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eazzzy1:
To the OP, too much for who? Is the gap too much for you? Or for society? If you are fine with it carry on.

For me it’s too much, I can’t have my wife’s friends kneeling to greet me.

I don’t want to be called bros or sir by her friends husbands.

Our interests will be so unaligned that there will always have to be a compromise. Our ways of handling issues would be totally different.

Because you are a decade and half apart, you may not appeal to her fashion wise she wants you to wear things you aren’t comfortable in or vice versa.

It may be tough to know if she’s with you because she really likes you or because you are due for marriage and she wants to get married.

By the time you are 50 she will be 35 hmmmm.

If I have lots of money and I want a trophy wife then I could consider 15 years gap, if not the chances that she will cheat with someone within her age group is very high.

placeofallure:
If you have noble intentions it's ok.

My husband first made a pass at me when I was 16. He was willing to wait because we both knew I was way too young. Initially, he hid our affair. He said people won't understand how deeply he loves me, that they'd think he only wanted to take advantage of an innocent, immature girl. He was 12 years older, I didn't mind as long as he'd wait. I wasn't less privileged, I went to the university afterwards, we had an understanding that I'd come back to him and I did. My dad sent me to school but he contributed too.
Today, after many years together, we're still like Siamese twins.

The OP can go for the girl too, 15 years older isn't too much, just as 5 years younger isn't too little. Marriage is not a one size fits all kinda thing. You just have to find out your own avatar and live by it.

Ororocelemi:
You reason like I'm trying to kidnap someone's child, I'm not forcing her, I'm trying to respect myself not doing anything with an underage, plus she is not from a wealthy home doesn't mean she's less privileged.
Is Regina Daniels less privileged,
Is Shade Odukoya less privileged
Is Omotola less privileged
And also is Bianca Ojukwu less privileged
I'm not married to her yet and anything can change the future, what I know is I will wait for her to be an adult and if she is still interested, why won't I, unless the family says no.

See, it's not easy for me as you think, I'm not rich, I'm just an average working class graduate praying to be staffed with an increase in salary, I got advised by some elderly men as well and I've come to think if my mom gave birth to my elder brother at 19yrs, myself at 21yrs and my younger ones at a very young age, till date people see us and think she's our elder sister. And just as my mom was trained by my dad to be a graduate after giving birth, I promise the same for any undergraduate that I will marry.
When I'm 36 she will be 20, 16yrs different and I'm not a Muslim, I'm Igbo.
Try and understand me I've dated 25 and 27 gals, I can't marry who I can't control and I don't need who will push me to thinking of beating a lady.
I just need a home

Ororocelemi:
My brother my own is even more than yours, she is half of my age and I'm just waiting for her to turn 18 and I will move.
I can't kill myself biko!

Vinnie2000:
@OP..
The gap is Not too much..
BUT
How is she Like??
There are 25 yr old ladies and there are 25 year old ladies..
While some are mature n know what they want in Relationships,
Some are Slayqueens, all about meeting Rich men and Fine Boys..
they are hooked to Telemundo, Zeeworld,etc and have romantic ideas about the kind of men dey want..some will even have lots of Young Guys as Friends n will be snapping n posting picx with Dem all d time..

So OP, If d Girl belongs to the 2nd Category, Find another Babe..

kingxsamz:
She don finish school?

SimplyFacts:
Do I need to say more?

Lostchild:
I advice you to do the 25 years old.

I wish you the best

Lostchild:
icecool12

20 is too young for you but 25 is not that bad. 30 years old ladies are mainly single mothers or divorcees

OtuCalabar:
2naira per follower, but I'll sell at 275k

OtuCalabar:
166k followers Instagram account available

OnlineBusinessC:
How many followers?

Cryil007:
Available

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright......
Nor be small thing instagram dey do this boy o


Nor mind am.....me personally don leave instagram and Facebook for now....

I dey on my wechat.....dey us wechat huzzle..
Make him nor worry...all these he Shakara go soon end
Chinese yuan dey for boys

samtol4:
. About R2244 for one document (masters or bsc). OND+HND will be around R2800

samtol4:
Stellenbosch University and Capetown University admit students without Saqa evaluation. However, few universities also give conditional admission letter Pending when you submit your Saqa certificate.

Phargbemmy:
Add your phone number,
here is mine: 08186715860, we can chat on WhatsApp.

thanks

chigodo:
I've sent u an email. Waiting for ur response.

chukel:
yes. I bought 2 grade A 245/65 R17 tyres for 16k. That's 8k each

TPound:
they sure do. Grade A

TPound:
Thank you sir