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1. Delete all their contacts.
2. Find a genuine love: You're going back to them because you're probably lonely and in need of love. Sex cannot make up for the absence of love.
3. Stop watching porn by all means and avoid anything that makes you desire sex. You may also need to unfollow some accounts on Social media.
3. Tackle the root problem. If you are doing it as a way to deal with a bigger issue e.g getting out of frustration or depression, try to tackle the underlying issue.

Hi everyone,
The exorbitant cost getting an accomodation in Lagos is no longer news. However, it is a problem that has refused to go away.

The outrageous costs is mostly occasioned by fees paid as agency fees, commissions and legal fees.

Please, who has an idea as to how I can beat these costs, especially the agency fees. Are there any alternatives to getting cheaper accomodation in Lagos.

Why so much noise about the fact that Umahi endorsed Akpabio. This is just one of the numerous intrigues expected in the race for Senate Presidency. Akpabio has not won yet.

If Tinubu is left to choose singlehandedly, I'm sure he would go for Oshiomole not Akpabio. The problem is that Oshiomole is not a ranking Senator. Nonetheless, Tinubu will be looking out for a good party man and core loyalist amongst the contenders. In this regard, he may prefer Akpabio over Kalu, especially considering the fact that Akpabio supported him during the primaries whereas Kalu supported Ahmad Lawan.

You have been having sex even before your marriage. From all you have said, the only problem I see in your marriage is the deprivation of sex. With all your years of having sex, sex should be nothing to you at this age. Don't go sleeping around with girls or feeling your wife doesn't love you. You know fully well that she loves you. If she doesn't allow you have sex, then let her be. Whenever she is in the mood, you both can enjoy sex. Sex should mean absolutely nothing to you at this point.

You have a good home. Try to keep it and keep building it.

Also, you can try to speak with your wife to let her know how you feel. If she doesn't listen, speak to her parents or some other persons she respect. The issue you are having is a minor marital issue.

That was a good one from BAT. It's a sign of a good leader.