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Benita27:
Hehehe. We're talking about what's like when a lady woos a man and here you're subjecting ladies to whòring around and seeing it as a normal thing. Would you advise your sis to assume these personality you mentioned?. Secondly, you're so closed minded like a typical Nigerian that you assume I'd have to go fùcking around just because I'm scared of being single in my 30s.

Back to the topic, you're obviously the one lacking knowledge on how your gender is wired, mentally. I needn't possess a visa to know how the world works but since you seem to have done a lot of travelling, it didn't reflect in the subject for discourse.

Coiled from the book 'Why Men Love Bìtches' by Sherry Argov. She went into the streets of Newyork just to find out from men what's like to be wooed and if they've gladly oblige such a lady with an affirmative 'Yes', but guess what...based on sample opinion: a majority said "No". Some said "I'd assume she would walk up to other men, wooing them" another "Please, I don't want to be wooed" yet another "She'd look loose to me" and another "No, I pride in going for what I want. And what makes her think I'll say yes?". These responds were from White men, not Nigerian guys, so tell me how much of travelling you've done again?. From her research a majority said 'No' while a fraction said 'Yes' and the other fraction were 'indecisive', so on that note it was stated that men don't like being chased 'cause they're wired to chase.

We're not talking about a night stand. That's a different ball game entirely and Nigerian girls do that.

Nah wah o! Why is English so difficult to understand.
Let me address you point of concern first of all .

Firstly, I can't tell my sis what to do cos am never in that position. I believe as adult we all are responsible for what ever we do.

Secondly, I never asked any lady to go Bleep around. All I meant was a lady being bold enough to wink, maintain eye contact or just do something reasonable & responsible to get the guy to notice her advances. I never said she should go asking a dude out. I ONLY PRAY YOU UNDERSTAND THIS PART OF WHAT I MEANT.

Thirdly, you argument isn't healthy. Cos the your criticism ain't constructive . I think there are better ways of making your points known, instead of telling someone he|she lacks knowledge. That's real bad and implies you really shouldn't be out here cos you're a danger to yourself .

Lastly...the shitty book you read was someone else's idea of it all ...what you read in here was mine .it's wasn't complusary you slide in ...You probably could have just passed .

Nevertheless, You're in your 30's . Only God know if it's the early 30's or late 30's you meant. I just don't give a Bleep .Just hope you still see your period cos You've never being so close to fucking with "Menopause".
Go get married cos soon you gonna be chasing after little boys .

Hahaha.....retard nerd.

P|S : Stop reading shitty books .

Do Nigerian ladies ever have a plan in mind of how their kids would look like or what nationality/ethnicity it is they would want them to have/ look like ?

Cos with the present economic situation in naija ,I think the best I can do for my unborn kids would be to give them a traveling document that would give them an alternative instead of being stuck with naija when it finally goes down .....

I try to plan ahead and try as much as I can to achieve it...cos if you don't you might end up settling for less .

QueenSekxy:
that's a risky game!!compare the number of guy on here that at every little provocation will start slut shaming a girl,same thing they will do if you go to them ...all their friends must hear of it....and when you dare annoy him in any way,,he will remind you of how you came to beg him first....

real men appreciate this,while fvckboys don't. ...

IN MOST MARRIAGES, HUSBANDS STILL REMINDS THEIR WIVES OF HOW THEY BROUGHT THEM FROM THE VILLAGE OUT OF POVERTY.
HOW'S THAT DIFFERENT?
PLS OPEN YOUR BRAIN INSTEAD OF YOUR EYES COS THE MORE HOU LOOK THE LESS YOU ACTUALLY WOULD GET TO SEE.

EITHER WAY,YOU STILL GET bleeped. ITS ALL ABOUT YOU GETTING TO CHOOSE WHO bleeps YOU.

QueenSekxy:
that's a risky game!!compare the number of guy on here that at every little provocation will start slut shaming a girl,same thing they will do if you go to them ...all their friends must hear of it....and when you dare annoy him in any way,,he will remind you of how you came to beg him first....

real men appreciate this,while fvckboys don't. ...

IN MARRIAGE, MOST HUSBANDS STILL REMINDS THEIR WIVES OF HOW THEY BROUGHT THEM FROM THE VILLAGE OUT OF POVERTY.
HOW'S THAT DIFFERENT?
PLS OPEN YOUR BRAIN INSTEAD OF YOUR EYES COS THE MORE HOU LOOK THE LESS YOU ACTUALLY WOULD GET TO SEE.

Benita27:
No man wants to be chased by a lady. Those of you saying ladies should take the bull by the horn are obviously looking for means to increase the number of ladies you've had on your bed, and only a foolish lady would fall for that. Men pride in hunting, and not being hunted. The odds are against you if you chase him.

Hmmm...
No wonder Nigerians are suffering .It's already in the Bible tho "My people perish cos of lack of knowledge".
Aunty pls before you grow old ,try getting a visa and visit some other places in the world cos your reasoning is being limited within the confines of the issues affecting naija.
If you go to the UK {real life experiences},let's assume you went to the pub to get one or two pints ...and a lady fancies you ,what do you think she does ? She might opt to maintain an eye contact or Just wink at you just to express that interest of hers .If you are cool with her advances ,you go ahead ... probably you guys might find yourself in bed before the next day and to her it's fun cos she enjoyed it but that doesn't mean when you get to see her the next day,you go touching her in weird places ....what happened was just fun and no strings attached .

That being said ,I think naija girls no matter how much they try to protect their pussy ,at the end of the day it always gets bleeped by one dude or another hence the saying "before you get to meet your prince charming,you might get to kiss a lot of frogs "...So I guess it's up to you to choose if you enjoy the kisses of the numerous frogs you've kissed or you're about to OR you intend to take that bold step instead of hanging unto a guy that wouldn't make you feel any important or even relevant.

Pls also note that all guys ain't the same cos it's wrong to stereotype , although I do agree with the fact that most guys would want to take an advantage of such situations . However ,I still believe there are good and reasonable guys out there that do know and appreciate the value of such ladies at home cos they're always outspoken and supportive.

It's all about making a guy see you more like an equal rather than
you being seen as a subject.

P/S : Don't chase after guys ,try to look for ways to make your intentions known while you watch how he reacts...I guess that how you know if he's gonna take you serious . DON'T RUSH INTO IT, TAKE YOUR TIME & WHEN YOU FEEL YOU GUYS HAVE CLICKED , PROBABLY BY THAT TIME BABA HAS PICKED AND STARTED ACTING LIKE THE GUY WHO'S REASONABLY INCHARGE .
IF HE DOESN'T,I GUESS IT WOULD BE CLEAR ENOUGH FOR YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU'VE GOT TO MOVE ON.

alexialin:
Odikwa very risky mehn.

Better to die in silence and move on.


Let no nigga take you for a ride.

Word!

What's the assurance that the nigga that comes to your house to ask for your hand in marriage won't take you for a ride ?

Pls open your eyes while you come face to face with reality.

I believe n gender equality, that's the more reason why as a human you have to choose whom so ever you decide to roll with.Never let them choose you cos you never might know when they are about to dispose you .

TBH.

QueenSekxy:
that's a risky game!!compare the number of guy on here that at every little provocation will start slut shaming a girl,same thing they will do if you go to them ...all their friends must hear of it....and when you dare annoy him in any way,,he will remind you of how you came to beg him first....

real men appreciate this,while fvckboys don't. ...

Yeah You're 100% right ...If I may also add to all you've just said .You must get to understand this ,The lady must have done some background checks on the dude she's crushing on cos she must have noticed this particular for a period of time ...when she feels she's 100% certain that this would work out good ,she start making herself noticable just to see if this said guy likes anything about her...if he does & appreciates her ,it's a perfect plan that's fall into place .

Rather than she being all by her own,not long before some Bleep boy approaches ,say a lot before she agrees thinking this guy places a valve on her together with respect ...After few weeks or Days ,it's all in shambles and she's back waiting for the next to come asking again

Smh....

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I only do wish you were up to 18 yrs of age....

Either way the lady get played cos in my own opinion,that guy asking you out, bugging you up until you say yes after which he's done playing with your genitals ....he leaves for the next girl, leaving you devastated,Making you start allover from the scratch. ...

While there some dude at the corner you took notice of and you actually do fancy...You act with pride like you don't give a damn when you actually do ... thereby dying in silence.

Probably in the next few years when the difference between both guys becomes evident , you then become filled with regret.

Imagine a senerio where the guy you crushed on back then becomes Successful while the one that came after you is still trying to figure a way out with you as a 5 months pregnancy...


Ladies it's just as easy as ABC... FOLLOW YOUR HEART ...

IAMSASHY:
I dnt support any lady walking up 2 a guy no matter Wat, I rather find an opportunity and show hm I care tru attitude, if he likes, he cn reciprocate by turning d table around and doing d Norma tin bt if he doesn't, so b it. So many fishes in the river

Yeah ...
I agree with you on that...tho I do believe that the more we express ourselves openly,the more sincere relationships we would find ourselves in .

Kob82:
Africa tradition, if any lady walk to guy and tell him, the guy will take her for granted as per cheap babe.
I think that's the reason.

Hmmmm...
I do think that way initially up until I became an adult ....then I got to fully understand that it doesn't have to be that way cos everyone's not the same ...

Pls o ! I only wanted to ask the female folks if they still give we the male folks GREEN LIGHT?

Why do most ladies prefer dying in silence rather than stepping up to that guy who they crush on ...Why do they turn down a handsome looking, wayforward thinking dude & settle for less with some other dude who might end up getting them bleeped up in all possible way you can think of?

Nothing come out ....at least e better say e come out clean,same colour everywhere .

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Rorachy:
Get the pot belly and she will tell you that you are not looking sexy.

I like guys with flat tummy, wouldn't want him to look like my father when we are hanging out together in public, my image is very important to me.
Even my father has a flat tummy.

Nigerian ladies ain't all about the fitness & Good looks of a Nigga, instead they go around with the pot belle dudes without shame cos of their little change ...these girls sometimes get trapped in there without a room for escape.

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That's the essence ...You've got to crave for it,make it more wet and juicy while rubbing it's lips against each other.