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Afamed:
Run for your life. Anytime a babe addresses her lover Dearie or Dearest, rest assure there is a bill awaiting you.

Hahaha this very one no dey quote bill oo but that dearie or dearest she dey always use on me dey make me think I'm in the FZ

Kobicove:
What would you like her to call you?

.. Think am nau, that dearie or dearest she dey use on me pure? If na you, you go happy?

mrcrabs:
Na d downfall of many men so e super wella

.. Hahahah seriously??

[quote author=mrcrabs post=65328311]Na d downfall of many men so e super wella [/quote.. Hahaha seriously?

Gebbson007:
the answer is his moniker

.. Some people no dey sleep for nairaland oo

PrincessNazor:
lol do you want her to call you babyyyy

@Nazor, I wan follow you reason something abeg, I go DM you

mrcrabs:
OP dis ur name though ikebesupa. I just dey Laff since don't know why

.. Hahaha broh why my moniker dey make you laff na abi ikebe no Supa before?

PrincessNazor:
lol do you want her to call you babyyyy

... Exactly!!! Lol.. Cos wetin dey hungry pregnant women dey hungry the person wey give am belle lol. If I dey call am sweet, baby why she go dey call me dearie lol

christ007:
or maybe she should cal you honey or sweetheart

.. I have no problem with that loool

christ007:
okay do you want her to call you then

.. Are you telling me or asking me?

christ007:
I swear op you need sense well well Lol

... Hahaha @christ007, but this is actually what is happening to me nau

izaray:
Op, how do you want her to be calling you Baby, swthrt, mylove, daddy, honey e.t.c Communicate to her on how you want to be called now, is that too difficult

... I dey call her almost all those names you mentioned but for her to reciprocate na wahala

Maxi112:
Have you tried talking to her about it?

.. I have been calling her sweet, sweetheart thinking that she will start calling me that as well but nothing nothing from her

barthy21:
Your own better Guy... Me that she is calling me with my full name nkooo, how I go do??

... I don dey reason this dearie things from her bro, I no just understand biko

mistel:
dearie or dearest is good bro, take it. welcome to bunking life.

.. bunking life you say? I'm not sure I got the meaning please put me thru

[quote author=labanj1 post=65278330]Well, if she has been calling you that all along and there's no change in her attitude, I don't see any problem. But if it still bothers you, then tell her in a playful manner so it doesn't sound awkward.[/quote.. Thanks labanj1

Nedfed:
Op type amen sharperly

.. Hahaha my brother... Amen ooo

labanj1:
You said supposed girlfriend. What do you mean?

..she is my girlfriend

labanj1:
So, what do you want us to do? Dear Ikebesupa.

.. Labanj bro, your bruv just needed to know if I'm in that dangerous zone... You know the friend zone things

eezeribe:
OK

.. Chai just "ok".. E no good oo

My supposed girl friend always call me "dearie" or "dearest". I have seen other people calling themselves something much better than that but my own case is different. I have been thinking it's not right for her to be using those lines on me... I just don't get it

TheSuperNerd:
Bia OP, I understand you have good intentions for her and for your future together but I want you to understand that she may not be able to take on the extra load of doing some business alongside her studies for reasons such as wanting to maintain high grades in class which requires not having much divided attention.

I want you to step in for her whenever you can since she is not even the demanding type. Just do what you can for her and don't always wait for her to ask you... Sometimes, just surprise her. It helps show her that you really value her and wants her to soar in her studies.
This is a lady who doesn't burden you muvh with her financial challenges and she is your girl friend. So step in and dobwhat you can. And depending on the mood of your convo later, you can stylishly and softly discuss better options and arrangements that can be made for her to support herself for her schooling to complement what you give her and what her parents give her. It can be a plan that works for her best during holidays... Who knows? That way she can save up and use it for school.

Anyway, just be sweet to her as always and don't tujr this into a major issue because it doesn't have to escalate to the point of you asking if she is the stubborn type. Let me tell you something Sir.... There must be a hint or drop of beautiful stubbornness in a real lady. If she doesnt have that, then you just got yourself a yes-woman for a wife. So be cool with her and follow her with wisdom and understanding. See things from her side in Cobo with yours. That way, you both will surely work something out for her good.

And enough of the reference to her course being Business management. Looolll... It changes nothing. After all, she is there to learn and haven't graduated just yet.

Have a lovely day.



P.S: Your moniker sounds familiar. When I was little I recall coming across an "Ikebe Super cartoon" either in mags or other reading media. Funny recall.

.. I really appreciate the type you gave out to write this. I just spoke with her and assure her that I will figure out something no matter how small. She's not really the asking type

Chikita66:
She is not business-oriented, don't force her to do what she don't like, I once dated this guy that suggested I do business while in school but I refused vehemently cos I need to concentrate in my studies, there is time for everything.

.. Thank you for your advice. I will really try my best

Please oo viewers, say something.. How can I type all these without getting a reasonable feedback. E no good ooo

QueenSuccubus:



Aha..Ur idea is good but maybe she is shy to sell them to other students...

Not everyone is into business, u know..But if she was asking small amount, juz give her sha...

.. Her course is business management. How do I explain that to my ancestors

gabinogem:
Not everyone is good in business/trade... Since she's already told u she can't; u don't have to push it...help her if u can.

.. And her course is business management

Hello Everyone reading this.. Greetings to you all, Please I need some advice about this very issue in my relationship. I met this girl in 2016, she's a nice person and I love her. The thing is that I'm a trader while she's still in school. I'm an average guy and still trying to build up my business, my girl's family are not buoyant but they are trying at least they are training her in school with the help of other relatives as well. Now, I have some responsibilities to look after including my mom and other family things so I feel I'm having a lot in my plate already. I Love her and have plans for her about the future. She's understanding and doesn't demand or ask for money but she does once in a blue moon in spite of her family situation as well. In December 2017, I discussed with her over the phone about what I feel it's right. I totally understand that students needs money to sustain themselves in school so I called her on phone telling her to please look for what other students can buy while I get the things and send to her and she sell to them. I suggest this so that some little cash will always be in her pocket. The response I get is that she will think about it and later to me that she will start doing it when students get back very well this January. I waited the whole of January but no response from her so I called last week and she told me that & I quote "she don't think that she can do it because of her schedule in school. Her studies and all that". The thing just weak me. Truly, she is brilliant in class and put much effort and she's been getting distinctions in her results. She has told me before that her financial needs is not my responsibility as I'm her boyfriend. Just this morning, she text me telling me that she needs help to the extent she doesn't have a dime on her. I wanted to reply her back concerning what I had suggested to her about selling some things to students in school but I just decided to ask here first. Please note that I usually give her money most times she does mention about food and little things, I just needed her to be doing something in school and be getting small small profit while I support her when the needs be but she vehemently kicks against that. Please what should I do?

Ikebesupa:
First time STC. Hahaha, I know I'm getting there

.. Na WA oo to some people up there.. Una just spoil my thing now

First time STC. Hahaha, I know I'm getting there

Marine husband things.. You need deliverance and separation, until then you will think very differently about marriage. I'm sorry to say this to you OP, you didn't sound normal at all.

Tiwa hands are very dark but her face is..... Hmmmm

Towards hands very dark while her face is..... Hmmmm