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oldmatebob:
okay well she had a couple of best friends that are males
i came along
i wasnt comfortable
i approached her
she listened and appreciated what i had to say
said she would try,
i havent seen too much to convince me to lose the jealous-ness-ness-ness etc etc
i was best friends with my ex but it was natural for me to distant myself from her so that the gf would have solid trust in me. i feel as if she should be able to do this with her guy mates considering she used to be crazy about one of them who is only friends with her cause he thinks that he can get her to cheat on me with himself. whenever he is mentioned, its often degrading this fella yet i dont understand why she bothers with him then especially when he says something to her that any decent person knows that you just dont say that to a woman.

i speak to her about it often cause im all about truth and honesty,  yet i get the same story. its a serious relationship.


is my insecurity something i just need to learn to adapt or is she in the'wrong' (feel free to use that term on whatever degree of strength you feel)

should she lessen her relationships with these guys?
would it be wise to break up?
stay together and work on it more?
bust a cap in her ass?
is she doing nothing wrong and i need to adapt?

im aware that there may be a lack of info, so let me know if more info is needed to make a fair judgement/opinion

have a good one.

biola44:
a nagging person sounds like a broken record.

biina:
I dont mind her being stubborn, as long as she is not stupid.

eyonigger:
wetin come be this one now? being moderate and friendly is not enough for u? Anyway I hope u heard what brashy said about u?

If Muki haven't told u yet, then that means they both have something going on.

eyonigger:
Nuffin, just performing my civil duty as a freelance NL investigator. No fees or love me back intended.

watever:
i get randomly excited everytime i remember its less than 2 weeks away.

the trailers look amazing!! for one, there's a lot more eric 

@ topic: supernatural. though season 1 isn't that great. hope it gets better

kevoh:
@watever
Supernatural really gets better I've watched till the last episode of season 4 (Lucifer rising)! Can't wait for season 5!

mohawkchic:
~The humour i get out of looking at those shoulder pads,especially on VB's tiny frame . . . .it's like she about to take off w/ special propellers on her shoulders!

~Cassie's haircut is kwel. . .

~The Maxi Grecian are a fav. in my wardrobe . .love em!

~Here's a trend you've been rocking . . Bright Nails!! - As soon as i saw it,i thought of You! Loving the Green On Keri's Toes!

JeSoul:
lol . . . I dunno about "cool". I woulda chosen a different word like say . . . scary? 

spikedcylinder:
. . . . . Weirdo!

JeSoul:
Are you denying your predilection for the most diabolical of movie characters?  I have told you before now that you scare me . . .

JeSoul:
Lol . . . you should see iice's choice of favorite heroes and villians     

mukina2:
ohh and it did bit em really bad

this freezer sef .how many hands hin wan bang on?


sure loff you do no one like you

mukina2:



But where should i start from? double fake fine?

dani1luv:
Thats better

You think i'm joking rite. .

Oya i log you off from nairaland. .

Pack your baggage’s and posts out now