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zaynie:
Where are my team mates
All Octobermamas in hiding, its time to show your face o.......its 60days to October! (#teamsAugust and September make una no vex o)

#teamoctoberforsupernaturalbirth

#teamoctoberforsneezeanddeliver

#teamoctobertohhgbayii

# teamoctobertohsexy

#teamindependence

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Runs out of thread.

60days ke, that 60 dey make my heart skip o, abeg let's say 2months instead, make senior beedam drop fin sec?, it's like waiting for ship in an airport o, *runs out of thread*

beedam:
Learn to always include senior before talking to me.

lol, dis woman and her seniority, what should we now expect from lovinam and co if ur own reach this, senior beedam

ozycy:
My gorgeous team October, hope we are getting ready? It's two months to go, we are counting in days now. . @ Iffffffy, stadora, zaynie, everfaithfulGod, justcurious, Virtuouswife, mamaboms, ijeoma2728. Other team October still hiding somewhere, pls show yourself, am sure you are proud of your team .
# Proudlyteamoctober #
#Proudlyteamindependent#,
The best birth story is yet to come from us

#teamindependent rocks, can't wait o

ozycy:
. Lol, I count the f' before writing your name too.

lol, lobatan!

lovinam:
Hahahah when I de talk am una tink say I de play. I seriously count anytime I write her name. She too much joo

lol, the only mama wey dey count 123 to write my name, I hail o

kaffy4bill:
@ iffffffy,I seriously had to count d fs b4 writing ur name, so modath is sure nt d only one.. ao r u doin? I sight u now but bn aa while u comment on any post.
Trusting God u r doin perfectly well, ao is lo, sure d kicks r in place
Just checking on u, take care

lolz, don't mind my fs o, its lovinam that counts 123cuz of my name o not modath, I'm fine, just gentle, d kicks are in place o my dear sister, thanks for checking on me.

Prouddad38 and proudmum38, congrats on the birth of lilproudy, I know he is a source of joy already, kisses to him

Beryl15:
@proudmom38..
You're still replying posts I came to check if you done born
Safe and supernatural delivery IJN.

I wonder also, it will be easy for her IJN.amen

At last,

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the razor mouthed modath don land, thanks to God, congrats sis and welcome to the lil munchkin.

lovinam:
Go and see ur doc ASAP!
Kimoni!!! Show for here, its time for omugwo
Modath! Congratulations. God be praised! Make I go drink one bottle of zobo on ya behaf. Lol

Iffffffy( d only mama I count 123 to write her name) how u de? Keep pushing eh! E go easy for you.

Proudmom38 na 2bottles of zobo I go drink on ur own day. Love ya! E get somebody wey I de forget her name o. I know I read her doc want her to come in to be induced. How u de?

I'm gentle o dear sis, thanx for asking after me, how is LO doing?

ahnie:
Hy Doc thorpido how' er you?how z the fam doing?Doc please when wil the vigilante(ism)stop?yesterday i ran into the restroom crying.when i came out,i met my child cryin and starrin at me.i just cuddled her,and resume the session.

heya, kpele

HARMYMY:
Thanks to everyone . After all prayer and doctor help to survive my Prince, my Prince said goodbye to the world on Thursday. After CS God said His not my baby. Wish all the pushing mama supernatural delivery.

OMG!!! I'm just soooo short of words, may the Lord console you

Chibuhealth:
This is wat u see in a country that join two different countries together under d lie of one Nigeria

did u read d post?

corrall:
Why not go and see your doctor

I thought as much o

Really love how Team october are coming onboard o, may it be easy for us, for me its pelvic and pubic pain o, #teamoctober #teamindependent #onelove

HARMYMY:
Thank God with me as my prince charming arrived yesterday morning through CS has my baby never ready to come but they force him through induction and hot water dey pass to my anus . pls kindly assist my baby in prayer cos he was sock in the water for hours. my prince is currently in infants warmer to drain the water from his body

congrats madam, God's mighty hand will rest upon him in Jesus name

Keji3:
Hi-5 to you @ifffffy, God will keep ur home and make ur best of friends for ever amen

a big amen to that, thanks much

modath:
@iffffffy,

High five girl, love the maturity you've displayed..life goes on....love the part about being your best friend...

@kimoni,
See lovey dovey oooo, .. thank God for maturity maybe we for don tear cloth dey fight, see as husby & wifey don rekindle their lovinto...


@chinwendym,
Abeg, disregard that urban myth..

lol, still don't know wen I would read ur comment and won't laugh, anyways thanks much

Kimoni:
God bless your marriage my dear

amen, thanks much

lovinam:
@iffffffy( the only mama I count 123 to write her name)
God bless you real good.( Wisdom) I pray that peace, joy, love, faithfulness, and favour will continue to rest upon your home forever. Amen

lol, a big amen

Mamas, I appreciate u all for ur contributions, prayers and advise, I can't thank u enough, #onelove.

God has taken control, we talked abt it, d silence was really killing him that he couldn't sleep in d room again, guilty conscience written all over him, couldn't go to a party he was supposed to with his friends and so on, that I even started pitying him. I had to wake him up in d sitting room yesternight, I could see d happiness on his face wen he saw me and I asked him to talk, and he did, apologised and made confessions. I didn't even bother abt d talks, he missed me and I missed him also, he's my best friend. That's all dat matters (Though not without telling him I will kill him if it happens again) I'm happy I forgave him. Sorry for my long story. #teamoctober, hope u're all doing fine?

@keji3, lovely birth story, big congrats to u

gocare:
@ our one and only nurse... You too much, all una shout was worth it...congratulations.

@bheambo..... God protect you and LO. E-hugs.

@ ifffffy when I read you post, I Dont know why I just got angry at my own DH and started shouting. Lol. My mum wud say see them as your first child...God is your strength.

lol, amen

Doubledouble:
@iffffffy, was going to keep quiet too but somehow, here I am...
There's nothing anyone says that will make much sense to you though you hear, not till you calm down. You have to look for a way to forgive him n forgive yourself too. Yes yourself, cos deep inside you, you harbour sthgs - no matter how little-against yourself for what happened.

Marriage is not a bed of roses, and our mothers who have been married for over 30, 40yrs, that you see and admire; if you ask them what they've gone through before getting to that stage, my dear you will marvel. There is no excuse for adultery, but do you want it to break your home?? Your story, is one of big testimony, it shows God truly loves you n so the devil will be more interested in trying to break your home. You have to gidi up be strong n pray to God about it, He will surely hear you.

Oh yes, DH has to learn his lesson, but not thru fights, shouting, et al. For me, it is SILENCE too. His food n everything am meant to do for him will not be late for a sec during lesson period -I take better care of him sef- but no serious conversation at all. Talk about heaping coals of fire on someone's head. But u know your DH best, n should know how to teach him a lesson without fights. Also pls, like @modath said, DO NOT GO SNOOPING into DH's stuffs deliberately- bad recipe! It shows you have the seed of distrust, i.e, if you do.

Lastly, just remember that bundle of Joy you are carrying and how you came about it! Be happy, my sis! Sorry for the long talk oo.

I don't snoop, I totally trust him, such thought has never even crossed my mind b4.

mytestimony:
Its very hard to pretend not to see. Its very easy for people who have never experienced such betrayal to say forgive.
Trust me when I say this ; focus on the joy set before you. Its painful. Its hard. It may seem like u can't go on but u actually can. Please dont allow urself to get bp.
Do u deliberately chk dh stuff? If u do please stop for ur own health. Love sis

thanks, as for checking dh's stuff, I've never even thought of that cuz I av 100percent trust for him, but of course I do his laundry, I'm bound to.

kaffy4bill:
My princess is here.. cutiereborn, u don get bday mate... bs much later, want to rest
Lots of luv

wow! Congrats ma'am, thank God

ifefunmi:
My sis all I can say is all will be well. Just take it to God in prayers cos that is the surest way. Cry if you have to rather than weep internally just do it in moderation. God sees each tears that drop and He will save your marriage. May God help us all in our homes.

amen, thanks much

funkymoi:
Iffffffy,see my sis, I knew you might start having ds issue of 'why did he do it?' 'Didn't I try my best?'. Don't u dare beat urself up about dt o! If indeed he cheated,it has nothing to do with any shortcoming from ur side. U said here u give in even when it isn't convenient for u. Once u know in ur mind dt u've given all u can,don't u dare allow any of such thoughts pls.
Even if u were short somewhere,why didn't he tell u so u'll make adjustments?!
It was a decision he made by himself n for himself o!
I've been there my sis. U'll get over it with time. Pray to God to heal ur broken heart, He will. Be happy for ur baby,cos oyinbo said our moods affects dem . Talk to ur baby,sing to her/him. Have u finished shopping? If not go buy stuff for u n LO. Arrange her stuff/nursery,wash her clothes,iron n fold dem. Keep ur self occupied doing happy tins.
Don't worry,console urself tinking of d hell he's in right now,trust me he is in hot soup! When he comes which he will,handle with wisdom. Start praying to God to guide ur heart n mouth wen u guys talk. Forgive n God will heal u.
Chai! Sorry for my loooong post abeg.
Hugs sis!

thanks so much for this sis, I really appreciate. Its really encouraging

bheambo:
My. Prince charming came into d world yesterday afternoon. Praise God wit me

halleluyah, may he be a source of joy, thank u Lord for safe delivery

happymama:
Gudmoni mamas, @Iffffffy,au ws ur 9t,hpe u slpt well,hpe ur mind is at rest,nd au is Lo doing,its well my sis,God is in control.

Lo is fine, kicking like nothing happened, can't say I slept well, just wondering wot could be d cause, yet to come up wit one, cuz all my best has been put in trying to be a good wife, it pains

[quote author=HARMYMY post=35688590][/quote]amen, lol @ apple and blackberry,

Jennifer89:
Nne it is not easy. that's marriage for you. when u think all is white and stainless your trust and sacrifices gets crushed in between the rock. sis, we all have our challenges with our hubby but as a virtuous woman that you are approach the situation calmly, I'm sure his heart is not at rest. just be strong for ur lo coz ur state may affect her too. may God give u the strength. it is well.

amen, I really appreciate

lovinam:
Iffffffy( d only mama I count 123 to write her name). You know we got ur back real good. Right now I will tell you to stay calm. My major concern is our precious lil one. This matter will be sorted out when the right time comes. You are hurt, dh is confused. This is not the time to talk about it. Stay calm for the sake of your baby and also to avoid saying things you might regret. I will say give him the benefit of doubt. You might be shocked at the real story. It might not be what u think. We love u and loads of hug to you. Please try and get some sleep tonight. Play music to calm yourself

thanks much, ve nt uttered a word since