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ispeaklight:
On the second day of my graduation from unilag (were i studied mass communiction) i travelled back home from lagos to portharcourt were my parents reside. Here my story line begin, please read below so as to give me perfect counsel thanks.

It was on the 22 of november 2011 when i visited my friend's house, so why going back home we must have to cross one of the busiest road over here, but something happened i and my friend were carelessly discussing and were'nt watching and focusing why crossing the road, unfortunately a car almost hit me down why my friend had already crossed, at that time i was lucky because the guy driving the car was careful enough to stop the car from hitting me. And seriously i was scared i jumped out of the road look at the guy with a very bad eye and motive, he glanced at me, then moved the car from the road and then spend time looking at me before i could know he began to shed tears, my friend touched me and said is okay lets go, i listen to her and leave immediately but before i could even step 3 times he blocked me and was really pleading and begging me to forgive his carelessness, that it was all his fault.

He asked me if i was injured that he could take me to the nearest hospital or chemist, but i said no he should'nt bother because at this time i was ashamed as people were really staring at us. I walked out of him immediately but he blocked me again and pleaded for my forgiveness as if he had known me somewere, i had no other obtion than to tell him he did'nt hit me, at the end we left each others to our different ways.

But as fate may have it, he met me again in 2012 on a dirty road, why i was looking for were to put my legs, he asked me to enter his car but i asked him not to bother that i can manage, but he pleaded so i agreed, why in the car he gave me paper and pen to write my phone number and i did, after i have got home he called me in some hours and asked me to be his friend but i said not too fast, he pleaded and sounded as if he was crying to end the whole matter i agreed immediatly, he also asked for my facebook address i also gave him too, we began our chat on facebook and in few months i got to know him more better as he also knew me in and out too, as of then i do teach in a school very far from my home, but he always volunteer to come and pick me every day, he never missed out even one day.

One night he called me to come out side that he is waiting for me, i asked him outside were he said my house, seriously i was perplex because i never showed him my house niether did i give him my address in anyway, why i came out i met him and we began to discuss all of a sudden he proposed to be my boyfriend, but i said no, that i like it as we are just friends, he knelt down and sounded as if he was crying (i can't really tell if tears dropped out his eyes because it was late) to prevent any further drama i agreed immediately, i have always know him as a guy that allow feelings and emotion to control him.

At this time, we became more intimate as never before, he began to call me "sweetheart", but i call him by his name though, he has always been so good to me, he give me lot of money and bought fruits for me even when i dont ask for them, when my grandmother died and my parents did'nt have much to contribute, i told him and he gave me N300,000 for the burial and i was shocked.

Few months after the burial he sent me a message on facebook, pleading with me to accept the gift he had prepared for me, i asked him what gift but he said dont bother, all i need from you is to behave matured and dont seem to be too suprise because you might faint, i thought as much as i could to guess what kind of gift but to no avail, the day he planned came and he took me out to a very busy area here in portharcourt and showed me a very big supermarket with 6 staff in uniform and said this is your supermarket, i looked at him and look at the supermarket, i became dumbed for about 5minutes and screemed (just joking though, but i can remember that i was scared,suprise and happy at same time) after all i accepted the key to the supermarket and the one to my office, we both went to my parents and explained the whole issue and they were very happy because they had already known him to be my fiancee for a long period anyway.

But something suprised me most, he asked me not to pay the staff working at the supermarket, that he is incharge of their payment, few months after he bought me a nice highlander car. But something is suprising me most we have been in relationship for 2years and some moths now and he had never mentioned marriage, he is a very handsome guy of 30years old why am 23.

I had to pass a night one of the days in his house after i have finish cooking for him and washing most of his cloths, to be suprise he gave me the key to his bathroom and asked me to lock it and he slept in the parlour, the next morning i asked him the reasons for his decision last night and he replied "i dont want to sin that is why i slept off the bathroom".

Less i forget, he owns 3 big poultries in portharcourt and a pure water and bottle water industries too, he also works in shell.

The reason for this long story is because i need your advice,

1. Do you think this guy want to buy my love with money? (although i love him very much anyway).

2. What are his reason for not talking about marriage yet because i dont want him to leave me and marry another girl.

3. My senior sister asked me not to marry him because he had never seen him smiling ever.

4. Do you think this is true love?

5. He is too good at begging and crying when i dont agree most times to him, do you think if we get married he will still be as gentle as he is now?

I need your advice please, thanks.

Regards: Ozichi jonathan

HFOG:
Thanks for understanding

Specialist900:
I wan also come.

Hfog :LordReed church on Sunday make sense o, them even call me to come midweek service o

HFOG:
It gotta be sir. Who am I? Pls o na God all of us dey find so abeg. Sorry seems I sounded judgemental.

Specialist900:
Tor, na we know o.

Them no dey accept first timers for your church?

HFOG:
Talk to Him.

HFOG:
Wasn't my intention. Forgive me pls.

Specialist900:
them dey eye you? Abeg you fit tell some of them to follow eye me

HFOG:
Coordinators? Specialist where art thou? Doesn't that ring a bell? I think it's better to be late than not to go at all. You'll make it if you really want to. I believe you're doing all things as to the Lord so once He understands you're fine. Eat your food hurriedly, log off NL and go keep your appointment with the Lord pls

HFOG:
Oh I see. Pls you're free to hurry along. Say a word of prayer for our nation. See you.

HFOG:
Okay sir. Tks for your patience. Seems you're outside at the moment, right?

HFOG:
Okay sir. I think I'm getting you. So who produces these stuff you're advertising here. Again bear with my many questions. I'm just being curious

HFOG:
I'm really trying to understand your response. Really. You called it your brand yet you say you haven't started producing. Me is confused right now.

HFOG:
That's so cool. So you make those stuffs yourself? Is it a registered company? Do you have employees? Have long have you had this brand now? Forgive my inquisitiveness pls. My lord and Debbie are blessed. He's gone for a meeting. Debbie's on the bed with me trying so hard to collect my phone and get my attention

HFOG:
Feel free sir. You just dey appear and disappear abi? How's your day? Is Glammy your brand or are you a distributor?

elantraceey:
which christmas gift

Godmother:
These shoes are so beautiful but....5k :O for ballet shoes.
Don't mean to spoil business for you but that price is quite on the high side.

luxanne:
Sure, day is going alright yours?

Godmother:
These shoes are so beautiful but....5k :O for ballet shoes.
Don't mean to spoil business for you but that price is quite on the high side.