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mmb:
The politics is getting interesting.

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mcstan01:
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Nice

Odunharry:
LOL. Easy on her baba.

How's work na

Parley sup na longtime

You guys abandoned our online home ni

PHILipu1:
Under construction and APC was given permission in the first place?

You are out of point.

Young man, enter bus to Ebonyi and take a walk to the stadium.

stop living all your life online

maasoap:
After him for what? May be EFCC shouldn't be after him, every society deserves the kind of leaders it has. Pity!

You should also pity yourself because as soon as he joins and pump in money he becomes a saint.

What difference does it make...

Firefire:
Bread & butter politics without any ideology.

He can't win, it is all for federal appointment same as sowore and Dure

Blakjewelry:
why did government object in the first place, I don't support that kinda politics

It is still under construction.

APC is just looking for a way to blackmail him

budusky05:
APC wan sign one attacking midfielder,

Akpabio is a bull dozer

Jethrolite:
This is really sad, Akpabio should be a man and launch his own smear campaign against PDP.

It is just the nature of Nigerian politics you can't blame him. But I know the outcome.

He will pump in money and sponsor APc

APC may allow him control the structures in the state. His presence may force his foes to decamp to PDP and work for the current Governor.

PDP can still win Akwa Ibom even with his decamping.

Then he decamps back to PDP


Look deeper it is a game.

wwe11:
selfish politicians every where, so with all the comfort he has enjoyed over the years he cant make sacrifice for the common and stand for the truth........God pls send us a true leader in this present time.

This is Nigerian politics.

It is a game, he will defect back to PDP if everything dies down.

They are using EFCC to get Orji Kali to deliver south east too

madridguy:
I smell fat lies

it is the truth

eFCc is after him

Jethrolite:
No politician in Nigeria is patriotic. Akpabio wants to be senate President or what?

RevenGeMission:
APC is aiding and abetting prostitution ?

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ApostleT:


Jittery ko jalingo ni

Akpabio just increased his transfer fee. This political agents get negotiation skills sha

APC is using EFCC to lure him.

Shit party.

Join APC and become a saint, decamp later joor

kirkwood:
He wants to destroy his political career be that. This man has always fought for the PDP, only to give up at the last minute. APC has no popularity in the South-South, and he should understand this.

pocohantas:
Don't be stupid, or rather, don't show that you are stupid.
Looking for husband indeed

Lolzzz

One thing I like about myself is I help people live their true lives.

No fake person can pretend around me for long.

Your response just showed that you are pretending, God help you in your husband hunting, amen

Pavore9:
Who raised these "average Nigerian ladies"?

Sugar Daddy's spoilt our ladies

Vince77:
Average Nigerian Parent obviously

pocohantas:
LOL, he made some points though.

I like this- "The average Nigerian woman sees spending her money on dates as a Taboo, but is quick to talk trash about having "vex money", lol nobody cares about your vex money, come with actual spending money�".

Chai! We are in pains.

You have really changed oo abi you are pretending because you are looking for bf or husband, the former you would have fired back, lolzzz - ex. men are scum gang leader

Okay

If you are non Nigerian or mixed blood, you can pm me.

Yea, mean it

lonjo9:
1. Udom Emmanuel believes in continuity. He completed roads initiated by his predecessors, Ikot Ekara-Ikot Ebritam Road inclusive.
2. At the last count, he has constructed over 160km of roads, 12 bridges in the state.
3. He is a governor with human face. It is on record that he compensated home owners whether they had certificates of ownership or not.
4. He has attracted over 50 foreign investors to Akwa Ibom State
5. He is championing industrial revolution in the state for example, Electric Meter manufacturing Plant and Clay Processing Plant in Onna.
6.   He paid 10 years arrears pensions and gratuities to primary school teachers and local government employees
7. Doesn’t joke with payment of subventions for running of primary and secondary schools in the state
8.  Embarked on emergency intervention on gully erosion at Enen Atai along Calabar – Itu Highway, Independence Hall, Abak, School of Nursing among others
9. Special interest in women & child health care as witnessed through intervention at St. Luke’s Hospital, Anua, Uyo; construction of Dr. Ann Ward Gynaecology Block; and  rehabilitation of Children and Male Wards
10. Establishment of Sports Academies in the 10 Federal Constituencies in the state
11. Provision of 15 hectres of land along Eastern Obolo - Mkpat Enin axis for coconut plantation and refinery
12. Mapping out of   85 hectares of land in Eket for refining 100,000 barrels of petroleum per day.
13. Working towards establishment of an automobile assembly plant in Itu
14. Rehabilitation of Peacock Paints in Etinan
15. Reconstruction and conversion of 10th Anniversary Hotel complex for use as government offices.

Yeye post.

NgeneUkwenu:
That will be good, Buhari will simply continue unopposed till 2030...

You be real mumu.

Bolustical:
Whether Saraki decamps or not, things are not looking too good for him

If he had stayed in the APC, the probability that he will get the presidential ticket is ZERO-0

Now that he is heading to the PDP, he has the likes of Atiku, Kwankwaso, Shekarau, Makarfi and Tambuwal to wrestle with

BTW, how the PDP's leadership will manage the ambitions of Saraki alongside the interests of those who fought tooth and nail to wrestle the party's soul is what matters here.

you are too myopic for thinking what the defection is about presidential ticket.

saraki had all the chance to impeach Buhari when he was sick and many other blunders that buhari has committed but he protected him


APC is shit

EFCC and police will not help you win elections.

After begging him to stay

My favourite housemate

She was real, unfortunately Big brother is for pornn actors

amaniro:
you'd like to check yourself. Smh. hater!!

illiterate


You raised an irrelevant comparison.

Would you also be kind enough to compare their revenue and allocation?

amaniro:
But can you compare it to.... ortom, ikpeazu, Borno gov?

What is the title of this thread?

amaniro:
Blasphemy. Fact is udom is even going for 5th term.
I wonder why y'all keep shading him. Smh

His performance is poor, don't defend politicians blindly

The voice of the people

zicoraads:
Why do guys think it normal to 'reward' ladies who dated them when they were not rich? I don't get it, was she doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you?

It has become commonplace to read about rewards, car gifts especially, purchased by guys as rewards for ladies who they were in a relationship with when they were poor. I think in constantly doing that, guys are making it look abnormal, the idea, that a lady is supposed to stick with her man, come rain or shine.

She wasn't doing you a favour by being in a relationship with you. No one is doing you a favour by being in one with you now. Whether it ended or not, you owe her nothing for that period the both of you were dating.

Guys should stop making it seem like dating a particular lady is a privilege they don't deserve.

We have heard you.

Early this year, one company I consult for almost folded up because their clients owed lots of money on projects they had completed

The MD sent me a letter that he can't pay me any longer and terminated the contract I had with them.
I replied the letter, that I understood the challenges that they are facing.

However, I will not stop consulting for them whether am paid or not.

I continued for 4 months no pay.
Early this week, he sent me a message, that he wants to reward me for loyalty and renew my contract.

The reward alone is more than the 4months no pay.

Yes, the lady is expected to stick in good and bad times. But when things gets better, appreciate her for her loyalty. It speaks more of the kind of person you are.

People can promise you that they will stay but when things gets tough they leave.

Reward the ones that kept the code. It is also a lesson to others

emelda86:
Mumu complain ooo...

Kontinu, you think life is all about make up, partying and living a fake life.

Princedapace:
This is the only reasonable comment here so far. I was ashamed of the first comment. This society is finished. People really think money is everything a person need in life.

The first comment was a shame to humanity. Poverty has really made life stupid for many people in Nigeria.

Like I always tell people, it is 5 years after wedding your eyes go clear. Then, u will understand that if u married because of money, by the time u must have gotten plenty of those things u lacked, u may begin to have a decline in interests for your partner.

And for those who think simple lifestyle is meant for the poor, sorry, there are many wealthy people who don't like fancy and show off lifestyle.


Many people are like that. I perfectly understand the lady..and I'm scared, that marriage if it takes place, may become a serious warfare later on.

I am quite young but I have marriages crashed because of issues like this.

The people who are insulting her are either poor or blinded by the love for money in this society.

It is sad we have decline to this state in Nigeria.. Hope those insulting her can see many marriages that crashed even though money full ground..

Marriage is not all about money, money is important to compliment it but not the major issue.

Dear OP, if u aren't comfortable with his lifestyle, talk to him about ur type of life. If u two can't reach a compromise, please break up with him.


That u break up with him doesn't mean u are stupid, be wise, your happiness matters a lot in marriage.

Also, be mindful of he pretends to change. Because he may still return to his usual self after wedding.

Don't allow friends who think money is everything in life to deceive u.


Marriage can only work when the two involved fit along. Else u will get tired of him easily and may fancy another guy sooner while in the marriage. I know what I'm saying o.

The first comment reveals a lot about relationships and y it fails.


Am amaze to read, these comments from young people, who should be smarter and wiser.

May God help us

Monday200:
Hello Nairalanders. Plz pardon my errors. Moderators please help with advice from pple

I'm a 27 while my boyfriend is 34,we've only dated for 7 months and he proposed to me last week. But the problem is that we are 2 different people,what he want is different from what I want.

He is from a rich family that likes flashing things, he always tell me to use make up when I say make up it not just foundation and lipstick every time am going out which I don't like at all I prefer using powder and lipstick and I use to tell him that I don't know how to do make ups yet he said he will get me a make ups artist. I don't know how am going to cope with that. Anytime we are going to see his family member or friends, he will always want me to over dress like it's a wedding day.

He likes going party a lot and anytime he ask me I will make up some excuse not to go and I don't know how long I will continue giving him excuse cos am an indoor person i don't like going out at all I only go out whenever am an having important things, there was a time he discovered and accused me of been ashamed of him that why I hate going out with him and its not like that.
He likes people prying into our privacy anytime we had a misunderstanding he will ask one of his friends to beg me on his behalf and I hate this.

He always want me to wear clothes that fit his standard like wearing heavy jewelries expensive one ,high heels,(he use to buy them for me cos his a rich dude ) he want a luxurious life while I only want a simple life. He can do anything to mk me look good and classy, he is always ready to spend for that.


My problem is do you think I can adapt to his lifestyle when we get married as I like being simple. Am scared.

Now I see why marriages don't last.

Most of the comments here are encouraging you to adapt, some even use the phrase a little compromise" "adapt and enjoy while it last"

Riches is not everything, your happiness is key in life.

If a man loves and respect you, he will never try to change you instead he will study and adjust his ways to suit you.

People like your guy see you as a toy or tool. What you are facing now is little compared to what is ahead especially after marriage.

He will ask for more in future...

My joy is that you are being truthful to yourself.

Get him to listen to you, talk to him and be open about who you are and what you stand for.

If he does not like you the way you are and your principles, end the relationship.

Else you won't survive what is coming ahead of you.

Understand that marriage has a purpose, both of you should be aligned to this purpose in God.

Don't marry, for marrying sake, bae you will crash out.

Badb0y4lyf:
Your man is a social and out going person probably seen all the girls there is out there he saw something in you particularly your decency and morals and his trying to stay committed with you that's why he want you to classy and sexy to what he likes. It's normal compromise once in a while it nice

It is normal to compromise, just listen to yourself, this marriage will not last.

donstan18:
It's either your villagers are tampering with your life or you are a deeper life girl.

What nonsense!

Break up with him and watch the next lady grab him for life.

You're lucky and should be grateful he's an expressive type of man who's always ready to back up whatever he wants from you with money. How happy will you be to watch him cheat and flirt with other ladies who are ready to live the life he wants from you.

He's from a very wealthy family and it's normal for him to see his woman look good and classy. Yes! It might seem like he's trying so hard to change you but that's not the only angle you should see it, look beyond, see it that he values and care for you so much that he wants you to turn to what he wants in his woman, rather than seeking it from other ladies.

I don't mean to call you poor, but I think you are suffering from what poor people suffer when they are mingling with wealthy folks. Inferiority complex and inability to be comfortable with classy lifestyle due to their background.

Don't loose that man.

He values and respect you, which is why he wants to change you to the kind of woman he wants, than attempting to get it outside. Do well to change a bit for him, don't change totally, just a bit.

you are very wrong. All your points are error.

Money and riches is not everything, even with the money can you see that op is not happy in the relationship

If am man values and respect you, he won't try to change anything about you.

Can you see his demands from op are canal and irrelevant.


It is poverty mentality and lack of self esteem that will make you change who you are for money.


The relationship is too young and they have too many things to sort out

Monday200 suspend the wedding, you guys have a lot to sort out, don't marry him because of money.

You will crash out in a very short time

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