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She had been seeing someone all along
The new guy has to be very kiaful

Most of this Fu<k boys are swindlers and top players.

Outstandingmam:
Mr, I'm not a naive Nigerian. I know what obtains. I've been traveling outside Nigeria for vacations as a secondary school student before I thought of going for higher studies so spare me that patronizing tone.

My issue with you and your likes is your huge empathy deficit. I always wished to join my voice to the threads that are opened to warn about unbridled desire to just leave Nigeria but the penchant to tag us as haters prevented me. Imagine how you came swinging into my comment? I don't like Internet arguments and I deliberately avoid them

Nigerians believe they can do anything and it's just not true. This OP and others like him made errors which they shouldn't make. The urge to game the system is in most Nigerians because we hardly follow the rules. I'm a stickler for rules but will I throw my child away because he broke the rules?

He has made his mistakes, he is stewing in it now, why do you think you need to turn the knife? What benefit is it to you? Or to him? Depression is real. I'm only being my brother's keeper pls.

UK as a japa route don cast. That's the basic truth. If you don't have the funds, forget about it. Yesterday I learned that a guy staying in an estate close to ours sold his 3 bedroom fine house for 40m (ordinarily, 60m is too cheap for such) to go to the UK because his wife got care job. They're back to Lagos now hiding from everybody. I can't imagine being in the same shoes with that family but I'm sure they were warned but refused to hear.

Sad one. One will hate himself for selling his property for a cheap price

This is pure trouble

SYSTEM222:
I will make the story brief.

I met my girlfriend, now ex, 4yrs ago. We were good friends for 1yr and then started dating. I really liked everything about her and she gave me the peace I needed in a woman.
She is a good Christian and Goes to church regularly.

I looked forward to engaging her this year.

One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me.

In our 3yrs relationship we never got intimate. She's a Virgin. She told me she doesn't want to open that side of her and wants to wait till marriage. She gave me the kind of peace a good wife gives a Husband.
However, I introduced her to deep romance without sex (Including BJ). She regularly satisfy me in that regard.


Fast forward to last year June. She moved to a new town because of NYSC.
She rented a new place this January and That was where she met this new guy in her compound.
She became really close to the guy. The guy told her he likes her. She told the guy she has a boyfriend. But then the guy wanted to still be close with her.
When we talk in the evening 60% of her day was interwoven with this guy. They go out together, take evening strolls etc.
I told her I wasn't comfortable with her new found friend. She assured me nothing will ever happen. She doesn't like the guy. She told me the guy was just a nice guy and a good friend.

Fast forward February.
She told me she had slept in the guys room few times and they cuddled. I kicked against it and was really furious.
She begged me and told me it will never happen again.
But she did it again after few weeks in late February. I told her she likes the guy and he will soon have his way If she doesn't stay off.
Few days later she then confessed to me that she has had romance with the guy 4 different times. She even gave the guy BJ 2 times but no sex. She cried and said she didn't know how it happened.

But then, she and the guy are still cool. They still hangout in the evening. What the Bleep!

I told her to give me Lonng space. I find it very difficult to even accept her as far friend not to talk of a girlfriend. My orientation about her has totally changed.
She has since told her closest friends and even her brother to call and beg me...
She has been crying and begging me.

It still bothers me how she can do this with a guy she doesn't like and wouldn't want to be with.

Something I warned her about eventually happened and you're begging me?.

This said guy is really below me in terms of everything.
I am financially stable, I have a good car and decent apartment.
I Sub you, Paid your rent, give you enough money for upkeep.
And you do this with a guy without even a bed frame? Or even Fan or Ac?


Omo
Na wa for girls. Very funny people.
It's disgusting to even see talk to her...

You refused dominating her when you had the opportunity. You simped sha

toujurs:
why does it become wide then?

Have you seen a 35 year old coochie. The libia minora and majora. Looking scary Including the length. Until you see some guys dick, you will pity women.

And some of these guys don't take it easy, especially these yahoo boys. That is why these girls are always bitter and traumatized when dumped. Some guys knack with anger.

Those are pussy bandits, toto don suffer

EreluRoz:
How this Burnaboy still maintain decency and discipline with women despite his rough lifestyle still amaze me while some of his fellow artists are busy spreading their seeds recklessly everywhere.

Igbo and shayo

Power must change hands

Levels1:
Do you do it yourself?

Do you have access to your portal?

If yes, no issue you can send a webform as a reminder request.

but if not, I will advise you reach out to your agent for further information.



Often times, agent get response and keep away from client.

You know the matterzzzz

lexyclasy:
Shut up. Ifot ata idem.

Tinubu will have to start shopping for a southern replacement before the northerners will put their own senate president

Money laundering, stolen funds

Contract kickbacks, wetin do cash transfer. When there are thousands of POS operators to dispense that cash.

Baba is looking for Governor

Mr Governor , lucky go pepper Dem

Rugged man that his wife ran for her life _{e b things}

Madam Betty was heading the cabal, but everything collapsed like a pack of cards with the death of Gov Akeredolu

Akpabio is next

Meanwhile, that free cash will be used to buy dollars thereby causing inflation

Judolisco:
So u guys go budget tax payers money to go for one yeye workshop that can be done virtually on zoom, during covid19, did anybody attend any workshop physically? .... Financial managers indeed

Tinubu go soon sack her, her mind go dey. Stubborn woman

Curious345:
Murtala Mohammed was a useless psychopathic !diot . Infact he was the first terrorist Nigeria army ever produced before the likes of colonel sheik Gumi followed suite

Gumi was Major, who dash am Colonel

Thou hath the mighty fallen

Jagaban, man with the balls of steel

Vanity upon Vanity

Come and beat me, I dey junction dey wait for you

Nin

Mu-Mu ticket

J Town has been balkanized
Sadly due to religious intolerance

Jagaban Sapa no be play

Morgue shitt

Another ancestral cadaver

Readymove:
Can i use downloaded Bank statement for visa application?

Nope. Get from the bank and scan or use my bank statement(with password oOoOO)

uzomakanaki:
Good day Nairalanders.

What could make a lady date her fiancee's colleague? I'm done with ladies for now. This a bad experience.

I got a job for my now ex fiancee in the organisation where I work. We dated for 2 years. She was posted to a different branch office not far from mine.

A year on the job I began hearing rumours that she's going out with a senior colleague of mine in the same office with me. Those that I heard it from didn't know we were dating.

I confronted her and she denied it. I was not comfortable with her response, and one day she came to spend the weekend with me, I decided to go through her chat, I could not believe what I saw in her chat with this guy in question.

They've gone far to the extent of having sex with themselves which was said in the chat.

The next morning I confronted her with evidences of what I saw in her chat with my colleague, she became furious that I had no right to check her chat, with no sign of remorse. I was broken and at that point ended the relationship.

I've requested for a transfer out of that branch, cos I want to deal with this guy. Cos he's fully aware we were dating and have met us on different occasion outside.

Since the break up with my ex, he has been avoiding me in the office.

I never saw a dirty attitude in her at the early stage of our relationship, I never knew I was ready to marry a full blown LovePeddler who's looking for a platform to sell herself.

But for the guy I'll deal with him.

Thank God for dodging a bullet. She gave him a free cochie , you've got no business with him.
Definitely she's still banging a random dick else where. Don't break the bro code

Invest4growth:
Always tell your children how lucky they are for your being alive to take care of them. They must continually thank God for life, wellness and pray for provision . Many couples are epitome of wickedness. All that matters to them are their children. Any other person child must be maltreated

Your mind dey there

sukkot:
Maybe the maid is fasting. It is Ramadan 👀

U sef, no head tie and doesn't even look like one fasting.

fyzaila:
Says the person that was born of a woman and probably has sisters 🙄. And has been copulating with a woman and will go offline and marry a woman.

We will marry women, no doubt. Generation must continue, But the wickedness of majority of women must be acknowledged. You ladies are "sweet evil"