a nice guy turned him into a bad boy. He (iaj) further claimed that his bad boy attitude gets him better chicks and better deals with ladies Sounds plausible. I think girls are attracted to 'bad guys' because of their perceived 'power traits' i.e. confidence, alpha male energy, status, charisma, being a challenge to attain etc which they find exciting and it's usually for more short term relationships whereas they may seek out the nicer guys (who may be perceived as less exciting) for something more long term/commited. (Guys do this too, how many times have you heard a guy that's spent most of his younger years indulging in all kinds of debauchery strictly wanting to settle down with a virgin lol) *Not saying nice guys can't be confident or give off alpha male energy but they tend to come across as a lot more submissive which may be perceived as 'weak'. The nice ones who don't give off a submissive energy as much probably fare better and they exist but aren't as common Now that is just a testimony of one guy, I am sure you have heard similar stories Yeah it's pretty common, in fact I think it's the main reason people turn 'bad' Yet, many ladies always claim rude boys are stupid and undesirable Some girls secretly lust for it but will never admit it I guess So I go back to my first question. What do ladies really want? I don't understand you lot at all Both genders do this tbh, a lot of us are confused lol Not all sha, some girls aren't necesarily into all that, they make up a smaller portion but they're definitely there lol...somewhere  |
Romance › Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ibkayee(f): 8:26pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
sunshineG: She wasn't specific because she didn't state the type of good guys she was referring to but instead she used the word "most" in her post Most implies the majority do it, which may be what she's experienced I guess. The rest are the genuine ones lol yes there is no fool proof sign and yes ladies that treat nice guys badly are also wrong Yes, ladies that take advantage of the genuinely nice guys are wrong But don't you think the mentality of ladies who treat nice guys badly is similar to what she wrote in her post Sometimes it's hard to differentiate between the genuine and fake, however when it's a case of the girl knowing the guy is genuine and taking advantage of this she's wrong. If she's doing it under a guise to get something from him then it's similar If it's a case of her not being sure or thinking the guy is being fake (even though he may not be, but she doesn't know this) then she's just being cautious and I can't blame her since some guys go to ridiculous lengths for sex and unfortunately the genuine ones are collateral damage, which is unfair but that's life unfortunately Don't you think those ladies believe those guys are nice because of the honey pot? I can't blame some girls for thinking this, some guys go to ridiculous lengths to get sex, some nice guys are the collateral damage which is unfair but that's life unfortunately Do you think it is fair to the genuine nice guys ? Since there is no way of diff them from "bad" good guys I don't think it's fair to genuine guys Because frankly I beginning to think most ladies prefer snobbish and proud guys There's a difference between the overtly proud/snobbish guys (they're bad but they aren't pretending) and 'nice' guys. The fake nice guys are sha worse because an asshole is bad but at least he's upfront about it, not pretending to be something else to manipulate |
Romance › Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ibkayee(f): 7:57pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Cannicus: lol ! You mean baba esteemos, no?
 Lmao our fav I don't know about that one o  |
Romance › Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ibkayee(f): 7:53pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
sunshineG: but she wasn't specific in her post, even though she didn't generalize
So how do you diff btw a nice guy "just being nice" and a nice guy looking for the "honey pot"
what you think about ladies taking advantage of nice guys? She wasn't specific how? Yeah she didn't Hmm, it isn't always obvious in the beginning, some examples are going on about how nice they are, expect rewards for being nice, they aren't necessarily the most foolproof signs to look out for but they're common I think they're wrong too |
Romance › Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ibkayee(f): 7:35pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
sunshineG: so I don't get you ladies, Are you saying nice guys are stupid What of ladies that I nice to me, should I believe that they want to have sex with me too?l Nah nice guys aren't stupid, there are a lot of guys that are genuinely nice I believe she's talking about the guys who operate under the guise of being 'nice' to get to get sex. They act like being nice entitles them to affection, sex etc so pretend Lol girls don't need to do all that to get sex like guys, maybe money lool |
Romance › Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by ibkayee(f): 7:05pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
makydebbie: I'm coming back to modify.  Oya I'm done cooking.
Op firstly, I'll tell you, you're not insecure in anyway. You're even smart not to over look it and see it as something normal.
Our nowadays ladies, will say girls do backstab, gossip and other shitty things. Truth is, most guys that are 'acting' nice are not so nice. Ladies! Wake up! They just want to fvck you and move on. There's nothing like guys are more caring than ladies. Of course they want your honeypot so why will they show their real colors? From friend, to bestie, to confidant, to friends with benefits without you knowing how you guys ended up there. Guys are smart, they'll take your excesses, they'll listen to your rant, they'll comfort you. My dear, it's all for the greater good. If you don't like female friends, then be on your own. It's not every boy on the street that is your male friend. Most of them will even see your actions as green light, but then, you're just nice to your 'friend'.
At the end, they just want to fvck you. Later we'll see thread that "all guys are the same". Everything starts from friendship, they'll start from there, when they're done destroying your pussy, you'll be wondering why nigga doesn't have your time again. You gave him the opportunity on a golden platter. Guys are very patient, they'll wait, take your rubbish, fvck, move on and tell their friends. I don talk my own, I feel like creating thread on this nonsense sef.  Ladies, be wise. You no fit keep yam and goat together, something must happen.
Lalasticlala I no fit rant for nothing make this thread reach fp abi Horlohlah?  Wish I could like this a million times  |
TV/Movies › Re: Kechi Okwuchi Moves To The Semifinals On "America's Got Talent" by ibkayee(f): 6:56pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Just watched one of her performances and almost shed a tear seeing her perform so confidently on stage, I admire her strength, it takes a lot |
Romance › Re: 'Edo Ladies In Italy Have Sex In The Bush, I'm Ashamed Of Them" - Edo Guy by ibkayee(f): 6:19pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
shaybebaby: No one is asking what the guys do for a living. I've seen some of such girls , don't know their nationalities but they are african. However I have never seen a black male gainfully employed over there. So my guess is they depend on the girls selling their bodies to feed them.  |
Romance › Re: Man Looking For A Virgin Graduate To Occupy His Kitchen by ibkayee(f): 5:56pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
cococandy: exactly. Some are even worse looking See the kitchen he's even beckoning somebody to occupy, tufia  |
TV/Movies › Re: Kechi Okwuchi Moves To The Semifinals On "America's Got Talent" by ibkayee(f): 3:58pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
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Crime › Re: Russian Woman Set Up By Her Nigerian Lover, Caught With Cocaine. by ibkayee(f): 3:55pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Smh |
TV/Movies › Re: Kechi Okwuchi Moves To The Semifinals On "America's Got Talent" by ibkayee(f): 3:55pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
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Travel › Re: Woman From Switzerland Blasts Nigeria Immigration "They Tried To Scam Me" by ibkayee(f): 2:48pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
gberra: Date whoever you want. You owe me a date... Lool  |
Travel › Re: Woman From Switzerland Blasts Nigeria Immigration "They Tried To Scam Me" by ibkayee(f): 2:19pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
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Travel › Re: Woman From Switzerland Blasts Nigeria Immigration "They Tried To Scam Me" by ibkayee(f): 1:49pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
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Travel › Re: Woman From Switzerland Blasts Nigeria Immigration "They Tried To Scam Me" by ibkayee(f): 1:42pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
gberra: Ibk, howdie? 
That girl exhibited a crude, obtuse & shallow mentality... Howdy my dear  Very. Lol it's ingrained in the fabric of Nigeria I can't even blame her 100% |