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Tladybukky:
Wow, your words really move me, i pray the guy am dating now will realize this before it too late. He's taking my love for granted, he doesn't know how much i love him..

I pray he realizes it on time. Because, quite frankly, It’s difficult to find a woman like you these days. A lady that loves her partner wholeheartedly. You know, finding the right woman is now more difficult than ever. The kind of woman that would fight alongside her man, with him, and for him, as he fights for her, too. The one that wont run at the first sign of trouble, or run when the road gets tough. The one that doesn’t see relationship as a business. The one that wont be looking for someone else to fill her emptiness, or be in search of more and more and more, Instead, she will look at her man and see all she needs. These days what’s easily obtainable is a cheapened version of love - You can give everything you have to someone and end up empty, you can love with your entire being and still be alone!

I don’t know why we’re programmed to realize what’s important when we loose it, about to lose it or when we’re about to lose ourselves. I don’t know why we don’t value people until we lose our own value. But I pray he doesn’t make the same mistake many of us made in the past.

MyOpinion1:
@op
You really need to build ur friendship level before you even think about love ooo if you don't want to be scammed...
And please love with your brain if you come across any before you even submit your heart...
And please beware of fake relationship way full naija ooo

Thanks for this.
You’re awesome!

HeavenlyCherub:
Questions for you.

What’s your credit score?

That will tell me all I need to know �

Lol.....Though, I don’t see how it will help but its pretty good. .. It’s over 700!

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daisypie:
I will pass.

Hello Daisypie,

I told you right off the jump that I was not ready for games. When you reached out, I gave you my phone number but you gave me a fake one. I told you it was not on WhatsApp and unreachable, you insisted it was and later gave me a new one. That too was a fake. Though it was on WhatsApp, it was also not reachable. It was programmed to receive only text. When I insisted on a video call, you went berserk hurling insults at me, I had to block you immediately.

I feel your pain. However difficult it is for you, you have to find a way to move on and find someone else to play your little games on!

pansophist:
You need to position yourself in a place where you will meet diverse of women. Posting online like you did quite frankly (no offend intended), is simply not effective and like lefulefu said you'll attract the wrong set of people. Even if you do meet someone you have a good rapport with, you may be turn off by their looks, and vice versa. Dont not underestimate or rule out the importance of physical attraction.

Since you live in the west, you should join yoga classes or any social dances such as salsa, kizomba and bachata. You just have to be there a month and you'll meet a girl you like given that you're decently attractive. I've adviced many guys and they made success with this formula. When I was in uni, I teached Zumba every weekend, and 80% of my attendance were females, the few guys there were cruising in women, with options everywhere.

If you can even teach dances yourself (can be afrobeat dance, doesn't matter), it's even the best as it will shoot up your attractiveness, as women are naturally attracted to men that exhibit leadership and other people look up to. And if you learn this dances and can do it well, I can guarantee that you'll never lack for women. Anywhere you go in the world, you can search online dance classes and assimilate easily with the people there, and making a strong social circle in the long run.

This is wonderful!
Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts with me. I will consider your suggestions!
Stay safe!

lefulefu:
why should that surprise u
u said u are based in the USA and u looking for love
u the typical poster child for a nigerian scammer

You’re right!

My back up plan was to have a video call with any serious person I meet, but not many were down for that. Thanks for your comment!

daisypie:
Dumb jackass.

Thanks, bye!

Waymaker75:
Sorry I was just joking, but on a more serious note, what I meant is, u guys are fun of taking girls with genuine love, honest and sincere for granted

Hey Waymaker75,

You’re absolutely right!

Honestly, I’ve been there and done that. We all have made that mistake at some point. Reality dawns on us later on in the future, when we feel ready to settle down. Then we realize the enormity of that mistake: when we can’t find the kind of love and attention we took for granted, when we can’t find someone who looks at us like we are the only thing they’ve been wishing for or someone who makes us feel like we are home – safe and protected from all the chaos and noise of the world. That’s a mistake I don’t intend to repeat!

Walefunds:
You no sabi dating sites to meet white singles? Ok go to match, Zoosk, POF and many more arunsi .....Check my sign below

Thanks for your recommendation! But I am only interested in Nigerian ladies. Where’s the sign you want me to check out?

daisypie:
The OP is nothing but a jackass. Never mind the niceness he's showing in the thread, it's all pretence. His likes will beat you black and blue over nothing. Ladies, stay away! You've been warned!

Hello,

I do not know you and I’m sure you do not know me either. I am new on Nairaland and have not had issues with anyone here. Why would you call me names?

Except you’re the person that emailed me claiming to be in Canada and sent me a fake number, in a bid to scam me. I did block you immediately I found out what your intentions were. You got bitter and haul insults via text. I ignored your insulting text cus I was not cut out for all that drama.

Aside you, I have not had issues with anyone. However, there are a few emails I haven’t yet responded to due to work demands. If you’re one of them, I apologize!

I really don’t know who you are, but I’m certain you’re in one those categories.

Waymaker75:
After u finish playing football with the heart of genuine and innocent ladies , u will now come on social media look for that same genuine and innocent girl, scammer never u do Christmas, they are still coming

Hello,

Thanks for your comment. I’m sorry I didn’t understand what you were trying to say. Would you mind explaining better?

Again, your comment here is appreciated.

Best

This is why we stay away from ladies based in nigeria




https://www.nairaland.com/5837355/girlfriend-keeps-accepting-money-guy

This is why we stay away from ladies based in nigeria




https://www.nairaland.com/5837355/girlfriend-keeps-accepting-money-guy

MedicH:
Lol imamujuruoyi this is exactly how I pronounce your name. Haaa I am silly.

Lol that’s funny

Received more emails from scammers

This is sad

lefulefu:
op half of the emails u will get will be frm guys pretending to be females..the other half will be from golddiggers
just giving u headsup so as not to be too hopeful getting anything positive here.

You're absolutely right!

missimelda01:
lol is this how desperate some men can be

I thought it was only women who marry for such benefits ehh, biko if you're 'in the diaspora' and you know a way we can make money together please don't hesitate to say HI, this lockdown is beginning to affect me

What country are you based?

slimprat:
I’m aisha

Hello Aisha,
I'm in NY
Please send me an email at imaomoruyi4@gmail.com

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Oh yes I did.

Do you think it's wrong?

SocialJustice:
Wetin do social networks or are you dumb?

No, I am not dumb!

Is there a reason why you think nairaland is not a social network?

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Hello All,

My name is Ima, 31, admin professional based in the United States.

I am looking to meet a Christian, independent, focused lady between the ages of 19 - 33. I have no preference for education, tribe, complexion or body size including genotype. However she must be respectful, willing to learn, focused and ready for something serious. Not a feminist.

I prefer a lady based in the United States preferably New York. I do not care if you are not a legal resident. But you have to prove that you are not in to get "papers" or for money.

I am a homebody so chances of going out every weekend is very slim.

If you are interested, or know someone who might be interested, please shoot me an email at imaomoruyi4@gmail.com.

I hope you all stay safe and healthy!


Best.

Hello All,

My name is Ima, 31, admin professional based in the United States.

I am looking to meet a Christian, independent, focused lady between the ages of 19 - 33. I have no preference for education, tribe, complexion or body size including genotype. However she must be respectful, willing to learn, focused and ready for something serious. Not a feminist.

I prefer a lady based in the United States preferably New York. I do not care if you are not a legal resident. But you have to prove that you are not in to get "papers" or for money.

I am a homebody so chances of going out every weekend is very slim.

If you are interested, or know someone who might be interested, please shoot me an email at imaomoruyi4@gmail.com.

I hope you all stay safe and healthy!


Best.

slimprat:
I’m Aisha if there is anybody that need a serious relationship,I’m little bit fair ,slim.
I need a serious relationship.im serious oo

What state do you base?

Send me an email lets talk some more

At imaomoruyi4@gmail.com

Angeleyez:
Didn't realize this topic was so old however....nice topic; I'm from New Jersey and I recently moved to Maryland. I heard there were alot of Nigerians in the DMV area (which is one of the reasons I moved here)....but I have been here for 8months and have yet to meet with those around my age. Anyway, I would like to make some friends in MD/DC/VA.

Hey Angeleyez,

I hope you're good. I am in NY and would love to chat with you.

Shoot me a email when you get a chance at

imaomoruyi4@gmail.com.

Tnx