baralatie:

She wanted sex that she is used to.maybe medium but she got large and what she thot was controllable gas cooker stove fire is actually a volcanic eruption.
Her guilty feelings and control started 2 years before the marriage

Okay, I got that .

Even at that most Nigerian men are not patient when it comes to sex .

I don't think I can enjoy sex with someone that's so huge , sex is meant to be enjoyed and not endured .

Guys with huge dick , should go for pussy that can accommodate their dicks .

isabi2lof:


Okay, I got that .

Even at that most Nigerian men are not patient when it comes to sex .

I don't think I can enjoy sex with someone that's so huge , sex is meant to be enjoyed and not endured .

Guys with huge dick , should go for pussy that can accommodate their dicks .

The truth is guys with huge dicks will hardly ever go for big pussies.it is a turn off for them.
The only time the are cautious is when they see virgins.they run from them like crazy.
That people say that sex should be enjoy(is the cheapest comment about it).the process of achieving that enjoyment different from group to group.
Some what to be loved
Some want to dump
Some what to torture
Some what to sleep
Some just want to get high
Some want nothing
So confusing confusion

baralatie:

The truth is guys with huge dicks will hardly ever go for big pussies.it is a turn off for them.
The only time the are cautious is when they see virgins.they run from them like crazy.
That people say that sex should be enjoy(is the cheapest comment about it).the process of achieving that enjoyment different from group to group.
Some what to be loved
Some want to dump
Some what to torture
Some what to sleep
Some just want to get high
Some want nothing
So confusing confusion

They don't want to go for wide pussy , so who should suffer it ?

Is better they go for their type.

isabi2lof:


They don't want to go for wide pussy , so who should suffer it ?

Is better they go for their type.

I don't know about who would suffer it but some of those big pus are not keen on having relationship with big dicks after a while they double down to medium with experience.some do wantto continue with their big size but with conditions.
So it is a hustle out there.
Everyone is trying his/her best to get the most out of the situation they find themselves

Chai..,wife wey I marry , keep for house, somebody im taking care of..

God forbid ..
My mama didn't raise no Fool..

baralatie:

I don't know about who would suffer it but some of those big pus are not keen on having relationship with big dicks after a while they double down to medium with experience.some do wantto continue with their big size but with conditions.
So it is a hustle out there.
Everyone is trying his/her best to get the most out of the situation they find themselves

Abi o

Las las everybody go dey alright.

On a norms , sex is not easy , the pounding , the thrusting and the likes .

If a lady isn't wet enough, she will suffer pains after having sex .

Forget about what the porn industry, too many fakes and editing videos. Drugs is their daily food.

isabi2lof:


Abi o

Las las everybody go dey alright.

On a norms , sex is not easy , the pounding , the thrusting and the likes .

If a lady isn't wet enough, she will suffer pains after having sex .

Forget about what the porn industry, too many fakes and editing videos. Drugs is their daily food.

Water dries up when set to boiling point

baralatie:

Water dries up when set to boiling point

Yeah

Eya, am so speechless, don't even know what to say, I feel so sorry for all you are going through

MrPOTUS:



These dumb men keep giving women a sense of power because of sex.

Sex is overrated, period!

What does a man gain from it aside fatigue and tiredness and brain draining.

Practice semen retention and see what you're missing.

oga you and those who liked your post should go and sit down....

I bet you're not married

Starz825:


oga you and those who liked your post should go and sit down....

I bet you're not married

So all married men should simp and beg their wives for sex??

tonye33:
Hi Dickson,
I have seen your messages about wife denying husband sex and I must confess that mine is epic. I dated my wife for 4 years before marriage. After the first 2yrs of dating, she put a stop to our sex and said she felt guilt and all, I accepted because I have dated 2 girls previously with sex, so it wasn't a new deal.

She is 2yrs older than me, I was younger and naïve, cos knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have done a lot of things.

After marriage, she opened up to me that she has never enjoyed me cos I was huge, last more than 30mins and thrusts faster. I felt bad, started developing anxiety towards sex cos I was always thinking whether I was injuring her, she was enjoying it, or I will finish fast so she doesn't get angry cos she s hot tempered, can even get very very angry even during sex.

Additionally, she cancelled all sex position because she said they were painful, only one position and its with her lying straight on her belly, or at most by her side. Anything that will make her raise any part of her body was painful, doggy was totally out of the way, and all these were never raised during our dating period.

Any other position you attempt will make that night miserable because she will just be angry and asking every 5secs if you are not cumming.
Something that was supposed to be fun ends up being a task. I wanted to meet her halfway and that was my huge mistake. I changed all my strategy and then I started losing my erections and most times I won't even be able to get one, and then her complaint changed that I was falling even in the act and that she was not enjoying me again cos i no longer thrust fast.

Infact eeh........... I knew what the problem was, topped my game and we went back to square 1. The monthly count was like 7 or 8 times then as newly married couple while targeting conception. The moment she conception. The moment she took in, she locked up till the baby was in the 5th month. Infact the 9 months preg period was like 6 times only with curses, different conditions and rules before she will agree. I just managed the little wey i see. Mind you, we live peacefully, communicate almost every time, greet with kisses, pet names, dine and even play games but no sex.

She is a full housewife and I earn 7 figures monthly. After our first baby, I begged for sex for 7 months and anytime I bring up the sex, it was followed with blackmail, anger, back talks and even silence. On the 8th month, the rule was "it must be with protection", I obliged. By the 9th
month, which was the 5th time, she took in again. Almost same thing like the first preg period.

After second delivery, I decided not to demand and just observe her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I used mixing because they prepare everything needed to make food. I do the monthly shopping and even take care of the baby at night after working several hours during the day ooo, I support her to the best of my knowledge and still don't know why.......I just feel shedoesnt love me and not attractedto me, probably i was just the available status changer, because how can a woman stay in the same house with someone she loves and never feel the need to go intimate?

I bumped into an ex and she suggested that I act like I was seeing someone, I then started living the house every evening and most times will drive to a car wash and stay for like 3 hours before coming home, and it didn't change anything, instead she became irate.

This year, I have not even had it up to 10times with her for a marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy.

I hope you know you are too soft. You are deprivation yourself. Marry another woman, do like people of God in the Bible.

She's married to a spiritual husband...ur life sef is at stake..get a deliverance done to her asap... she's not in her clear eye...she sees beyond more that u can see..

Persephone1:
Dangers of having a pestle in your pants. My advice seek out the help of a sex therapist. It's the best way to save your marriage.

As for the comment above, please ignore. Nigerian men only have a single solution to all marital problems which is get a "new woman " sadly this doesn't solve their problems but compound them.

...
If it was the other way, the woman will have filed for divorce right? They both need a therapist. If he goes to see the therapist alone, I dont think it'll help that much

akwesenana:
Do you want to have sex?

Or, you want to have sex with your wife?

OP if you can answer this question, then you can trace a step to solving your problem.

Marry second wife

Married women that hoard kpekus who are you hoarding it for? Na the best way to get whatever you want once you do other expected things in da house ,

My dear, women hide many things during courtship..... That's women for you.


Anyways, the choice still lies on u. Of u don't like it go to court, get a divorce or marry another person...

He should be patient with her.

You have been having sex even before your marriage. From all you have said, the only problem I see in your marriage is the deprivation of sex. With all your years of having sex, sex should be nothing to you at this age. Don't go sleeping around with girls or feeling your wife doesn't love you. You know fully well that she loves you. If she doesn't allow you have sex, then let her be. Whenever she is in the mood, you both can enjoy sex. Sex should mean absolutely nothing to you at this point.

You have a good home. Try to keep it and keep building it.

Also, you can try to speak with your wife to let her know how you feel. If she doesn't listen, speak to her parents or some other persons she respect. The issue you are having is a minor marital issue.

Persephone1:
Provide a better solution without feeling entitled to mine Mr Nunudim

Hhhh nunudim...... You have eyes, you can see but you cant just copy the least right thing in the name of play/pain

Toks2008:
Only a weak guy will lament over this.

Legends will understand.

Boss, abeg wetin be your own solution to this problem now...

tonye33:
Hi Dickson,
I have seen your messages about wife denying husband sex and I must confess that mine is epic. I dated my wife for 4 years before marriage. After the first 2yrs of dating, she put a stop to our sex and said she felt guilt and all, I accepted because I have dated 2 girls previously with sex, so it wasn't a new deal.

She is 2yrs older than me, I was younger and naïve, cos knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have done a lot of things.

After marriage, she opened up to me that she has never enjoyed me cos I was huge, last more than 30mins and thrusts faster. I felt bad, started developing anxiety towards sex cos I was always thinking whether I was injuring her, she was enjoying it, or I will finish fast so she doesn't get angry cos she s hot tempered, can even get very very angry even during sex.

Additionally, she cancelled all sex position because she said they were painful, only one position and its with her lying straight on her belly, or at most by her side. Anything that will make her raise any part of her body was painful, doggy was totally out of the way, and all these were never raised during our dating period.

Any other position you attempt will make that night miserable because she will just be angry and asking every 5secs if you are not cumming.
Something that was supposed to be fun ends up being a task. I wanted to meet her halfway and that was my huge mistake. I changed all my strategy and then I started losing my erections and most times I won't even be able to get one, and then her complaint changed that I was falling even in the act and that she was not enjoying me again cos i no longer thrust fast.

Infact eeh........... I knew what the problem was, topped my game and we went back to square 1. The monthly count was like 7 or 8 times then as newly married couple while targeting conception. The moment she conception. The moment she took in, she locked up till the baby was in the 5th month. Infact the 9 months preg period was like 6 times only with curses, different conditions and rules before she will agree. I just managed the little wey i see. Mind you, we live peacefully, communicate almost every time, greet with kisses, pet names, dine and even play games but no sex.

She is a full housewife and I earn 7 figures monthly. After our first baby, I begged for sex for 7 months and anytime I bring up the sex, it was followed with blackmail, anger, back talks and even silence. On the 8th month, the rule was "it must be with protection", I obliged. By the 9th
month, which was the 5th time, she took in again. Almost same thing like the first preg period.

After second delivery, I decided not to demand and just observe her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I used mixing because they prepare everything needed to make food. I do the monthly shopping and even take care of the baby at night after working several hours during the day ooo, I support her to the best of my knowledge and still don't know why.......I just feel shedoesnt love me and not attractedto me, probably i was just the available status changer, because how can a woman stay in the same house with someone she loves and never feel the need to go intimate?

I bumped into an ex and she suggested that I act like I was seeing someone, I then started living the house every evening and most times will drive to a car wash and stay for like 3 hours before coming home, and it didn't change anything, instead she became irate.

This year, I have not even had it up to 10times with her for a marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy.

You mean all this Kira kita for the dollar, for the dinheiro all to end up with woman that will not provide bare minimum which is intimacy? Shey person no go just dey enjoy single life dey go?

All the emotional maintenance and attention the average woman demands, intimacy IMO is the barest minimum that she can use to show appreciation and reciprocation. I don't even know how guys do it because every babe I don ever dey with knows once you withhold body. O ti lo. I view it as sign you're not interested and I bounce.

So I can't last even 3 months in a marriage with a woman deliberately hoarding intimacy from me. Barring a health emergency. What are you doing with a woman who's not actively seeking ways to please you? Not even you demanding, she actively seeking ways to impress you. No be women I dey see online dey take knobjockey classes?

The things the average woman requires of you as a Man honestly you should have zero tolerance for her not giving you intimacy and I mean zero

123yes:
Mine was 7 years now. I have not had sex with my wife and we are living in the same house

You are not couples. Just room mate.

123yes:
Mine was 7 years now. I have not had sex with my wife and we are living in the same house

Hehehe you can't be serious. What type of eunuch arrangement is that?

BRIMBRAM:
Marry a second wife.

From frying pan to fire

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Na PESIN way drink ENERGY DRINK fit read everything way u post...



Waiting I go advise u be say...


Make u fine 1 better ASHAWOO house way u go de JAZZ in anytime way ur GBOLA don de on high-tension..


ASHAWOO don cheap now...


u no say country don hard small now so ASHAWOO de find MONEY and CUSTOMERS..


Na 500h I use NACK ASHAWOO yesterday..


I even 4get my boxers for the ASHAWOO house but dis night I go JAZZ in der to collect my boxers..


mind u. rain don start de fall ooo..



LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

What kind of life is that

MrPOTUS:



These dumb men keep giving women a sense of power because of sex.

Sex is overrated, period!

What does a man gain from it aside fatigue and tiredness and brain draining.

Practice semen retention and see what you're missing.

semen retention? You are a mad man!

Bro, is sex your problem? Look for a student in school and be banging,

Baba u get money, so what are u doing not picking girls outside? We wey no dey make reach 7 figures sef no fit siddan like u. My wife is not as terrible as yours, but she sef sabi give excuses when it comes to sex. Na by force I dey take get action 1nce every 10 days, so I decided I must look for a way to cut shows outside just for my own sanity. No sex without protection for me ooo cos I no like anything wey be disease. Bros, get protection and help yourself outside. She's not gonna change even if u make 10 million a week.

tonye33:
Hi Dickson,
I have seen your messages about wife denying husband sex and I must confess that mine is epic. I dated my wife for 4 years before marriage. After the first 2yrs of dating, she put a stop to our sex and said she felt guilt and all, I accepted because I have dated 2 girls previously with sex, so it wasn't a new deal.

She is 2yrs older than me, I was younger and naïve, cos knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have done a lot of things.

After marriage, she opened up to me that she has never enjoyed me cos I was huge, last more than 30mins and thrusts faster. I felt bad, started developing anxiety towards sex cos I was always thinking whether I was injuring her, she was enjoying it, or I will finish fast so she doesn't get angry cos she s hot tempered, can even get very very angry even during sex.

Additionally, she cancelled all sex position because she said they were painful, only one position and its with her lying straight on her belly, or at most by her side. Anything that will make her raise any part of her body was painful, doggy was totally out of the way, and all these were never raised during our dating period.

Any other position you attempt will make that night miserable because she will just be angry and asking every 5secs if you are not cumming.
Something that was supposed to be fun ends up being a task. I wanted to meet her halfway and that was my huge mistake. I changed all my strategy and then I started losing my erections and most times I won't even be able to get one, and then her complaint changed that I was falling even in the act and that she was not enjoying me again cos i no longer thrust fast.

Infact eeh........... I knew what the problem was, topped my game and we went back to square 1. The monthly count was like 7 or 8 times then as newly married couple while targeting conception. The moment she conception. The moment she took in, she locked up till the baby was in the 5th month. Infact the 9 months preg period was like 6 times only with curses, different conditions and rules before she will agree. I just managed the little wey i see. Mind you, we live peacefully, communicate almost every time, greet with kisses, pet names, dine and even play games but no sex.

She is a full housewife and I earn 7 figures monthly. After our first baby, I begged for sex for 7 months and anytime I bring up the sex, it was followed with blackmail, anger, back talks and even silence. On the 8th month, the rule was "it must be with protection", I obliged. By the 9th
month, which was the 5th time, she took in again. Almost same thing like the first preg period.

After second delivery, I decided not to demand and just observe her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I used mixing because they prepare everything needed to make food. I do the monthly shopping and even take care of the baby at night after working several hours during the day ooo, I support her to the best of my knowledge and still don't know why.......I just feel shedoesnt love me and not attractedto me, probably i was just the available status changer, because how can a woman stay in the same house with someone she loves and never feel the need to go intimate?

I bumped into an ex and she suggested that I act like I was seeing someone, I then started living the house every evening and most times will drive to a car wash and stay for like 3 hours before coming home, and it didn't change anything, instead she became irate.

This year, I have not even had it up to 10times with her for a marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy.