Benita27:
No man wants to be chased by a lady. Those of you saying ladies should take the bull by the horn are obviously looking for means to increase the number of ladies you've had on your bed, and only a foolish lady would fall for that. Men pride in hunting, and not being hunted. The odds are against you if you chase him.

Benita27:
It's a fraction of your kind, and you guys aren't considered men...based on sampling.

Benita27:
And when things go south, he'll be like "I did you a favour, were you not the one that wooed me?". Confused set of humans. Yet, they'll say women are confused.

truthsayer009:


Pride in hunting ke? Do we all look like Esau? Biko, If you are a fine boy & you are now financially successful, girls will chase you with no shame. Even the top educated ladies. Na who no like beta thing?

E be like say you go leave that Port harcourt way you dey come Lagos, come see as Babes day chase guys.

Even in church sef, once you buy a car (Correct machine & not 1998 model oh ) as a Handsome Single guy. Omo you wan try how many girls go dey on your case?

The only exception is when you are too ugly lol.

alexialin:






Correct babe.

That's exactly what they will say.

Your smart girl!




They are looking for whom to devour, clean mouth, Waka.

Those morrafuckers.

truthsayer009:


Pride in hunting ke? Do we all look like Esau? Biko, If you are a fine boy & you are now financially successful, girls will chase you with no shame. Even the top educated ladies. Na who no like beta thing?

E be like say you go leave that Port harcourt way you dey come Lagos, come see as Babes day chase guys.

Even in church sef, once you buy a car (Correct machine & not 1998 model oh ) as a Handsome Single guy. Omo you wan try how many girls go dey on your case?


The only exception is when you are too ugly lol.

Benita27:
No matter how ugly a man is; once he has money, some ladies would flock around him. It's universal and has nothing to do with my location 'cause these set of ladies are attracted to material things. Not that we don't have women who wouldn't be moved by material things but a majority is the basis on which it's said that "Women are materialistic". BTW, were you told Port Harcourt is bush?.

alexialin:
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Madam, you have some truth to what you say. But its their decision not to meet up with good girls. Honestly, when you base your expectation on Instagram Slaying Ladies with big Ass & boobs. You never ready to settle down na !

Those aren't the expectations you look for when you want to marry. Also your attitude too also matters. Imagine the guy in the scenario you painted, making out with call / runs girls who smoke and drink. Is that a Good way to live? Habba ! You can't be a Drunk Or weed smoker and expect a decent girl na !

Trust me, that guy isn't ready, he just wants to keep having fun.













Lemme tell u, not every girl is the same.

So it's possible some girls are still making such grave Mistakes.

At the end, u see them posting on nairaland/ twitter/ facebook : my bf of 3years whom I spent the night with two days ago is getting married to another lady this weekend, how wicked can me be


And I will categoritically tell you, guys with fine cars, fine looks and pretty houses don't even have a babe to call their own. They will have flings with slay queens, ladies that smoke like. Chimneys, slay mama's and Co.

But a stable clean relationship with a decent pretty clean hardworking babe out there? Mbanu! Nah they don't have upon all the packaging and fine Boi looks , they always think of their life all night long.

I know some like that.

Too much pride and arrogance dey always make them feel empty with all the slay queens around them.


Mind you am based in Lagos

truthsayer009:


I no talk say Port Harcourt na bush oh ! I'm jes referring to this ya mindset, perhaps its because of where you are. Jes saying oh, Its not an insult.

And also Every lady is attracted to material things biko ! The complete combination is when you are Handsome & you have money + you can also package well & speak well. Trust me, no girl will say No. So please forget this saying about "Some set of ladies that are attracted material things" jare !

Trust me, the rich dudes that some ladies turn down, saying they ain't about materialistic things. If you make your research carefully. Those guys are either too Ugly or Too short . I'm speaking from experience honestly.

Nigerian women are easy to get because they have a formula. It's like Algebra. It always works.

Benita27:
Environment plays a role in shaping one's mindset but there're other factors. I wasn't making my submission 'cause I grew up in PH. That being said, I used some for a reason 'cause not all women are materialistic just as no two persons are alike.

Benita27:
No man wants to be chased by a lady. Those of you saying ladies should take the bull by the horn are obviously looking for means to increase the number of ladies you've had on your bed, and only a foolish lady would fall for that. Men pride in hunting, and not being hunted. The odds are against you if you chase him.

Benita27:
Hehehe. We're talking about what's like when a lady woos a man and here you're subjecting ladies to whòring around and seeing it as a normal thing. Would you advise your sis to assume these personality you mentioned?. Secondly, you're so closed minded like a typical Nigerian that you assume I'd have to go fùcking around just because I'm scared of being single in my 30s.

Back to the topic, you're obviously the one lacking knowledge on how your gender is wired, mentally. I needn't possess a visa to know how the world works but since you seem to have done a lot of travelling, it didn't reflect in the subject for discourse.

Coiled from the book 'Why Men Love Bìtches' by Sherry Argov. She went into the streets of Newyork just to find out from men what's like to be wooed and if they've gladly oblige such a lady with an affirmative 'Yes', but guess what...based on sample opinion: a majority said "No". Some said "I'd assume she would walk up to other men, wooing them" another "Please, I don't want to be wooed" yet another "She'd look loose to me" and another "No, I pride in going for what I want. And what makes her think I'll say yes?". These responds were from White men, not Nigerian guys, so tell me how much of travelling you've done again?. From her research a majority said 'No' while a fraction said 'Yes' and the other fraction were 'indecisive', so on that note it was stated that men don't like being chased 'cause they're wired to chase.

We're not talking about a night stand. That's a different ball game entirely and Nigerian girls do that.

lifedynamics:



That's for idiots ( the aforementioned "boys"
No serious minded Man looks to hunt, He's looking for a Girlfriend or Wife if need be.

lifedynamics:
LMAO... Nigerian Girls are Cowards

Who is slut-shaming you?

That's just a made-up excuse by Girls who are too ballless to ask guys out(not flirting, which makes you look like a "slut" as they would say)
If you like Tunde, Haruna or Chukwuma better ask him out

And as my Ogas here have told you " Try not to ask Boys out and observe their attitudes before you make the move" Capiche?

QueenSekxy:
that's a risky game!!compare the number of guy on here that at every little provocation will start slut shaming a girl,same thing they will do if you go to them ...all their friends must hear of it....and when you dare annoy him in any way,,he will remind you of how you came to beg him first....

real men appreciate this,while fvckboys don't. ...

FellepHq:


Am an exception, I like being "chased" instead. I respect and adore those who do. So far I have only met one who slide in, she is still with me and am not letting her go.
I believe there are many other men like me who like "weird " adventurous women

IAMSASHY:
I dnt support any lady walking up 2 a guy no matter Wat, I rather find an opportunity and show hm I care tru attitude, if he likes, he cn reciprocate by turning d table around and doing d Norma tin bt if he doesn't, so b it. So many fishes in the river

illegal7:
Why do most ladies prefer dying in silence rather than stepping up to that guy who they crush on ...Why do they turn down a handsome looking, wayforward thinking dude & settle for less with some other dude who might end up getting them bleeped up in all possible way you can think of?

QueenSekxy:
that's a risky game!!compare the number of guy on here that at every little provocation will start slut shaming a girl,same thing they will do if you go to them ...all their friends must hear of it....and when you dare annoy him in any way,,he will remind you of how you came to beg him first....

real men appreciate this,while fvckboys don't. ...

alexialin:






Correct babe.

That's exactly what they will say.

Your smart girl!




They are looking for whom to devour, clean mouth, Waka.

Those morrafuckers.

illegal7:



If the mountain doesn't go to ....
.... Would go to the mountain.
Either way, that guy you're waiting for would still come around tho he might not be type but he must still Bleep you and you would still do food for him cos he came and won your heart. You might just happen to settle for less ...but nothing come out cos no be you start am .....

alexialin:






Don't get it twisted, am with the man of my dreams already

Whether we fucvk and we eat together is non of your business.

Inugo.

illegal7:



Does your husband know you're in here ...?
You are looking for small small boys just so you can take their youthful look to enrich your aging looks a bi ?

illegal7:
Why do most ladies prefer dying in silence rather than stepping up to that guy who they crush on ...Why do they turn down a handsome looking, wayforward thinking dude & settle for less with some other dude who might end up getting them bleeped up in all possible way you can think of?

Bester44:


The first time we met, I was like 'wow, see a pretty woman'. An elderly person asked her to bend down as the person said something into her ear. She wasn't paying to the person talking to her but she fixed her eyes on me.

The second time, i arrived a class and sat behind her. Without looking back, she knew I was the one and she became restless. It was in the church. She used style to look back and our eyes met. Coman see drama. She became shy all of a sudden, adjusting her dress, hair unconsciously.

Then I did something in the church that made me popular. She approached me the following Sunday saying we attended the same University because I made mention of my school in the speech that made me popular. All these are green lights. I wooed her two days later. She said I'm daring what's bigger than me. I withdrew myself immediately. Since then she would be the one to chat me up on whatsapp. She would say I saw you in the traffic today bla bla. Me that is chatting with many person, she would ask me, "let's go offline and sleep now". I would say "go sleep o, me still dey online" . Can't you see that she's deceiving herself.

illegal7:




You wooed her and her response was "You're daring what's bigger than you" after which the next thing you did was to run!
Why did you give in at first when you knew you ain't up to the task.
Bro she wasn't deceiving herself but rather she was being real and honest but it's a shame you never had the balls to withstand her pressure.
You Bleep up cos na encounter with guys like you dey make most of these ladies for here dey talk those things ....
Pathetic...smh