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hmmmmm. i've been insulted so much here.

190:
@kunbee

no comments abt ur pic!

190, i think ur primary aim on nairaland is to castigate peoples pictures. why dont you upload a picture of your ugly self, lets see.

well, if my boyfriend was'nt a jealous fiend, i'd have invited you for a one night trial, then i'm sure u'd start another thread that reads: why are nigerian women soooooooooooo good in bed?

well,
1.ask your girl why she does not wear pants.
2. do you or do you not like it?

thanks madman, for that ego boosting tonic. just what i need for the day. how are you

190:
@poster
it is not as if u are even fine in the 1st place b4 sef

i know why u used that little baby's picture.

i hate that thing. why cant ppl load 50 naira and make a call? why do nigerians love free things so much? ha

why do you want to know.

ibigod:
there idstar its time for you to ask your self some question and consider all the good advice you have been given and this will start with you
1. close you leg till after marriage since marriage is the mean thing in your mind now
2. stop spoiling him with money
3. its time to confirm what he thinks about you.
4. has he ever told you any thing like (i want to marri you) or ( will you marri me)
5. be sure if he loves you or not
6. do you love him enough to stay with him till death do you path ( if money is not a problem)
7. and the mst important you have to let you CREATOR have his way by directing you: and God's direction start with you given your life to Christ and receiving the batism of the HolySpirit so that He can guard in to all truth.

we really love each other, he has asked me if i would marry him when things get better, he used to flirt a lot but stopped when i walked in, i would love nothing else but to marry him.

MoneyRule:
@idstar
does it really matter what i think??

what do you think

,amebo no1:
ok, i dont know who is, but let me ask you a question, between you and the guy who's got a little brain upstairs? cos you don't sound like you have one, so im guessing he is the intelligent one here

aw, that hurt realllll bad

MoneyRule:
So, let me get this straight; his only fault and your only reason for wanting to break up with him is that; he's broke??
C'mon girl, anyone who's rich today, was once poor! Atleast he's hardworking isn't he?
Okay,
what if u dump him and he then gets a job?
What if u dump him and the next guy(you marry) is rich but isn't good in bed?
What if the next guy(you marry) isn't that good looking but rich?
What if the next guy you marry turns out not to love you as much as he does even though he is good looking and good in bed?
What if the guy you marry is good looking,good in bed and rich but a couple of months or so after marriage he becomes broke? Do u now dump him because he's broke?
A lot of other things can go wrong!
So in my opinion, that which u have, hold it tight. Wealth can be attained, but the properties he has are God given(good looks), learnt(bedly knowleage) and built(love). Do you want to lose God given,learnt and built properties over something that can be attained?
Think well.

do you think i should give him money to marry me?

ThoniaSlim:
Now you have got to weigh your options very well. . .

Do you dump this dude you love just because he isn't financially buoyant and go for a richer guy. . .or do you stick with him and help him through this developing stage. . .and reap the fruits later?

and you mentioned how are you sure he won't leave you if he becomes financially buoyant?

Well as much as I won't encourage you to stick around too long especially if he hasn't got prospectives. . .I would also ask you to stick with him if you know your heart truly wants to be with him,he loves you sincerely and is a hardworking individual who aspires to be successful. . .

Sometimes dear you have to take a chance on love. . .and if it works out. . .then good for you. . .if it doesn't, then life goes on. . .

i like this. thanks. kindda like gambling eh?

so tired. i did mention he makes me feel queenly in bed . he thinks thats why i havent left him yet.

i dont know if he loves me cos i spend so much on him.  

madman, let me finish with one wahala first before geting into another.

amebo, do you have a cure for confusion. call me on 08035853278.

So because the guy is not financially stable now, u want to dump him? Agreed, he might have overreacted to the other guys, but which man won't if he sees his babe being chatted up by another lady and she's there shining her teeth? It's ladies like u that give most ladies out there bad names like gold digger, slut, etc. What if after u leave him, he hits big, and has a good job? u'll now come back whining on nairaland telling us another story. It's times like this that tests the strenght and willpower of a lady who really loves her man and is willing to stand by him through rough patches, and from ur attitude, u definitely don't. If u like leave him. Don't come back here whining if he finally gets a good job and pay and then decides not to accept u back.

thanks blackman. been thinking along your line all the time, thats what makes me even more confused. what if he gets a good job, and decides to dump me then. alternatively, what if he never improves, then i'd have wasted alllllllllllllll my time.

no1madman, what makes you think i'd want to go out withcha. that''d be like jumping from fire to frying pan, or whatever

just keep praying. there will be good news soon, probably next century.

pretty sure he's saying the exact opposite.

lets try.

all the single ladies, stop criticizing the gal.

the ngo's are actually not helping due to the amount involved. we need 25,000 dollars

my sister needs total hip replacement surgery, and that can be taken care of in india. but we're cash trapped right now. do you know of any place i can go to for financial assistance? pls

enjoy your luck

7th august.
30, still single. hate it