judedave181:
I could remember working as a graduate cashier in mega chicken ajah, it wasn't something to write about.

Can you kindly elucidate please...

My friend is a great guy. He's been dating this lady for over 3years and some months now, and they have had their fair share of ups and downs, misunderstandings and disagreement. But Everytime they disagree, they'd always settle and life goes on. Their love for each other seem to be only true in books in cartoons.
Sometime this year, he proposed to her and engaged her with a ring, with the view that he was gonna do formal introduction to her family by MAY, but for the fear of Covid 19 and the lockdown, he had to just wait.
Now, the issue is, there's this guy in his babe's life who seems to be a threat to their bliss. His babe is so fond of this guy, she doesn't pick this guy's call in the presence of her fiance but she picks other calls. Infact, my Friend told me that he went through her chats with this other guy sometime around April last year when she came home from school for a 2 week break, and what he read almost left him paralyzed.
His babe has been going out with this guy, and collecting gifts and money from this guy in question. My friend confronted his GF but she kept being defensive of the guy and she told my friend that she and the guy were just friends and nothing more.

Just last week, the lady came around for one of her cousin's wedding and my friend went through her phone again. This time, he discovered that she was already deep into this relationship with this other guy.
My friend confronted her and typical of her, she defended this guy so we'll, you'd think my Friend was an enemy.
Mind you, that other guy is still a student and this my friend is done with school, working and doing well for himself.
Now... He's in a dilemma and doesn't know if he should just end the relationship, as this his girlfriend is bent on not breaking ties with the other guy...
Please advise .

0045671527 Ekpa Simeon Ojonugwa
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LucemFerre:
Hehe... Wake da fvck up. Talk and do, talk and sleep or do and die. If you ain't lucky you're fvcked. Life isn't all mathematics. But, a little hope there, a little faith here, a little luck there... That's how it is.
All these motivational speakers that will tell you to "go out there and get it" as if their fada keep am for somewhere make you go carry.

Work as hard as you can in life, hope for the best, expect the worse. You won't be surprised. Nothing is guaranteed. You can work extremely hard and die wretched, it's life.
The Nigerian mentality is that, when you have no job or ain't doing good, you are termed as lazy and not doing anything about it or lying down and waiting for miracles.
People just sit in front of their phones and type n0nsense without knowing what people are going through. I no blame dem sha. Na me carry myself come Nairaland

Dude, find somewhere sitdown. You haven't done any research and you don't know sh!t. I'm not telling people to be lazy but, there are like billions of kinds of graduates. No 2 people are the same in this world.

Peace

You've said all there is to say... God bless you jooooo

Guys my exams was scheduled for 7am and I missed it cos I got to the venue late. Say around 9:15am. I was able to speak with some officials conducting the exams and they said there was nothing Dy could do... Please is there anyone here with good info on what I can do to write the test? Thanks in anticipation.

Please can someone help me out.... I don't have my academic transcript currently and my submitted application form. What do I do?

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I need to be educated though... What do they actually do in bridal showers Discuss,pray or just take photos..??

@Sinaj.. I'd consider that.

@Sinaj... I've done that several times and she hasn't bulged. I Think the ish is she's mistaking my care for desperation.. Abi how u see am??

@BrideofDracula... Highly insightful.You know.. I feel lighter now. Much love!

Please I'm not a regular person on this social platform media but... I sincerely need advice and help.
I'm currently in a relationship that isn't working and I don't know what to do about it.
I started dating this lady around November last year, we were good for a while until around February when she started displaying some kinda nonchalant attitude towards the union. She rarely calls,texts or even reply mine,even on watsapp, she would be online and won't say a word until I initiate a conversation.
The most hurtful part of all is whenever I ask her what do we do to keep the relationship going and better off, she'd reply.."e dy your hand oo''. I'm tired and hurt cos the relationship seem to be one sided and I can't continue like this. Pls I need honest advice guys... Thanks in anticipation!!

I believe the major pointer is MOTIVE.
If the motive for the splits can be ascertained, then the splits could be avoided. I reckon that most of the splits in churches are as a result of incorrect motives e.g Fame,Money,Power etc. I think Christians should come together and unite.