South east girls just always start fights and all that rubbish, warning- don't ever go to Lewisham, Deptford, actually basically Lewisham borough or blue borough as we call it.

Okay, around about 70% of me is shy and nice and everything but then 30% is if you really really really really really aggravate me, then you're going to have. and so people don't really see that most of the time.

Thank you Omogenaija

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I think you're right babyosisi.

lol thanx 4 the advice, I mite try dat ''boyfriend'' thing. Or I could just gain enough confidence to scream down the phone at him. But I dunno when he'll strike again, lol I don't even know his number. Most of the time his number is on private, and then most of the time it's not.

This guy looked like the type of guy who wud call my numba 2 c if it was ryt. I kno i shudda sed no but i dunno whats wrong with me. But I assure you this won't ever happen again? If he calls again what should I say, not meaning to sound rude to him or anything.

Lol I won't be having sex any time soon. I'm saving that for marriage! I don't really want to change my number because I hate the whole process and I've had that number for years.

Well how about the best of both!!! People like me who are damn pretty and will always stay true, I'm there are alot of people like me out there.

OMG that is reali funny!!! Its so weird bcoz I fit all of that except the age part I'm only 16. and my body is fully matured (well overly on top). lol. Good luck on finding your girl.

How do I get this Nigerian Perverted stalker to stop calling me!!! Around about last year when I was going to the salon to get my hair done. I was at a bus stop and there, there was a man who wouldn't stop looking at me and then my bus came and I was like 'oh thank God' coz I was really uncomfortable. I got on the bus and it was packed and then I noticed that the guy also got on the bus as well, and I was just ignoring him, but i watched from the side of my eye from time to time, I could see that he was staring at me. (Felt uncomfortable yet again) then felt happy coz It was time for me to get off. I got off and then guess what he's behind me and then come next to me and says how he likes me and how he got on my bus coz he wanted to talk to me. Then came the 'CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER PLEASE' and i'm a really nice and shy person. so It's really hard for me to say no to people. so i gave it to him, OMG WHAT A MISTAKE!!! He then started calling me and I really didn't want to talk to him and so I would text him saying that i was busy and he can't call me (using my dad's phone) BAD IDEA. Then one night when I just almost fell asleep he called and I didn't answer it and then he left a voicemail. I checked it and to my horror it was a love song (dunno who by) and it went on for four minutes and that just got me really scared. Days went by and he was still calling me, and I didnt pick up and then his next approach was to reach me by calling my dad's phone even though I told him not to when I first texted him. I almost got in trouble but I handled it straight by sayin that i dunno the person, maybe the wrong number. I didn't hear from him until about four weeks ago when he called and I must've picked it up because it was on no number and it was so akward and he wanted to see me and I was like I was busy and then he started asking me when I would be free and I was like I don't know and I left it at that. The next time he called was today on my dad's phone. and when I got back from school my dad was asking me that a man was asking where my school was and he wanted to know where I live. I'm SCARED!!! I've given my number to loads of NAIJA MEN

I'm igbo and I believe that you don't really need to learn their customs unless you're going to live with him in his village maybe there it would be better for you to know. Whereas if you're going to be living in the city with him then you don't have too, and I think that he should love you for you and you shouldn't have to change your ways just coz you feel that it's compulsory. (See great advice froma girl who watches too many nigerian films, especially igbo ones.

Yeah us london girls are cool people, I know I am. But it ain't cool when you've gotta go with your brother to a barbershop somewhere in deptford or in peckham and you've got nigerian perverts staring at you. But yeah were cool people.

Trust me out of all of the nigerian films that I've seen RAMSEY NOAH IS DA SEXIEST!!! I don't really think that Desmond Elliott is good looking and I sure don't like his finger nails either. iM NOT sayin that Ramsey Noah is sexy just because he's mixed raced it's just a matter of fact.