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I've checked all of the satanist daddy freeze posts in
social media and he seems to get dumb when it
comes to kumuyi. No show for him there.

LesbianBoy:
If you have any doubts that Nigeria is a joke, just go and watch the clips of Nairamarley coming out of the court after they granted him bail today. The idiot did the fela signature pose and youths were hailing him. I couldn't believe it. I didn't even know whether to laugh or cry!

Nigeria will NEVER be great. Trust me!

No be lie my brother,
I was shocked today. This country has no hope as it is. I really had high hopes, believing we could get better but no, we don't want to get better.
It is just sick

QueenSekxy:
Why are broke guys always angry whenever a good guy invests on his gf or wife? But these set of guys will always push their sisters to marry a rich man o and wouldn't call it rubbish if their sister's bfs invest on her.

Frustration is really bad and ubiquitous in our country.

Be honest, if your boyfriend did this to you will you be happy. Which kind stupid love be that. Is the lady a fisherwoman or a mermaid that she need an exclusive area of water. Ordinary water. Haba

Haha haha haha haha haha haha haha

All I can do is laugh.

Hahahahahahahahha



Give me $90000, I will be the richest man in in Africa at least.

E too sure me die

Nice

Have you ever heard someone say
"I dont like his attitude, he's just so unfriendly " or "There's is something unwelcoming about her character"

Statements like these have become a common trend in current times when people try to express how difficult it is for them to relate with a person they know, probably A roommate, a relative, a colleague, etc
While this may not be a real issue to you, it becomes a real cause for concern when that person being reffered to is you.

Do people get scared, become moody or go eerily quiet anytime they are around you?

Do your words hurt people or put them down?

Do relatives and friends only get to talk to you because it can't be helped?

Then my friend, you're in the category of what I term an "UNLIVABLE INDIVIDUAL".

You may say I don't care about what people think about me, it's their problem not mine, or you may say it's not my fault that i'm a melachonist.
But friend, you know these decisions doesn't really help anybody. Not you and definitely not the people you're hurting.
No human is created with a special purpose to make an environment toxic with just their presence, it is just not right. And that is what this post is all about. it is to help you achieve self development, a more friendly and a more relatable personality. Overall, it is to help you become better in your actions and reaction around and towards others.

Why there is no real formula that can change you overnight, following this steps will steer you in the right direction.

Here are 5 steps to help you develop a more livable personality




SMILE

People already have the impression that you are not the best of company to be around with. Their only thought about you is how grim, unyielding and strict you always seem to appear.

You can change all of that with a simple smile.

When next you walk into an ongoing conversation with your cliche and you notice the tune die down the moment you joined in, don't just crawl back into your shell and return the hostility. Just smile and exchange greetings with them. Of course they may be like " is this really you" but then, that is the whole point, you are making a transformable change from being totally unrelatable to a more friendly person.

Don't only smile during the greeting, keep the smile all through the conversation. It doesn't have to be comical like a clown. You just have to make sure the smile is fuelled from your heart and your determination to make a change. By the end of the conversation, they will all have a second thought about you being a harsh soul.



SHOW EMPATHY

90% of why are you are so intolerable whether consciously or unconsciously is because you have never really try to understand people from their own point of view.
When you're like that, it is pretty inevitable for you not to say or do things that can easily make people pass you off as arrogant, rude, ignorant or unintelligent.

If you actually try to understand people from their own point of view and see their situations the way they do, they will naturally feel comfortable around you and even desire to bond closely to you. It is human nature.


SEASONED WORDS

My biggest lesson is letting people know what my goals are.

They give you a pat on the back, push you on and you think they love you. Wait until you fail in your attempt to achieve that goal.

They laugh at you, sometimes even openly. And you learn too late that you should have zipped up ur mouth.

either your story is all shades of lies or yours is induced by a spiritual force, I Masturbate 3times daily, sometimes more or till I run out of energy n my limbs are numb, nothing affected my penis and it never even shrink in size, sex life z wif my female partners has always been awesome, they always acknowledge my prowess due to the delay in release which is as a result of masturbation.....10years n I still do not plan on stopping

Lies?

And who talked about shrinking

Calm down.
Call her, because she really wants to call you right now but is only waiting for you to concede first.

Ladies this days are really into this pre wedding thing so let her have hers. Just tell her you were not happy with her behviour. Every body wins



But on second thought, are you sure you really want to spend the REST of your LIFE with a woman that could get mad over little things like pictures. I know you love her now but love is never always enough

Op you seem to have made up ur mind before you ask the question but no prob, I will give you my two cents anyway.

1. Forget about what you read in the internet
2. Masturbation will not cause ED, but first what do you understand by ED. Here comes a true life story.

I met a guy online, 22years of age and he complained about how he had ED thru masturbation. He was a chronic masturbator with an average of 3 self-services per day for 4years. That is over 4300 ejaculations in that space.

The results were damning;
His organ lost its sensitivity and it only became semi hard when he had his sessions. the situation only got worse overtime as his d!ck lost all trace of erection during these sessions. But The funny part was the fact that he could ejaculate still. He was having orgasm with his penis flaccid. He started getting worried then but not too worried.
Then he had to sleep with a girl.
He tried all he could to trigger an erection but his organ wouldn't concede. It was soft, extremely veiny and downward bound. He was embarrassed that day but he concluded it was probably lack of attraction for the girl. He tried his luck with a couple of girls after that but it was the same results. You would think that was bad but there was worse to come.
His penis still craved for his beloved touch. It couldn't come up but it still desired release and release it got (sometimes soft, sometimes half hard).
He couldn't stop himself or his penis. Masturbation had become him and he had become the act. There were special days though, when his member came up in full mast, and it had to be triggered by things like porn(not just any porn now, but real dark fetish. Anything lesser than DAT would only provoke a half mast) but those were really rare occasion.
Did I mention that his obsession with masturbation was nurtured from porn?

After a couple of new tries and failed attemptd with girls, he decided to visit a doctor.
A doctor turned to a couple of doctors then to a lot of doctors then to a lot of therapists and they all told him one thing.

"Young man you're alright, there's nothing wrong with your member. You're probably stressed out and the problem isn't masturbation because it doesn't cause ED "

He became frustrated and scared. Doctors said he didn't have ED but wasn't ED the reason he couldn't get an erection. He began to read stuffs online and they all supported the doctors claims So he gave up. And sank more into his obsession but then he noticed something...

With a girl he had no erection but with fantasies about sleeping with the girl he could trigger a half mast and best of all with high serial porn he could sport a full blown erection.

He decided with high determination to make some life changing decisions

He concluded that masturbation was the problem and he had to stop it but to stop it, he had to stop watching porn and he did (it wasn't easy)

Secondly, he blocked his mind from his usual fantasies (it wasn't easy)

Thirdly, he kept his hand from his penis (the biggest challenge)

A week passed, no erection when he went all erotic with a girl.

2 months passed, sensations started flying back to his member when in erotic mood with a girl

8 months passed and he could sport erection from being erotic with a girl

12 months passed and a raging hard on became possible

He's okay now. I know that because I'm the one.

So I don't know what you think about masturbation or what youve read online but believe me when I tell you that the shit is a nerve killer. I don't know if it has a lasting ED effect but it surely does leads to ED that can last for a very long time (forever even, if you fail to tackle masturbation and good luck trying to win that war)

And one more thing, just imagine if I was married when this whole ness happened to me.

for me Erectile Dysfunction is you not getting an erection when you need it. Masturbation does that a lot.

I'm not sure a lot of women from this side of the world place a lot of emphasis on the word "satisfy". They are more concerned with getting kids from the man and remaining faithful instead and that's y this man can marry so many women and not provide any substantial pleasure but still manage to have all of them as non cheaters. They are concerned about what d world will say and it pains me.

Maybe with a little orientation they would understand that marriage is not just about the man, or the unborn kids but themselves as well.