hary158:
HUSBAND SCARCITY!!!by Maryam Habu shinga
HUSBAND SCARCITY!!!This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a"Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of"Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as away out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent.
This post is worth sharing, let it go as far as it can.
Good afternoon

The first step to personal liberty is ti say the plain truth to oneself.
Until we have constitutional polygamy regulated by law. The problem has not even begun. T.M Aluko wrote One Man One Wife. abi? Una neva start.

hary158:
HUSBAND SCARCITY!!!by Maryam Habu shinga
HUSBAND SCARCITY!!!This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a"Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of"Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as away out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent.
This post is worth sharing, let it go as far as it can.
Good afternoon

The first step to personal liberty is ti say the plain truth to oneself.
Until we have constitutional polygamy regulated by law. The problem has not even begun. T.M Aluko wrote One Man One Wife. abi? Una neva start.

avicky:

it bawo? He is a him oh.
Not too happy because my boo will get to see all these.

Then, if Akell is not "IT" he must fill in a CAPTCHA or what is it called, to be sure.

Never mind. Tell your "BOO" that we are on Interlude and enjoying the comic relief.

avicky:
Akell and ikubvh, please you guys should stop already.

I'm sure Akell was just pulling ur legs @ ikubch
No love lost.

Aren't you happy two guys are fighting kung fu because of you.
"Pulling my legs" I must extract an apology from him/her before I sheath my "weapon". I don't even know if Akell is IT/HER/HIM.

avicky:

Once you are given your admission letter, you will be told to create a student account. When you do, u fill in ur necessary details. You will get to know your fees payable for the semester. To do that you need to buy access card 1350 and the amount you want to pay. You can get the cards at Skyebank Oau and Zenith bank Oau.

You will also need to do your ID card, when the time comes, you will get the information. You will pay 400 or so. You will also have to open a file both at the PG college and at ur respective depts.

Pg students use the same calendar with the Ug students so I guess lectures starts by June.

Kebisrael, emperor650 abeg make una show.

Thanks. I hope just thanking you won't get somebody boiling over!

mezynaija:
Very shocking how a normal young and vibrant lady went insane earlier today in Jos. It was gathered that the lady whose name was not disclosed woke up sound and healthy on a Saturday morning 23rd April, 2016. It was time for work, she got prepared and set off. On her way to the office, she went insane.

No one ever believed what was happening to the young lady not until she started taking off her cloths, jumped into a dirty drainage and started bathing herself inside of it. After which she started chasing people around. This happened along Busa Buji Street here in Jos. It caused lots of hold up making it difficult for vehicles to drive pass the main road as it drew lots of scene. May God save us from mysterious things amen!

Source: http://www.jtownconnect.com/2016/04/pretty-young-lady-runs-mad-on-her-way.html

Her challenges took her across the threshold.

DadaStephen1:

Why do you think I won't survive the trade?

!!

DadaStephen1:
How please?

!?

DadaStephen1:
How please?

!?

DadaStephen1:
How please?

!?

Akell:


who's talking about being married here?
There are so many married men into extramarital affairs. that ain't a point.
Mind you, I don't do threats...
However, I haven't reneged on my earlier statements

Anyway, congrats on your admission.

You are right there. I am an African. I push things to logical conclusion. I rather "take" her than "side-chicking" Lucky you, I don't do Married ladies.
What earlier statement?
I'm still considering accepting your half-hearted congratulation. I'm not moved by flattery and frivolities.

Akell:

Hey! if having her number is your number one achievement, I've got that before you dreamed of it. so, that ain't for me a cause of worry.


Google her to know who took her...



if you're from the south West, you should understand this: "Àbò òrò là n so f'omolúàbí"

if you ain't from the South West extraction, get someone who could get that sink into you.

Remember I have your digits and department,
It might be too late to be sorry

Knowing my Department. Is that a threat?
I am happily married with a Handball team for a family.
What's your problem about intellectuals exchanging numbers.
You have earned a free ticket to have it examined.

DadaStephen1:
Good day brilliant minds,
I plan to quit my job soon to start a newspaper publishing company. I have always believed in the power of media to the society (especially the rural dwellers) if positively channeled.
I need you to advise me appropriately in terms of the cost implication, the requirements entailed, what you expect to see in my newspaper, what you think we should put into it to make the entire populace happy, the challenges I should look out for, the risks involved and any other usefull information.
Your response will do a great deal of help, not to me alone but to any other Nigerian out there who's thinking like me.
Thanks.
dbabados@gmail.com

There is 5 percent chance you will survive the trade!

samally:

Really....
around which area and how much?

I bought mine in Ibadan via olx and the price was awesome. One has to search and get the cash ready for good bargain.

samally:


Thanks and kindly let me know if you have any for sell

I can help you get one. It takes weeks to get a good bargain on olx. I could do it for you if you commission me for it.

samally:
Am in need of BMW E39 or E46...Nigerian Used
From 1999-2002.....MAX

anybody with good one should post the picture location

Jokes everywhere on Nairaland. You won't regret buying 5series. The power in that car is overwhelming and awesome. I have one and I can't trade it for a Toyota.
Make sure you buy a good 5series and thank me later.

Akell:


must you be spoon-fed? Avicky this Avicky that! wait! are you a man or woman?
of a man, then smh...

you're too pushy for my liking...
Jeez, your behaviour is characteristical of a woman.....by the way, how old are you?

Mind you, she's taken...so, know how to thread with those digits you got. else......I'll come after you and knock you down.

Quote me!!!

Waoh! You've got a nice talent in throwing "TANTRUMS"
Maybe you are not bold enough toask for her number.
I'm too sophisticated to take offence. What bit you Dear?
Well, as for the request. I want to save some of us from mistakes in the course of this admission. Relative to most of us, Avicky is a SAGE, and a likable one at that.
Please, who "TOOK" her?
Knocking me down: Are you into Wrestlemania or do you play Rugby?

Well, as for throwing me down, watch out Burgundy 5series on campus. I promise I won't break your legs.

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Avicky! For the benefit of all incoming PG students. Please and PLEASE highlight the sequence of activities we are to undergo from the point of printing admission letter to becoming full student vis a vis payments, registration et al.
Thanks ma'am.

segoslavia:


I actually thought u were smarter than most of this other guys on nairaland... guess i was wrong.
And to help your ignorance... Form A is a concern of everybody on the thread as long as u have an admission for research masters or phd at OAU, its what u need to start thinking of from the moment you start course work and know who will be your supervisor. The earlier u know what form A is about... the better for u.

Seems you prefer to put the cart before the horse. I'm a lover of "order" and the fact is that the primary concern "now" is to pay the school fees and acceptance and to have the portal opened. We don't even have our bill yet.
Thanks for the compliment. Smarter or not, I don't trade in confusion!

segoslavia:


I actually thought u were smarter than most of this other guys on nairaland... guess i was wrong.
And to help your ignorance... Form A is a concern of everybody on the thread as long as u have an admission for research masters or phd at OAU, its what u need to start thinking of from the moment you start course work and know who will be your supervisor. The earlier u know what form A is about... the better for u.

Seems you prefer to put the cart before the horse. I'm a lover of "order" and the fact is that the primary concern "now" is to pay the school fees and acceptance and to have the portal opened.

segoslavia:


Oga calm down...i Know that for sure ! And be sure to understand the facts b4 u jump to conclusions...

Dont Worry you will Find out what Form A is soon enough.

Exactly! Form A has nothing to do with new intake like some of us here. For now, we can't raise a headache considering the intention of this great thread. It is a diversion. Period!

avicky:
Yes, thanks.

Then... Shoot!

segoslavia:


That could be as annoying as annoying get... Form A... wat stage re u now?

She is not a new PG student. Whatever form A, it must have something to do with her ongoing programme not new intake. Aaaaaargh!!!

avicky:

I understood what you meant but was just telling you I was joking and that you shouldn't take me serious.
Please remove your digits. Thanks.

Do you have the number?

avicky:

Never mind. Congrats once again

Sure, you are not a fan of jokes and sarcasm. I should see you when I get to campus. You deserve a treat. I appreciate your support when I got rejected initially.

adewuyia2014:
As far as am concern there are no differences between the two options, but i will like to have people view on this topic.
My only observation is that our leaders divided it for their selfish interest.

Are you asking me of the difference between my BMW and Keke Marwa. Stop insulting Uni. Grad. with that comparison. Mind you, I attended both!

Who's got the idea how I could get both room and office in town? Any link to an agent in a promising location?

avicky:
Hmmmm. I hope it won't dig a hole in ur pocket?

Then, you could choose one with a back door.

Yourmmy:
Payment of acceptance and school fees is by purchase of scratch cards and not bank teller. You may just have to keep checking netque.oauife.edu.ng regularly so as to know when registration commences.

Everyone should visit OAU website, click on eportal. The latest academic calendar is there. Registration starts May 11.

avicky:
Congratulations dear. We go wash am o.

Any idea how we should "wash" it?

papyskinsy:

lol.. de acceptance fee is meant to be paid via bank teller not scratch card .. i think so

Don't think so. Are you sure? Don't misinform anyone.