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I stay with my mum and my siblings.Last Saturday, we moved away from our rented apartment in Lagos.We moved to Ogun state.
I work in Lagos but since we moved from Lagos, I find it difficult continuing my job in Lagos because of distance and transport fare. My mum promised I will find a new job but am more concerned about the pay and the stress because my job pay is okay to some extent and it's stress free. Am considering living in the our church in Lagos then get an apartment later or stay in Ogun state
Guys please I need your advice

Mynd44 justwise seun nfplmod please I need more advice on this.Thank you

We are finished
Especially we salary earners

I stay with my mum and my siblings.Last Saturday, we moved away from our rented apartment in Lagos.We moved to Ogun state.
I work in Lagos but since we moved from Lagos, I find it difficult continuing my job in Lagos because of distance and transport fare. My mum promised I will find a new job but am more concerned about the pay and the stress because my job pay is okay to some extent and it's stress free. Am considering living in the our church in Lagos then get an apartment later or stay in Ogun state
Guys please I need your advice
Mynd44 just wise seun nfplmod please I need more advice on this.Thank you

Odetokun3:


Location and age?

lagos am 20 and will be 21 this year

falcon01:

Please help me
What should I do

Am crying right now as I type this
My landlord has thrown my things out because of house rent and I have no where to go
My dad left me three years ago and I am the only child.I have never seen my mum before because I was told by my dad she left when I was a baby
I have no where to go

Hello nairalanders, there is this very good friend of mine who got married this year, early April.So last week Friday,i came to do some projects around that ibeju lekki side of Lagos.So my friend lives there with his bride and after closing for the day,i decided to say hi to them because it's been a while we met.I got there,knocked on the gate but to my surprise I met the gate slightly closed then I begin to wonder what if thieves entered the compound.I entered the house and heard moaning. I called my friend number to let him know am around but he told me he is not around that his wife is home.I went to the room the moaning was coming from and I could here bleeping sounds.I knocked and the action stopped.The wife opened the door I saw her in underwears,she was shocked to see me.To cut the story short, I saw the leg of a man beside the bed and that was how they started begging me,the guy was so dirty and unkept.I snapped his face by force on my phone and the bride started begging me not to tell her husband.Telling me she will do sleep with me to compensate me and I got more annoyed.
This is a lady my friend spent millions for her bride price oo.Women are indeed useless
I haven't told anyone about the incident though but am going to tell my friend soon

DaddyCK:
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1.
2.
3.

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MYND44
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ROCKTATION

If you have a child but refuse to let her know before marriage

2.lf you have feelings for her best friend

3.If you lie to her about what you do for a living and she later finds out in the marriage

I pray I qualify

MrBrownJay1:
- ask your parents for a small loan til the end of month
- ask your siblog for a small loan
- ask your workplace for an advance
- ask your friends to borrow you small small to get by
- ask your neighbors etc for small loan til end of month

it will all be ok!

My parents are dead
I am an introvert, I don't keep friends.Am always at home when am not at work.
Am the very shy type and I hate borrowing money

PerfectStranger:
Run am my guy. Life hard. You sef don try.

I am finished bro
I have really suffered in this life. I wish I never existed

I was coming back from work this evening and lost in my thoughts in the Keke maruwa I entered. I stay in Lagos.
A man was sitting by my left and a lady whom I entered the maruwa with at the same time was sitting by my right.When we alighted from the maruwa, I paid the Keke driver 200 Naira and I collected N100 change.I picked the N200 from my back pocket but my purse used to be at my front pocket.I didn't even notice anything until I got home.That was when I noticed my purse is not with me.I almost ran man because the money in that wallet is the only money I have and I have planned how am going to spend it till the end of the month.Right now, it's only the N100 change I received from the Keke man I have with me right now.
Am suspecting the lady and I feel so sad right now.I have really suffered a lot and this shouldn't be happening to me of all people. I don't have any money in my bank account. I have withdrawn everything.
I am finished!
In case you hear any sucide news, don't be surprised if you find out it's me with this moniker

paulasticity:
Am a filling station manager at challenge ibadan,and there is even vacancy at my work place at present. We pay 30k
You need to consider at least the following factors:
1. not all filling stations pay the same amount as salary.
2.distance from your home to the station
3.straight or shift (we run shift)
4.you may incur losses due to fraudulent customers,. especially during rush hours.some will not pay you, you might unknowingly press wrong litres for amount, fake money ,wrong meter reading etc, fake alert, etc
5.you.might get tips from customers on daily basis depends your attitude towards them
6.you may face physical and sexual harassment by some customers
.7.closing late
Some filling station allow fraud ,surchanging unuspecting customers, taking extra charges for selling inside Jerry cans ,so they get money on a daily basis ,aside their salary.(our station) frown at this seriously.
8.dangers and risk associated with banks and as well as filling statios-armed robbers,thugs etc
In summary weigh the options very well before any move. The choice is yours

Oh thank a lot for this sir

ariklawani:
Don't, i repeat don't stop the cleaning job until you get a better job... Going to Ibadan is a set up.. Because no opportunity in Ibadan... 26k is better then 15k..with 26k you can try and enrol in laspotech and do a part time study.. Banking sometime do work on Saturday and Sunday.. Fuel station is every day...

Thanks for this

Prospy33:
I'll advice you continue with your bank cleaner job.
I have once worked as a pump attendant in the filling station.
The extra money you make in filling station can only be through cheating and I advice you don't go that way.

Moreover filling station jobs needs extreme caution, if you don't even know how to drop the petrol hose properly to it's position, you might lose a lot of petrol and the expenses will be on you.

If you are not careful a colleague of yours might sell with your pump without your knowledge and at the end of the day you will be making loses which you will pay.

It is more stressful, the risks are higher and the pay is not worth it.

Work in that bank but assume you are working on a filling station and save that extra 11k for sometime and start up anything you could.

Thanks

Thanks much

Gold179:
you are so on point, how will 15k pay school fees and where will he get the time to read and attend lectures? if not that his uncle owns the filling station, he will be sack in no time due to absent for his lectures.

Thanks

Szdorf:
don't be fooled by leaving ur present job and go to Ibadan for pump attendant, because of daily money
Note
Not all filling station accommodate cheat on costumer , u may end up fire
My advice to since ur salary is 26k here in Lagos and no weekend work , enrol to part time school in Lagos or Ibadan every weekend u can go for lectures shikanna

Thanks

Ybaby:


Do you want to thief? Be careful not to add a single kobo that does not belong to you

Thanks

Offpoint1:

HOW OLD ARE YOU?
My advice:
Stick to the bank job because you have enough time,
Instead of school, save enough money and buy yourself either new or UK used Laptop, enrol in any digital skill learning centre or purchase courses on Udemy, skillshare or coursera.
Go for either of these skills
"Data Analysis
"Web development
"Graphics Design
"Digital Marketing
"Programming


If you take this advise serious, in a year or 2 you'll never regret....

School doesn't guarantee you any job in this digital age or current Nigeria, unless you're going for medicals...

You can further you education at any time

Am 21
Thanks for this

frozen70:


Feeding and accommodation settled

Which school fees will you pay from your salary?

If he has said that he will pay your part time school fees that will be fair enough

This free feeding and accommodation, hope you are close or friendly with the wife

You may regret changing your job because you are going to a new place and it will take you mental stress to settle down

Continue with your bank cleaner work, get a partime admission, share the good news with your senior bankers staff in the bank, they will be glad you are upgrading yourself and may contribute for you if you humbly ask them

Oh thank you very much for this
I appreciate

Raxxye:

Did you say you have just school cert? Then you must be a very brilliant chap. Infact, you write better than many holders of first and masters degrees. You writing is excellent!
I think you should discuss your concerns with your uncle. If he truly cares about you, he'll advise you appropriately. Tell him about your present job, pay, spare time for studies and all.

Thank you

Donraqh:


1) I will suggest you stay put in your present location and make do with the N26k salary from the bank for now.

2) You can enrol for a part-time problem in your current location, all you need is good rapport with your fellow cleaners in your office. They'll cover up for you on lecture and exam days.

Besides lectures and exams with part-time programs are usually weekends, so you may just score a point if your branch isn't doing Saturday/Sunday banking.

You'll hardly get such opportunity in a fuel station since they run 24/7 on default though you stand to make side money with numerical ability.

3) Is your uncle in Ibadan married? If yes, that's a red flag. Forget the promise of accommodation and feeding it's not gonna work. She'll turn to something else very soon.

Besides, they'll turn you to a domestic staff without pay though you shouldn't be expecting any, and I bet you won't like it.

Your uncle has a good agenda for you, but please stay put in your struggle. It won't be long before you will breakthrough.

If he's not married which I doubt, still do not depend on relatives promises, hustle your way out. All man for himself.

If he can afford your feeding and accommodation why not pay your school fees too?

The devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know.

Good luck.

Thanks a lot for this
I appreciate

Mercychen:
Secondly, don't ever rely on promises of relatives. Human beings are unpredictable and your uncle can change even before you round off with your program. Then how will you manage with 15k?

That's exactly what am looking at.
Thanks a lot for your opinion

Mercychen:
How about applying for a part-time program with the bank job?

Part time program?
Please explain better

valiju:
If the petrol station job was to be in lagos I will have advise you to leave the cleaner job and go for the attendant job but since it is in ibadan you have to think twice because there is no mago mago in ibadan petrol station

I stay in Lagos so the filling station is at ibadan

sylve11:


Yes, they make money on daily basis by cheating unsuspecting customers.

and what if they get caught

dacblogger:
Continue with your cleaning job nd forget about school.
Most graduates no get work

Lol