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Romance › Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(op): 2:17am On Aug 28, 2023

illicit:
Does anyone see u as a friend

some do, but I cut them all off

I just want to be left alone

Romance › Re: Do You Know Anyone That Has Committed Suicide by Ilamina(op): 2:15am On Aug 28, 2023

adelafe2019:
Ilamina, your problem is loneliness.You reside in Canada with you parents yet you are unhappy.
Higher education is cheap/free in CANADA. Try to gain admission into an institution of yout choice, mingle with other students and start a relationship with a good guy afterall you are not getting younger at this your age of 34.
Start attending a bible teaching church and associate with the members
.

My parents live in Nigeria
I am alone here
Trying too get asylum, so I don't have too worry about friends and money

But it's looking impossible . .so I am so scared

I don't want too go too church because I don't want too make friends

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Romance › Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(op): 1:57am On Aug 28, 2023

illicit:
U don't have friends

Ur friends helped u

when I had some friends

Romance › Re: I Was Playing My Traditional Bayelsa Music by Ilamina(op): 1:56am On Aug 28, 2023

izonborn098:
Go and delete ur age from that thread..

lolnot ashamed of my age anymore

I need help, so I have to be public sometimes

Family › Re: Should Nigeria Limit Children Born Into Each Family In This Economy? by Ilamina(f): 1:36am On Aug 28, 2023

Amen o

Considering I don't want to push plenty children

Romance › Re: I Was Playing My Traditional Bayelsa Music by Ilamina(op): 1:35am On Aug 28, 2023

izonborn098:
But white oloshos no dey the area?..

yea but they are usually in the nlng area

Us locals rarely see them, unless you go to that side

Romance › Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(op): 1:32am On Aug 28, 2023

purejustice36:
How old are you ?
What’s your gender?
Where do you live ?
What are your hobbies?
Do you love sports, if yes what team do u support?
What’s your mode of hustling?

Kindly tell me , I have something to say dear

I am 34

Female

Canada 🇨🇦

Learning about other pples cultures, traveling , watching TV

Not into sports, big fan of some sport stars like lebron james, Steve Gerrard and many more

Mode of hustling, I don't know, I have no degree
I don't even know where to start from, if I want to make money

Romance › Re: I Was Playing My Traditional Bayelsa Music by Ilamina(op): 1:26am On Aug 28, 2023

izonborn098:
It is well' this is public... so how is bonny' i heard that area is a small london and i'm thinking of visiting someday..

it's not small London grin

I find it tough there

It's just popular because of the nlng site

And Maybe vibrant culture sometimes tongue

Romance › Re: Don't You wish Nigeria Was Colonized By France Or Portugal or Spain by Ilamina(op): 1:18am On Aug 28, 2023

MrsTwrite:
Your title and its content do not match.

How doesn't it match

I said being an English colony sucks
I like French way of living better

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Romance › Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(op): 1:16am On Aug 28, 2023

izonborn098:
I always came across ur posts on nairaland. I don't know if you are joking but:
*in whatever you are passing through' you don't have to over sress urself.
*health is wealth' as far you are alive their is hope and you can change the story of ur family.
*i left my parents at 26 while my younger sister left home at 18' u can imagine the pressure.
*to leave one's parent is not by force if they are not forcing you' forget peer group presure.
*you have to believe in urself no matter how they look down on you' just believe the story can change through you.
*you have to start from somewhere' no matter how little it is, have something doing from there other opportunities will come in..
*stop expecting much from people even your own parents' so that you will not be disappointed. Disappointment bring depression and the only way to avoid it is expecting less or none..
WHATEVER YOU ARE PASSING THROUGH' YOU WILL BE FINE...

thanks pumpkin 🎃

Romance › Re: I Was Playing My Traditional Bayelsa Music by Ilamina(op): 1:14am On Aug 28, 2023

izonborn098:
Pls i'm sorry for bothering u with questions... Your father igbo right?

my father is from bonny

I don't mind the questions

It's nice, I get to meet someone from my mother's side who is interested in my relations with my bayelsa roots

I rarely had a normal relation with my mothers side because of our fathers way of bringing us up and their brutal divorce

This conversation
makes me feel very relaxed

Romance › Re: I Was Playing My Traditional Bayelsa Music by Ilamina(op): 1:02am On Aug 28, 2023

izonborn098:
have u been to bayelsa before? Can u speak the language..

yea once, went for my great grand mothers birthday. .it was her 80th. .so it was a big deal. She lives in amassoma

My parents divorced
So I cant speak any of their languages but picked up some few words being with their families sometimes but maybe when I get older and settled, I will speak better

Like in my bayelsa grandmothers house in portharcourt, ayebe sa bouba was very common = it means mumu like water snail 🐌 lol grin

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Romance › Re: I Was Playing My Traditional Bayelsa Music by Ilamina(op): 12:42am On Aug 28, 2023

izonborn098:
Are u from bayelsa?

my mother is

Romance › Re: I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(op): 12:25am On Aug 28, 2023

Rokiat:
And you think you can depend on friends? How old are you?

You must be a teen.

I know I am childish

I have struggled with anxiety for years

But sometimes you need friends

They are times, I was homeless, my friends helped me

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Romance › People Who Complain About Flying Aeroplane by Ilamina(op): 12:23am On Aug 28, 2023

This Australian always complain about flying

25 hours from Australia to America

Some people don't value what they have
It's a great opportunity to be on a plane, not everytime you get to be on it

Maybe because these white people, always have different reactions on a plane
White people created planes, but cant handle the pressure to be on it

They can fly it but can't hate being on it

But black people can handle their technology better

Romance › I Don't Have Friends by Ilamina(op): 11:57pm On Aug 27, 2023

At the moment, I depend on my parents
So I have been worried, my parents are not getting any younger

If something bad should happen, how will I survive
I don't want too be homeless in my life
I am so scared

Romance › Re: Don't You wish Nigeria Was Colonized By France Or Portugal or Spain by Ilamina(op): 11:52pm On Aug 27, 2023

Shezzman:
Always double check before posting.
Your title is not making sense...

changed it, thanks

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Romance › Don't You wish Nigeria Was Colonized By France Or Portugal or Spain by Ilamina(op): 10:58pm On Aug 27, 2023*

I heard english speaking people are sensitive like Ghanaians, always ready to pour their frustration on you, when they are angry

I heard francophones are more tolerant of each other. .and know how to get through life and know life sucks, and the best way to get through it, its to be miserable like me

Look at anglophone countires like sierra loene
See how brutal, they were to each other during the war. .just so rough, anglophones no time for bullshit, ready to kill and act like Ghanaians

English people are not tolerative, but so positive
How can you be positive in a place like Africa
Francophones are blessed

And It's more competitive to migrate to English speaking countries abroad than France

More french speaking countries in Europe compared to English like france(bigger land than the uk), Belgium, Switzerland , Luxembourg

Romance › It's Only Strong People That Commit Suicide by Ilamina(op): 10:24pm On Aug 27, 2023

I wonder how they do it

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Romance › Yoruba Men by Ilamina(op): 2:18am On Aug 26, 2023

Romance › Re: Do You Know Anyone That Has Committed Suicide by Ilamina(op): 2:18am On Aug 26, 2023

Lucasinho:
Do you want to commit suicide?

yes

Romance › Do You Know Anyone That Has Committed Suicide by Ilamina(op): 12:54am On Aug 26, 2023

Romance › Re: Life Is Too Hard by Ilamina(op): 10:53pm On Aug 10, 2023

Rayban25:
its only God that can come down and grant you sense where ever you are. Because for how long do you want to continue like this?

I don't even pray anymore

Romance › Life Is Too Hard by Ilamina(op): 10:48pm On Aug 10, 2023

Suicide shouldn't be a sin

Nairaland General › How Do I Burn Rep by Ilamina(op): 10:39pm On Aug 10, 2023

I need to burn rep to survive

Romance › Re: Every Nigerian Girl Wants To Marry Sanusi Lamido by Ilamina(op): 10:14pm On Aug 10, 2023

DodadaKoKigbe:
Which Sahel? How many of these Nigerian mooslems have EVER witnessed a sandstorm in Nigeria?

northern Nigeria is dusty

Romance › How Do I Burn Rep by Ilamina(op): 8:51pm On Aug 10, 2023

I have been asking you guys for advice and methods for weeks. ..

no one Has answered me yet

Romance › Re: I Am So Hopeless by Ilamina(op): 8:48pm On Aug 10, 2023

Romance › I Am So Hopeless by Ilamina(op): 5:09pm On Aug 10, 2023

I don't think I was created to face this hard world

Look at those that died in the Loyola sosoliso plane crash 2005

I wondered how I would have handled it, all the fire, smoke and metals crushing in your body

If I was on that plane

Don't you think it was better to be on that plane, than to be in my thirties and feeling hopeless

Music/Radio › Re: Tory Lanez Sentenced To 10 Years : A Deeper Look Into The Verdict by Ilamina(f): 2:02pm On Aug 10, 2023

Romance › Re: Ever Since, This Igbo Guy Called Me Psycho On Nairaland by Ilamina(op): 11:22am On Aug 10, 2023

DyingFetus:
Kys bitch

You're fckn worthless piece of shit

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