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Benita27:
For the fact that a man gave her such an amount of an engagement ring means she's obviously worth more than that to him.

No it only means he's rich..
Money doesn't equate love, ask lekki wives...

Funny enough the fact is that the ring is more valuable than the woman...

Na by like dat? Even the op no fit do all you write.

kkins25:
Damn gal. I wouldnf want to be in ifedithshoes right now... you hit the nail on his HEAD.

As in ehh, dat one weak me sef, but dat if na true o, otherwise na herself she dey deceive. In any case if she's is as she says, kudos to her, That's why i com ask her if she dey into any serious relationship? You know say who dey drive car with mouth no dey get accident

alexialin:
Ok


And do u know, it could be? Both of you are not destined to marry each other.

Just saying

Guy rest! You no dey get the guy narrative? He left the girl 4 yrs ago because bcus marriage issues, yet the girl never still get that same marriage wey make dem break up. So in essence, the girl relatives dey think say na d guy dey block the girl shine as far back 2013,surprisingly the girl is still not married.

It's a psychological thing that's sexual. It's like the way guys see big yash. Na so, in the long run it's not really core when tge sex starts happening.

Angelcute:
men and sex.......always complaining of no sex or lesser sex

Women and money are like 5 and 6, and what's more is na girls dey enjoy the thing pass.
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safarigirl:
i did not make a horrible attempt.
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you have zero idea, which is expected considering your race, and many couples break up not because the sex isn't good but because other things like proper communication and shared interests is nonexistent.

I know way too much about sex and romance for someone like you to even try to correct me sir, feel free to disagree and marry someone just because she sabi knack then see what becomes of your marriage.

Black men know nothing of romance

Madam abeg no vex, romantic relationships is not just a single entity, it entails other things as well, the fact is this, romantic relationship entails in principle, 3 things
1, money
2, sex
3, love. These 3 mostly exists together in any serious romantic relationship be it marriage or otherwise.

safarigirl:
yes, I am a virgin....as to second accusation, I do not collect what I cannot return and na only four people in my twenty-three years wey don give me shishi...once again, nothing I can't return today if asked

I make my own money and I am not waiting for any man to help my life, I am neither invalid nor handicap and I like to back my words with actions

He who comes to equity must come with clean hands, best believe, I stick to that maxim wholeheartedly before I speak.

So, do not categorize me with the leeches and incapacitated beings you surround yourself with

Sorry if i accused you falsely and if you are saying the truth. But lemme ask you something, Are you in a serious relationship?

safarigirl:
The OP, jist like many others who roam this Romance Section, is just another sex-obsessed Nigerian boy who likes to justify the need to keep his dick constantly wet

Uncle, sexual attraction does not mean you have to have sex with someone, it just means, you would want to eventually....this is someone you can ser yourself shagging. That is sexual attraction and it can be built up over a period of months and even a year which makes the eventual explosion even more satisfying.

Romance is connecting with someone on a deeper level than just some one minute orgasm

I honestly have no idea why I am discussing the concept of romance and sex with a race of men who have proven themselves incapable of distinguishing between both over the years.

The only thing African men know is to spray a woman with gifts after which she is expected to get on the bed and prepare to be mounted. You have no idea what the ART of romance entails, hence the ignorance permeating this thread

See better person, as if you are virgin or you've never collected money from guys b4.
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Before we go too far lets ask, who owns the money, and if it was govt money, wat was it budgeted for. I'll really like to know

FILEBE:
if you have succeeded in tearing hymens up and down, suceeded in tasting all species here and there all in the name of compatibility, and you laterfound who you are "sexually compatible" . Pls, Bros, who will marry all the girls you have drilled here and there?
come to think of it sef . dude, what if men have a vagina and the ladies have the rod, will you say they should be testing you if you are sexually compatible first?

But they are also testing us too, na girls dey even enjoy sex pass, and it's a fact. We just have a higher libido.

Na 2 answers na cover all. Love and money. If you can get these two things in life, brother and sister, just die cus you dob finish your race be that, but no forget God o.

pocohantas:
You will be someone's parent...I look forward to you passing your teachings on this thread to your daughters and sons too





Point and kill indeed...and the times the women went to visit the men in their homes before marriage. The times they spent for the mother-in-laws to access them, wasn't enough time to scatter the poosie?

Make una sha dey use protection. Too much diseases around.

1. The thread is not the problem but what i do with.
2.The mothers spent the night with the ladies that come over for assessment, if they try sleep in the same room alone with the man eh... .Chai! only God can say. With that I'll say gud nyt.

Stellie:
hmmm oga . U r d one to get d msg.. Listen a relationship is a period of tym wen u get to know ur partner bfor marriage , not where u get to fuccck ur partner...sex is by choice not compulsory so a gal can b in a relationship witout havin sex, its nt by force. Its up to d guy if he can cope or not....Now wen ur daughter tels u she has a boyfrnd . Tel her : babygal go fucck dat guy's dickk til it shrinks .. Kip tellin her dat til she gets married okay ..... Bye

Romantic relationship involves sex, if it doesn't occur, great, if it does then its expected, trying to subtract sex in a romantic is nothing short of hypocrisy, lemme be frank with you. If my 13yrs old comes and says she have a boyfriend, then she has to end it. Anything less is unacceptable. When she comes of age, and then she'll be able to take care of herself and shoulder the responsibility of her actions. Simple.

pocohantas:
Your parents did same?
As in, your famous mothers that all married as VIRGINS?


So, you mean...your mom and grandmom slept with some men before marriage? I am just hearing this for the first time

I guess you're very young, but if you're not tgen lemme remind you that our parents didn't do romantic relationship, what they did was point and kill. That's how they were able to remain virgins, the ones that engaged in romantic relationships did not marry as virgins, you can quote me anywhere.

pocohantas:
Is this real?
Coming from a man? Wow!



Don't get emotional...you said your mother and grand mothers did it. Na you talk am. I understand your stand now, it's a family thing.

E be like say you no get parents, anyway I'll forgive if you don't buy if you do then I'll still pretend that you are just trying to make story long.

pocohantas:
No mind them...sex starved he-goats.
Later they'll sit at their round table to judge bodycount...

They should give this advice to their sisters and daughters.
Na these kinds guys go dey check their sister phone, and monitoring her every movement.


He can't give this advice to his daughter...never!

And what kind of woman are you, the sex giver type (ashawo) or the one that will tell her daughter to go into a romantic relationship with a man at 13? Pick one.
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Denko2721987:
I dont understand why Nairaland ladies suddenly made it a point of duty to be rebels against realistic facts and opinions and sometimes even common knowledge/sense as long as its coming from nairaland men... Why all these opposition..

Cus these are either the most delusional or na these type na dey chop guy money and discharge.

Stellie:
hmmmm oga think okay . Just think.. No gal knows d number of guys she is gonna date in dis lyf.. She myt want to date only one guy buh dat guy myt end up breakin her hrt so she moves on and on and on til she finds her soul mate.... And wit d rate at wich people date witout ambition of marriage, she wud probably hv becom a borehole wen she gets married ... Do u get it?

That's not the op problem or his fault. But I'll answer your question with a proverb, to meet your Prince Charming you'll have to kiss many frogs. And whether you like it or not, you'll still become bore hole and a sagged with just only one child. Sex is not everything in a relationship but it's part, trying to subtract it leads to rubbish, it's part of the whole package of relationship.
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pocohantas:
When you guys start giving these kind of advice to your sisters, I will begin to take you serious.

One came here to create thread because guys are looking at his beautiful sister...but he has administered on other people's sisters. He doesn't want another guy to touch his own sister...

That's a very wise advice if you must know, our parents did the same, and even our fore fathers. I know you're not a child so I'll pretend you're just trying to be mischievous.

Fabulocity:
And they'd be the same idiots that'll say that girls have nothing to offer in a relationship than sex. Just look at this slowpoke's mentality. Nigerian Men are a really confused and brain dead bunch.
It's mostly broke guys that'll agree with this OP because the time they're supposed to use to hustle, they'll spend it looking for sex like sex starved dogs.

You're just ranting randomly, what the op said is the obvious fact, you want the care, the money,the love, the comfort yet your mind no tell you say you go go ready sex keep abi? If he agrees to no sex, then hooray fo you but that's his own cup of tea, if he disagrees, just ready him sex for am, chikina.
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Fabulocity:
Dear Nigerian guys
There is more to life than sex. Stop this obsession about violating the next hole with your rotten pricks and watch your true potentials manifest, watch sucess, money and breakthrough follow you. Trust me on this one.
Sincerely,
A truly concerned female.

Nigerians are so hypocritical, what then would be your opinion if a guy says he loves you scara and yet doesn't spend chi chi on you, does that make sense? Same applies for guys and sex in relationships, we no be chys na, let's give our opinions like adults. The truth be say wen you engage in a romantic relationship, just zero your mind say the guy get dick and he wants to Bleep you, whether he loves you or not na another story, and whether he agrees to Bleep you or not is just another story. That's just life get used to it.

Stellie:
hmmm dear op ,.. R u aryt Common gv gals a break.,sex isnt everytn okay.. Shud we al start fuckin al d dicks dat com across us, den wen we turn into a borehole , u wil com here to start spewing ur trashy opinion on how ur wife is as wide as river niger and u want a tight possy.... Leave gals alone. If dy gv u sex den shut up ,. If dy dont gv u sex stil shut up. Its their body so shut up ...... Aftarall no one is gonna force u to fucck a gal so dont make it mandatory for a gal to Bleep every idiot dat com their way... So shut up ur opinion okay . Argggh am so angry .op no offense though

Get the simple message, you don't want to Bleep,as in trying to preserve yourself, then don't go in to a romantic relationship, i wonder what's so difficult to understand about that. It's just like our parents do, they tell us to stay away from guys or babes wen we were younger cuz they know from experience that romantic relationship and sex go hand in hand and we are not ready to shoulder the responsibility then. It's the same principle. Get used to it, else if you still try to disagree, wen you born tell your daughter at 13 to go into a romantic relationship, saying nothing will happen, Abeg eee!
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pocohantas:
There is nothing like force. She didn't use gun...Lots of them usually agree, thinking it will change with time. Everyone has the right to be in a relationship and it will have nothing to do with what you think or who you think it should be with.

And pls, let's not deceive ourselves. Lots of financially unstable youths are in relationships.

That one isn't a virgin doesn't mean she can't decide to stop having sex. Still her choice and totally irrelevant in this discussion.


Naso!


Very disloyal set of creatures...but na them judge bodycount pass.

I don't know why you're taking this simple topic and making it complicated. Jesus says, if your left hand will cause you to sin,cut it off, simple solution. This guy just gave a simple solution to girls who don't want sex but want to be in a romantic relationship, the solution was simple,stay away till you're ready to have sex, if you can't stand the heat, stay away from the kitchen. Simple! Why are you making it difficult?

bobo65:
Is camon c7 not an mtk phone?

Tecno tried a little bit in their os optimization. That's why i can manage them. And the c7 is a well balanced phone with a cheap price.

If you want correct and sincere answer, no buy am, waste of money and time

Collect your note 4 and go and �

No touch infinix o, worst phone ever! I don't personally even touch mediatek phones not to talk of infinix, oga buy camon c7 or if you add some more money buy redmi 4a. Pm if you get any thing to ask.
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No better phone, you have only one option, that's add at least 10k on top,
After that you get 2 options either buy camon c7 or add another 10k again to snapdragon powered device, redmi 4a. Pm me if you are ready.
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dahgifted:
am using infinix x551 and i do get up to 700kb/s while browsing buh i recently downloaded mtk and now am getting 15kb/sec please is it d mtk dat course it and a friend usisnd d same network as i get fast browsing speed...i use mtn

Though i don't normally touch mediatek phones not to talk of infinix but i think it's your network. I use mtn too and their network does fluctuate and it depends on the site you're browsing or downloading, if their server is slow there's nothing mtn or Infinix can do about it. Cheers