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Idorables:
Can a person love somebody and not want to marry them? You can love a girl but may not want to marry her. Does this mean that i don"t love her deeply enough?

[color=#9900ff]Yes you can love someone but not want to marry. It depends on what you as a couple finally decide. Almost everything is based on decisions. [/color]

angelgirl1:
or make you feel empty inside. What I mean by casual dating is jumping from one girls bed to the next without being in a serious relationship, maybe even one night stands. Don't you just feel empty inside after a while, not having any emotional connection? When the only thing between two human beings is pleasure. There is no substance. You wake up and you are in bed with someone you feel nothing for. Do you leave before they wake because there's an emptiness that surrounds that bed. Do you ever feel disgusted with yourself.

I ask because it seems like most men are doing it these days. Not all men but most. It seems like they are trying to impress their friends by being able to brag about how many girls they have had. Well I for one would not be impressed. lol

Does it feel empty?

[color=#9900ff]One night stands or 2 days marathon are not relationships.  
Pleasure is a feeling.  .  .people don't need to be emotionally connected to feel it.  .  .be it man or woman.
Yes some men like to brag.  .  .
And as luxoire said, some men are not that emotionally deep so they wont be feeling empty.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]I tire ooo

Master deceive hinsef say na hin be master

Come to think of it. . .there is a pattern, thief dey deceive thief, criminal dey try outdo criminal. . .

Werrin go be the next one?

Ahhh i was such a lovely young bride

Go find termites. . .i fit cook that one for you [/color]

luxoire:
why do ppl UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF DIALOGUE AND THE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE - straight up ask the guy the details of the person named 'sweet heart'' on his phone - any guy who thinks he is dating a girl he is proud of and wants to settle with, will give you her details with so much pride - esp as u don dey pally am - he will tell you how they met, when, where, ho long its been going on, when he proposed (if it has gtten that far) - ALL YOU GOT TO DO IS ASK! dont be a chicken - you are in a good position because you have all the cards both of them have none

and if you ask the lady sh ewill deny it obviosuly - be wise and use this to your advantage

[color=#9900ff]Exactly.[/color]

[color=#9900ff]Conga, wanga, fanga. . .remixed

I tell you say i no get power na

Jolosy from all angles ooo

Make i find Johnny and I's wedding pics make pesin die [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Sorry loff. . .you know this body no get energy

if only i was in plegoria, i would have transferred into another body

Where ika make she come make some concoctions

That jam suppose sell small [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Ahhhh thanks loff

Loved your track

I no get energy cook. . .we need to hire a cook for these kind of days [/color]

[color=#9900ff]If you keep repeating it, you may eventually get to be that strong of a person
Like i said pele Enjoy your addiction

Good day to you too[/color]

biola44:
but bad guys have d best eyes!

[color=#9900ff]No so true
Keep on trucking. . .you may get lucky[/color]

epi:
schzo because you can't twist and turn me, b/c I am not intimidated by you, b/c i don't suck up, b/c I speak ma mind, b/c I don't feed from the wants and needs of Narailand like a loveless person. . .err like you?. . . .   tell me

[color=#9900ff] Who said anything about you being schizo?
This where reading comes in
Suck up.  .  .keep telling yourself that
Wow, never knew NL had wants and needs.  .  .now maybe schizo is definitely in the talks for a place to have wants and needs bwahahahaha

Why? Are you jealous of my loveless person?  Don't be jealous .  .  .Not everyone is that strong to be that kind of person [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Zozo radio

Twi twi by mukina [/color]

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Well good thing, zozo is far off neptune

Zozoans stay true to themselves

Wait make i find page [/color]

biola44:
owcome they're all taken?

[color=#9900ff]Good girls don't get left behind by men who have eyes [/color]

Bolarge:
Spoken like the iice I've always known.
Never mind those parasites that pose as girlfriends.

[color=#9900ff]You sef, just MIA [/color]

Feelitx:
@iice

Well said. Women think that as soon as you both are dating,they can have access to your cheque book. We want to support our women financially without giving the impression that its their birthright.

The annoying part is that some women will finish their monthly allowance and  still come back crying without thinking that we would not be in a position to provide money without tight budgetary controls and financial discipline.

[color=#9900ff]They take advantage of the situation. Get out of control and it ends up being that the man has a duty to provide everything.[/color]

epi:
you think?

also, we have something in common b/c I love giving advice too.  Here is one i give
Out of damp and gloomy days, out of solitude, out of loveless words directed at us, conclusions grow up in us like fungus: one morning they are there, we know not how, and they gaze upon us, morose and gray. Woe to the thinker who is not the gardener but only the soil of the plants that grow in him.”

[color=#9900ff]But the damp and gloomy days rock!
Much better than fake cheeriness and hypocritical lovey dovey

Thank zozo for gardener that i am. . .atleast schizo's don't turn my head [/color]

titsandbra:
l met this guy and we have been going out for a month now. up until sarturday he made no sexual advances to me but on saturday he took me home for the first time and we made love. l am afraid that making love to him will change the way he feels about me, so l started beign a little sarcastic pretendung that l didnt care about him. l am afraid that if l show him that l care that he may yake me for granted.
this guy knows how to cover his affections but l cant be sure that he has any affections for me.
l want to be close to him without making it obvious that l am going crazy about him, please tell me how l can make him notice me with his heart.

[color=#9900ff]You are being sarcastic and pretending not to care about him. Isn't that the opposite of what you want to achieve? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]You wan make i giff you again?

Madness done start ooo [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Eyah, sorry but you didn't think they would be single? They have guys [/color]

mukina2:



see craseness

I have met plenty via IM,PM, FB, some even claimed they have saw  /met me

I almost met Ibime but he was high on pawpaw leaves

[color=#9900ff]You wan try Jolosy no go kill pesin.  .  .schizonized by the schizos
I don tell you before say you try [/color]

epi:
^
!
!
A loveless person who feeds from the wants and needs of Nairaland 

now seriously, what's wrong with me meeting members from nairaland?   

[color=#9900ff]Pele, didn't know you were that sad

My advice to people. . .thread carefully else they will turn into lunatics if you spurn their friendship [/color]

[quote author=baby-mi link=topic=276516.msg3925225#msg3925225 date=1243336712]iice, are sure u re ok?[/quote][color=#9900ff]Mentally sound than most women [/color]

biola44:
wow, gal r u 4 real? i've never seen any girl dat doesnt demanded, one still did yesterday, 

[color=#9900ff]Then you've been around the majority
There are few of us who don't need salaries from the job of being girlfriend rofl.  [/color]

my gift:
thank u bblacky, for ur reply I'm working but u knw as a lady it's his duty to do it at least is gettng too much u ladies shd think about dis.

[color=#9900ff]It is not his duty. You are not his wife.
You work so use your own money. . .really i have never understood why men give their girlfriends money like salary [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Of course she expected you to welcome her back like that. . .before nko? [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Breathtakingly emotionally detached [/color]

Nikky23:
I had a misunderstanding with the love of my life and we broke up for over a month now, until recently I sent him an email message, about me missing him and all and some pictures of me which I'm regretting I shouldn't have but it's done. I'm now thinking the pictures I did send compared to how I look in person were not so great or the best. I'm now feeling that these may drive him away further from me maybe when he looks at the pictures or something. The pictures are ok but not the best, we know sometimes we are not so photogenic compared to how we look in person. Is it possible these may drive him away further? I'm just thinking.

Nikky23:
I know the question sounds silly but I dont now why im thinking this way. Oh yes, we were in a relationship for over 2years, Maybe im lacking confidence or low self esteem now since the break up, i would have wanted something so so so great to let him know im doing well and looking much more better but i feel the pics were ok, normal but i look much better in person.

[color=#9900ff]Are you missing him or not?  You said you sent him an email missing him, so your not so 'best' pics should reflect how much you miss him.  After 2 years of dating, i would think he knows what you look like whether 'best'/ 'ok' or 'not best'
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mukina2:
My loff


The thing sef tire me . . i dey sign in the thing dye sign me out again. na Yahoo na the best

[color=#9900ff]You nor use the last thing i show you? E no go log you out.

Mon twinnies [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Forgetful
I forget people, forget names, face nevermind numbers.  .  .but i never forget movies [/color]

mukina2:
My laydee
no worries it will all turn out nice, cant wait to see the beautiful pics . .

May God bless it

[color=#9900ff]Thanks loff
I manage for my hair na I thought it would be standing all over the place
You can now call me iice johnny


Need to buy those cushions for my soles.  .  .heels can be

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ikamefa:
yes ke! dem plenty sef! especially during my irish cream induced stupors 

epi:
I met 6.  I still speak to 5 except for the one who was supposed 2 b a girl but turned out 2 b a guy

[color=#9900ff] " " Schizos abound [/color]

[color=#9900ff] M dey disturb me [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Ahahahahahaha

Thankfully dem nefa even contemplate buy me pink anything. . .S sef nor dey wear pink

Na my mama Gawd the woman just dey buy me pink this pink that. . .i throw all of them to back of wardrobe [/color]

[color=#9900ff] [/color]

[color=#9900ff]I don manage wear pink na. . .but it's rare and only if i can't find something to wear

Aswerigawd, just looking at those shoes dey giff me headache, the color is beyond ewww esp. that last one [/color]

[color=#9900ff]Moved to Dating zone[/color]