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I have all these qualities and more but fortunately for me (and unfortunately for you)I am already with a man:

Who is in a reltionship with me
Who makes me laugh and keeps me happy
Who is employed
Who can cook and clean
Who can deliver, as a real man, in the bedroom anytime I want
Who already has a tattoo of my name on his body
Who is faithful
Who prays, even Pastor is jealous
Who is fit and can fight for me in any situation, and is well endowed!

You cannot even boast of one thing here. Go and marry your level! Mtcheeewww!

If you had invested the time it took you right this crap in ur relationship, your gf wouldn't have dumped your a$$.

LMFAO!!
You have a serious problem!

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]***Yawns***
Ok. Noted. . . Any further idiotic observation? Dyslexic Mor[i]o[/i]n?[/color][/quote]Ur still here Killz!!! O ya go to bed!

Killz, why the sudden exit?

Chimezie198: ijeybabe. If it were u, i wont bother giving u a second chance. Eh i swaaar!
I'll kick ur bony a$$ outta my window with ma rain boot.

You only wish it was bony so that you can get over me. I understand,carry on!!

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]Even Jesus knows you are a dumbass. . . Read this nonsense again slowly, and see if it makes any sense to you! [/color][/quote]LWKMD!!!

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]I know baby. . . I know. [/color][/quote]LWTMBH!!

I know this thread is kinda old but couldn't help commenting as it touched me. I think many of us have been in this situation and I feel it is always good to meet the person in question. It doesn't matter what name or definition you choose to give to ur feelings but you owe it to yourself to put ur mind at ease. If you find urself no longer attracted to the person after the meeting then good for you. If you find out that this person is all ever wanted in a partner then you have to work out a way to handle the situation. You said he is in love with someone else, thats a bummer but you still owe it to urself to meet up. Limit ur meetings afterwards and restrict the conversation to phone calls as much as possible. Even better go out in groups so ur staring dreamily into his eyes
Hopefully you'll learn to forget him (or he might break up with his girlfriend for you )

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]You?
[/color][/quote]That will remain a mystery
Where is ayosmiles?!

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]You make me wanna kiss you. . . [/color][/quote]LOL! Only a cheeks someone is getting jealous

^^ Don't bother giving him any advice. He is giving her 198 chances after that she's on her own!

The fact is culture plays an important role in upbringing. For Igbos men pay a large chunk of the money for a wedding. Nigerians who live outside have adopted the western culture and don't bother with tradition/norms and instead do what works for them. I can imagine the kind of gossip the op will be subject to even from her own family, that is if they are in Nigeria. Personally I don't see the problem with her helping out but I also understand why she's doubtful about this.

d@Op in your case I would suggest you help out as much as you can. All the money being spent is not a waste but an investment for your future together. Don't worry about what people will say, you and your husband-to-be is what matters here. Like others have mentioned review your expense sheet and start amending. Good luck!

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]This is some granulated Bullshit![/color][/quote]Thank you Killz! Op must have been bored, mtcheewww!

Just can't stop laughing!
Tandon200! Just pretend ur someone else (maybe ur idol, no wait that might be worse, think Will Smith) then go talk to her or suffer in silence.

Idowuogbo: My oyoyo, body dey inside duvet o!

Make you put ur hands wer we go see am

Idowuogbo: U got urself a big baby, u best buy it a pacifier.

Rubbbbishhh!

Kokolet, how body?

luxanne: yes, and that is what i don't understand because he knows about how it ended.

Be honest about how his behaviour is affecting ur relationship. Its then up to him to change or you move on with your life. Relationships are not just about love but trust and compromise as well