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Odogwu did not handle the situation in a mature way. He thought because he's a big shot content creator he can get away with everything.

From the looks of things, favour have been going through depression and anxiety and the incident between she and odogwu was the tipping point that made her suicidal.

There re times when you will not let your ego to take control. That way you can take control of a situation.
I'm definitely sure he will be wishing the wheel of time can be rewind.

The first mistake he did was not giving favour the money they negotiated/promised.
Even if you don't have up to that amount he should have given her substantial amount for her to buy drugs,food ,tf and still have some she can use for other things. While you let her know you will still send the rest in a future day.

You no send her the money you come still dey talk trash to her because you feel say hand no go touch you when you don they give those checking points policemen some some change.

E pain me say favour just kpia herself because I trust warri girls,when you offend them and they naked swear for you na your head you go take dey walker

Kingjamesbets:
The money is supposed to have reached you the exact moment you won the jack pot
If it's on virtual games so don't play request for your money asap

Oga, except the owner of the betting can pay him with his personal cash instantly, apart from that it can take some hrs for such an amount to be paid by the shop owner.
Yes, the winning has reflected on the bet shop owner system instantly but he still has to make withdrawal to the betting company and it depends how fast the company will credit the owner the money to his account. At most in less than 24hrs. So he should exercise patient.

Kemical23:
pls I want to know something from you, I won 300k jackpot in bet shop and the man saying he haven't seen alert yet, how long does it take for me collect my money, if you any idea pls put me through

Actually,it could take sometime between an 1hr- 6hrs for the betting company to credit his account when he makes a withdrawal. But, if the owner of the betting shop can use is own personal cash and pay you so that will encourage customers to be coming to his shop because what customers love most is availability of instant cash when they win not telling them to come back.
That's how I do in my shops, I pay my punters immediately they present a winning even though if the betting company has not credit my bank account when I make the withdrawal I know they will definitely credit my account.

Just exercise a little patient and give him 24hrs he will surely pay you otherwise he has used your money for his personal use then you can involve the authority

I just want to know:

Are this MVNO solely going to sell sim just for data usage.

If so, what happens to the big network providers,will they stop selling their data to customers since this MVNO will be buying from them.

Even though the MVNO will want to sell a bit at a cheaper price won't it result in data stealing from this MVNO when I purchase their data so that they can make profit.

Take for instance, MTN is selling 1g for N500 to me, I no even know if e dey reach the 1g sef.
MVNO buys at N450 from MTN because they are buying in bulk, then will want to sell to me at N470.how am I sure that am actually buying 1g for that amount not 800mb.

this is why the divorce rate is high cause the woman benefit more when divorce than in the marriage.
this is the reason why most men go for prenuptial agree so that the wife will not come and collect all what the man has labour for before the marriage.

E get some ex wey you just can't get out of your memory or stop being with them once a while. They can be good listener, fun to be with, good in cooking, taking care of you just, good at sex,to mention a few.

We know say Annie get her own demons but when it comes to 2baba, she knows her to control it.
But, Natasha own demon na pro max and she dey unleash towards 2baba wotowoto like fatality for mortal Kombat. Baba, was just looking for a shoulder to rest him head after the breakup with Annie and Natasha come bring her padded shoulder for 2baba and baba forgot to touch the padded shoulder well cause underneath na nail, broken bottle and razor dey dia🤣🤣

Goo0dHardDick:
I have created trends on this several times but the mods keeps deleting them off.

The answer is this, she kpai herself because she is already used to men giving her 50k and above!

Have the video been actually authenticated that was her exact words not a deepfake video. Maybe the girl was actually depressed for other reasons and those may not be her actual words in the video but someone manipulated it to make it look like she said those words since he was the last person she spoke with and knowing that he's loaded and the family or his enemy wants to cash in, just said.

Even if him send 30k give the girl and told her he will balance up later She for no reason him matter.
But my question be say why she come kpia herself cause of N50k e no make sense atall

Which one is resumption 27th of April

There's really more to this story than meet the eyes.

Why would she leave her base and go and meet a man in a hotel room.

She was hoping that he would give her more or close to the money the Abuja man promised her for her virginity.

Baba,don use drink eye and dim lights thinking say na babe him dey talk to 🤣🤣🤣

The fault is from the bike man since he never told you of the hike in price knowing full well that the normal rate for plying such distance is known be most passengers. So, any increase in price should be communicated to any passengers boarding is bike

Have been in so many relationships and the men are always the ones putting so much effort just to make it work but at the end becomes the losers.
My own advice is that take every relationship as a gamble, never go out of your way trying to satisfy someone that is entitled, selfish, self centered. Both of you should build the relationship not just you alone.

Truth is that burial of love one in eastern part of Nigeria is expensive and I keep wondering how will people that are not financially capable cope.

We buried my late mom in 2024,and the demands that each village groups and even the church,CWO were demanding was atrocious. All this demands runs into millions of naira and this is apart from the foods and drinks you will serve them on that day and when the ceremony ends the money these groups will contribute to your family is peanut.

Thank God, we gave them what they want and everyone of them ate and drank to their fill without no complain.

All and all, anyone who wants to bury their love should do so according to their means not imposing so much demands all in the name of tradition.

This is the kind of mistakes you don't do when you're a POS operator. You don't hand out cash before confirming that a transaction is successful and has reflected on your balance.
I sympathize with you cause the way it is now there's nothing you can do except if you can locate the customer and tell him about the declined transaction and recover your money from him.

I remember this era when mineral was increased to N70 from N50, I even via that I will not take it again cause have been trying to stop taking minerals. Gone are those days😃😃

IMF and world bank,deceived you to remove fuel subsidy, devalue the naira so that your citizens will be impoverished so your government will have enough money to embezzle,you were happy believing you and your political thieves are set for life but you forget that whenever the devil gives you something he takes more in return.

Now IMF is holding you by the jugular because they have render the naira worthless and knows you will keep running back to them for loan.

You have taxed everything taxable that the only thing for Nigeria citizens is the air we are breathing, just hope you no go tax that one too. Nonsense government

I'm so ashamed and pained whenever I hear that terrorist/bandits kills a whole lieutenant,brigadier general, lieutenant general and this same terrorist and bandits will be given amnesty by some governors because they turned a new leave, what a shame.
In a more civilized country, they will hunt and kill every single one of them.
Now that they have killed general rabe and released his wife, that's the end of it. What a country.

Close to a month now they have not been able to locate the whereabouts of the kidnapped oyo school children and their teachers and I keep wondering with the advance in technology and trillion of naira budget for the military, you can't locate people that were kidnapped and taken into oyo forest, what a shame.

Every day, no good news comes out of Nigeria media anymore. It's either terrorist are killing Nigeria military, bandits are kidnapping people/school children or politicians are embezzling billions of naira everyday, what a country.

Our leaders have sold this great country to terrorist and bandits, even the religious leaders, many influential leaders that are supposed to speak up about this insecurity in Nigeria are all mute,what a shame.

May God guide and protect us whole.

This is so disheartening that in this time and age fulani herdmen will just being grazing their cattle in somebody's farmland destroying their crops and farm product.

Oga, fulani herdmen, go to sambisa forest and graze your cattle there, you have lots of forage to feed them for as long as you want. Leave people farmland and stop destroying farm produce.

Next time they come gather the youths of your area and chase them away from your village entirely or even seize few of their cattle and report to the police, so that they will pay for the destruction of the farmland

I remember when I went to a particular market to purchase electronics, I pretend not to understand the seller's dialect while he was talking with his follow seller on inflating the price because I look like a rich person.when I suddenly spoke their language both of them were shock and I told both of them I heard all what they said about giving me a higher price, I just walked away and went to another shop and bought my electronics at a more reasonable price.

It's a good development, just hope some scrupulous big men and politicians will not be using them to intermediate and oppresse the people

eepeepook:
Learning road signs no be mind. Go to a driving school. Thank God companies force drivers to attend proper driving schools first before getting employed.

I'm not saying going to driving school is not good , but as for me I never went to driving school when I began driving my car and you can't tell me that the millions of people that are driving all went to driving school. As for the road signs, I leant many of them online and have not had any issues with my driving skills neither bashed my car except when it got scratch by a danfo driver due to his reckless driving. All in all, driving school is important for learning the fundamentals of driving, but you will need courage and confident when driving for 10hrs continous on a 2 lane road with trailers coming from the other lane at 120km/hr

Una sef get time to be sending money and buying data for a girl you just met or still in talking stage with. Una go spend half of your salary just for a girl to come to your place and still una no go see her pant talk less to knack her. Any girl that ask me for money when am still in talking stage with is gone, even the ones am knacking don't wear ask me for chop money, data of her phone needs replacement, my mama/papa dey hospital cause I always tell them that sabi before you meet me you dey do all those things by yourself. I no dey carry my personal problem come to you so no carry you own come to me, when I don marry u we go dey share our personal problem with each other. Wen you people begin dey follow hungry girls you go think say mature working/business girls wey dey take care of themselves no dey them no go ask you 1 naira and una relationship go dey

Even here that we have cluster houses we're still feeling the heavy winds. Such risk not something one should take lightly, no matter how long the wind will subside and the rain will stop but life has no delicate.

I never went to a driving school I used my car to learn within a month I drove to the east with the car and back. Everything na mind

The Christian leaders who are supposed to be speaking up on this issue are quiet because they are still seeing their tithe and offering by their congregation. But time we come when their churches will be empty and Nigeria will be like turkey where Islam is the dominant religion

Very rugged and built for tough terrain. You no fit compare am to Hilux.

lildush:
This is not an excuse bro.. you should have left her alone d moment u found out she is dating someone else.. is she d only girl in ur vicinity? Now see ?? what are we.. sorry u going to do now? Because na only u dook d girl..we no follow 🤣🤣🤣

In actual sense you may be right.

untoldtruth:
If the second is yours, to whom do the first and third belong to?
You said she was married, when you begin chop berating you quickly changed it to "she was cohabiting".
OP, you deserve every little thing coming your way just like she's coming this weekend and just like she's coming this weekend, you won't be able to avoid the consequences of your actions.
Enjoy 😂

The 1st child I don't really know about but her second child as she claimed belongs to me which she divulge just a few weeks ago.

realsoftouch:
OP is a serial lier... How can u not be ready to marry and you became the father of her second child.. Not the first... It means you have been foocking a married woman because she is ur ex..

People like you have crashed lots of marriages with ur prxxk..

I said she's not actually married but just cohabitating with the guy and have known her way before she even met the guy.
So, to put it in the right prospective, she's not married to the guy

ibechris:
If u don't have money for DNA test,do a simple blood test.

I doubt that will be 99% in getting the results I needed. Thanks all the same

Onegai:
Ikeno,

Please tell her to meet you at Mecure, Lagos state DNA testing facility (Marina, Lagos Island)or Clina-labs with the child to do a DNA test.

I hate to agree with a previous poster (because he called her a vulgar disgusting word with no proof) but she cohabited with someone and had 3 kids and somewhere along the line, was still having time for you.

That's not great judgement being shown by either her or you.

She may be looking for financial ease and decided to do this.

Be firm, ask for DNA test and don't let her move in with you.

If the DNA test comes back as your child, decide what to do. You can offer to take that child (are you married, are you ready to be a single dad, don't start looking for girlfriend to help you, most won't want to play stepmum). Or you can give her money for upkeep monthly (I'm more concerned about this route, as neither of you have shown good character judgement).

You can't force her to give up custody because legally under Nigerian law, that's her child and not yours (unless you marry her and then all the kids belong to you).

You should get your parents involved so that if she is your kid, they can convince this woman to release that child into your care and their care, as it may be better for her future to have stability.

Thanks this will really go along way in deciding my next move