₦airaland Forum

[color=#9900ff]Gratitude. To the makers.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Me i don talk say i will be cremated and my ashes sent to Pluto [/color]

[color=#9900ff]And if she visits Nigeria so? Lol the only reason. . .i guess people can survive on that rofl
The mind boggles [/color]

justjane2:
Japanese=hardworking and very polite.

[color=#9900ff]That's positive.[/color]

flobajo:
I must admit though that white women on the other hand do have more to offer when it comes to conversation, humour and a broader horizon. Am not trying to take the piss out of black women, but most of them are quite combative , temperamental and just plain irrational, the thing is, I don't really fancy white women (Though I don't see myself as a racist!!), I think black women have been brought up to behave in a certain way and this limits their sense of adventure,

am sorry most Nigerian girls just don't make the grade, they are just superficial and don't have the slightest clue about anything or than the next owambe party, or the latest fashion going on. its only in Nigeria you find a girl of 30 who is not married thinking she is past her sell buy date, must everything revolve around u being subservient to men, it is this mentally that greatly limits their overall perspective on things and makes them lesser people, I expect a backlash from most of the women on this forum but am sure the guys do agree with me!!!!

[color=#9900ff]Chaii.
Yes we were brought up a certain way, but that doesn't mean our sense of adventure is limited.  It plays down to what your sense of adventure is all about.  Yours maybe more in sync with a white woman if you had those interests that aren't a usual part of our society.  Haba, we aren't lesser people just people with different beliefs, upbringings and interests.  [/color]

Faher:
I take the words in bold back. I stated them in the heat of argument.
Btw, I totally agree with your post but are you by any chance white?

[color=#9900ff]No i'm not. I'm Nigerian born and bred _{though some will greatly disagree}
I just like to look at the different angles [/color]

Faher:
Your analysis is good. But then, I guess everyone has his/her point of view (I live abroad, so I'm stating what affects my immediate environment).

Like I said earlier, it's the general media portrayal (and subsequent adoption of this belief by most people around the world) that's wrong. That's why you see a large percentage of black celebrities marrying white women, 'cos that's what seems ideal to them.

I'm not saying everyone should stick to their kind, but at least respect all races equally.

P.S: I guess the whole 'White Women' bullshit has gotten to me and I've generalized too much. For that, I'm wrong. It's just that I've dated both black and white women, and I can't see the reason for the hype. Hence my reason for 'hating'.

[color=#9900ff]If you live in a predominately white society. . .it stands to reason that white women would be the ideal type portrayed by the media.  I wouldn't say it's solely the media's portrayal that has led black male celeb to marry white women.  A lot of factors come into play - The powerful black woman hype, the black women are high maintenance hype, the white woman is submissive hype, the beauty of the biracial child hype etc etc.  Racism is still a big part of our world no matter how much people claim it's not there.  It's usually more evident when a white man does it as opposed to when a black man does it.  Thus races cannot be respected equally.  After all for you the white women are the worse and the black women are the best. . .effectively downplaying one to the rise of the other.  No equality.

But like you said to each his own.  A few white women or black women does not constitute a whole race.  Neither do white speak for all Italians, Russians, English, Swede etc nor do black speak for all Nigerians, Haitians, Jamaicans, Rwandans etc.  Just saying.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]What media depicted white women as ideal especially to a nation or continent of black people?
White women are the worst to cope with.  Generalization.
Black women are the best.  Generalization.

Black, white. . .women. . .a collection of individuals judged by their whiteness or blackness with disregard to culture, society, education, family upbringing, inter-connectivity with the global world. [/color]

Faher:
Black women are the best.

Faher:
White women as the ideal, they're actually the worst to cope with. And there's nothing ideal about them

Faher:
Nah, I ain't no racist.

[color=#9900ff]Indeed[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Confused!. . .a usual state for people [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Mum ~ Use your common sense! Thank goodness for that. Had to work on mine at a very very young age
Dada ~ People are not to be trusted Even family members can stab you in the back Rightty sirreee [/color]

Dr Ferlie:
This is the book I am currently reading. I have learnt about Ego-its content and structure, how to identify when Ego is at work and how to handle it. It has drawn my attention to AWARENESS especially in the ever busy mind activity.

[color=#9900ff] [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I have an assortment. . .from the supermarket
My mom even gave me one that helps with sleeping but i can't drink it. It has cinnamon [/color]

[color=#9900ff]If women don't toast him then something is wrong
My own doesn't worry about guys toasting me. No be me? Before i give person time of the day. . .you should have already made an oscar winning film [/color]

arkinses:
Scorsese and Leo! Leo and Scorsese! I swear, I felt wasted. You've got to admit though, at some point you thought Ben Kingsley's role was guilty of the accusations, neh? It didnt happen! Even to an insignificant proportion.
Have you seen Iron Man though? I have a shitload of reports to submit but I've got it on hold and I must be sure its worth the wait.

[color=#9900ff]Lol yeah. But i knew he wasn't guilty because they kept emphasizing on the possibility of Kingsley being guilty. Misdirection.
Nah, will catch up with it this weekend. I've had alot to do too.

Did you see Cloverfield?[/color]

[color=#9900ff]lol in a moment of clarity he found some lunacy
It didn't play like a typical Scorsese movie anyway [/color]

[color=#9900ff]lol @ Pac man. Yea you know
Yup you suck it up and keep fighting. Congrats[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Speaking of jj. . .anyone seen Iron Man 2? I'm gonna go see it this weekend but i heard jj did the same thing he did with cloverfield when Transformers first came out. There is a trailer? preview? whatever before Iron man starts. . .not sure if it's cloverfield 2 or another film entirely.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Chop some for me jare. . .i dey hungry too [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Nor mind me jare.  Just see 4 of them go buy them.  Na one for everyday na

How's you loff? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]lol it wasn't that bad na.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]You can't avoid it unless, both of you are on the same page. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]If you smell something fishy. . .clean it up. Don't let it slide. If it slides once chances are, your partner will have the balls to do it again. Show that you are caring but you will not stand for shit. People are evil If you want to be knifed, show them your back [/color]

Faher:
Dude, you're not alone. As for me, I hate white women the most. I still don't have a good reason why (P.S: I'm more straight than my ruler)

[color=#9900ff]Racist perhaps?


@Topic. . .i agree with Crude oil. [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I really don't care if you're an uncle. . .if you talk anyhow. . .i will shut you down [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Yes women like to beef other women. I've been on the receiving end of their insane nonsensical antics Like everyone cares about their rubbish

The guy wasn't that into you. Or he just wanted something else you weren't prepared to give him[/color]

[color=#9900ff]What are you blithering on about? Who da hell is zulezoo or shaka zulu? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]All i can see is 'but' 'but' 'but' [/color]

[color=#9900ff]lol. . . [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Hmmm sad.
Though i must say i'm shitty with recognizing people only because a person has to make an impression for them to even register in my mind. Otherwise i'll just pass you like i've never seen you. But i would think the bond between a mother and child should provide some safety net It would be harder if she had identical twins and couldn't tell one from the other.[/color]

maedan:
Anna Sui - Flight of Fancy. Cute peacock-topped bottle too.

[color=#9900ff]Nice smell.


@Topic. . .currently using 4 escada set. . .moon sparkle, tropical island, Ocean lounge, and Rocking rio [/color]