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Let's avoid double standards.

If kneeling down as a punishment is good for any apprentice, it is good for all apprentices, including married ones.

If kneeling down as a punishment is bad for married apprentices, it is equally bad for unmarried apprentices.

Let us not judge the matter based on marital status. If the treatment is bad, it is bad. Married apprentices and unmarried apprentices have equal dignity as humans.

Fiscus105:
In other words the punishment meant for toddlers should also be given in same measurements for adults.

At age 40 your dad can still be slapping you, after all, he is your biological father.

You are twisting things here. The topic is not about punishing children versus punishing adults. The topic is about punishing adults that are married versus punishing adults that are not married.

So, any apprentice that is single is automatically a child and every married apprentice is an adult? Don't you see shops where married apprentices are younger than the unmarried ones? Do not tie dignity to marriage. Anything that is humiliating for a married adult is equally humiliating for an unmarried adult. Becoming an adult is natural while marriage is by choice. Why should we discriminate against nature in favour of choice?

You are missing the point. As long as the offences are the same, let the punishment be the same.

If you condemn the punishment because the offender is married, condemn the same punishment when the offender is single.

The reward or punishment for an action should not be based on marital status. Otherwise, biase and discrimination will reign.

Yes, let her tell her husband the truth.

Telling the husband has consequences but is godly.

Hiding it from her husband is ungodly and has more consequences. If he later finds out from another person, trusting her again will be tougher.

The husband, on his own part, should control his temper, knowing that two wrongs do not make a right.

RhemaJet7:
Paul was a Spiritual Father to Timothy, in the scripture I gave, Jesus sent Timothy to him as a Son in the faith.

Paul confirmed it in the following scripture:

1 Timothy 1:2

Unto Timothy, my own son in the faith: Grace, mercy, and peace, from God our Father and Jesus Christ our Lord.

I repeat, YOU CAN NOT HAVE MORE THAN ONE SPIRITUAL FATHER, BUT YOU CAN HAVE MULTIPLE MENTORS.

If you think I am wrong, prove it with a scripture, I proved mine, and that is the TRUTH.

If you choose a wrong person as your Spiritual Father, YOU ARE LOST!

I am speaking from experience, inspired by the Holy Spirit .

When you're filled by the Holy Spirit, the Spirit / anointing will teach you all things, even the deep things of God.
1 Corinthians 2:10.

A life without divine guidance, is a life in chaos.

Seek the in-filling of the Holy Spirit today, and become wiser

No part of the Holy Bible condemns having multiple spiritual fathers.

You are turning the scripture upsidedown. The places you quoted in the Bible do not say Paul or Timothy should not have more than one spiritual father. Therefore, your misinterpretation of the Bible is obvious. It is either you don't understand simple English or you are intentionally misinterpreting the Bible.

RhemaJet7:
I gave a scripture that you may have multiple Mentors but you cannot have more than one Spiritual Father, thus:

Corinthians 4:15-17

15. Even if you had ten thousand guardians in Christ, you do not have many fathers, for in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel.

16. I urge you to imitate me.

17. For this reason I have sent to you Timothy, my son whom I love, who is faithful in the Lord. He will remind you of my way of life in Christ Jesus, which agrees with what I teach everywhere in every church.

Regarding the benefits, I have given enough info on that.
God back and read

Having multiple spiritual fathers is not bad, unless the fathers do not have the same mission of serving God in spirit and truth.

You are misinterpreting the scriptures you quote in your post.

If we are to follow your interpretation, we do not need any human as spiritual father because God is already our father. Your scriptural quotes do not even recommend any human as our spiritual father. According to your scriptural quotes, Timothy is sent as a teacher, not as a father.

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If we are to follow your interpretation, we do not need any human as spiritual father because God is already our father. Your scriptural quotes do not even recommend any human as our spiritual father. According to your scriptural quotes, Timothy is sent as a teacher, not as a father.

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No part of the Holy Bible condemns having multiple spiritual fathers. You are turning the scripture upsidedown. The places you quoted in the Bible do not say Paul or Timothy should not have more than one spiritual father. Therefore, your misinterpretation of the Bible is obvious. In fact, you are not only misinterpreting the Bible, you are adding what is not in the Bible. The same Bible says that nothing should be added to or removed from the word of God. It is either you don't understand simple English or you are intentionally misinterpreting the Bible.

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You are yet to mention what only one spiritual father can do well.

4.
All the benefits of spiritual father mentioned here can come from more than one person.

5.
Having many spiritual fathers is good if the spiritual fathers have the same mindset or mission. For instance, we have God, Jesus Christ and Holy spirits.

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Having many spiritual fathers will be bad if the fathers' missions are not the same.

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It is unclear how her WhatsApp posts show that she doesn't love you. What does she post?

2.
Someone that was using a torchlight phone until you gave her a smart phone might actually be unable to give you ₦200 at a point.

3.
Denying you sex suggests the desire for purity, if she is a virgin or portraying a decent lifestyle. But if she denies you sex while doing vulgar things, she doesn't love you.

Conclusion:
She might be bad but you are yet to prove it in your post. For the fact that she did not open her legs for you until this moment, she will not open her legs for you because you want to collect the phone you gave her. So, wetin you gain?. Show me a man that will buy a phone for a girl at the initial stage of a relationship and will want to collect the phone when the relationship ends, I will show you a man that is highly inconsistent and selfish. Such a man is the male version of gold digger who believes that money and material things are all it takes to get every woman, the same way female gold digges believe that sex is all it takes to get every man. If you know that you cannot forfeit the phone when the relationship ends, don't buy the phone until you are very sure that the relationship will please you and last for long. If you genuinely want to buy a phone for a lady because you think she needs the phone, do so whether you are dating her or not and whether the relationship last or end quickly.

Mariangeles:
When you see evil/wickedness happening, don't turn your eyes away [no matter who it may be], otherwise, eyes will be turned away from you when you need help.
That is how life is.

Do better.

Keep ranting. You cannot delete my comment.

Mariangeles:
Keep enabling/making excuses for abuse/abusers.

What goes around comes around.

Keep ranting. You cannot delete my comment.

Mariangeles:
You know, you're so shameless for this cowardly response.

Imagine trying to manipulate and turn this around on me, while you're the abuse apologist/enabler, going by your response.
Goes to show the kind of person that you are.

Such a shame!

Keep ranting. You cannot delete my comment.

Mariangeles post=139085749[i:
Taa![/i]

Emotional manipulation does not work around here.
Abuse apologist/enabler.

Do better!

Keep ranting. But you cannot delete my comment.

Mariangeles:
Until he kills her, and rots in jail, then what?

Okay. So, what if it was the mother abusing the father, would you say the same?

My judgement is not gender-biased.

It is not the responsibility of a child to separate parents for whatever reason.

Mariangeles:
Just take a look at what you're saying.
Because it's not your mother involved.

Which sensible grown child would standby and watch their helpless mother [parent] being abused by their spouse?

Your response shows that you are aggressive and abusive.

But you can't change my opinion. Continue to rant.

Weretuntun:
what am I am trying to say is that what if your father is beating your mother and you know if you don't act fast you going to lose your mother,
Is not better to be proactive than being reactive.

Your father and your mother understand their marriage more you do, even if your father is beating your mother. Therefore, it is not your responsibility to disunite them.

Weretuntun:
what if the the father kill your mother and turn you into motherless child

If your father has killed your mother and made you motherless, the marriage is alread ended and your question about separating the parents is baseless.

The parents understand the marriage better than the child does.

Let the parents handle their case.

Meaning that he doesn't get involved in the war.

yemre:
It appears you either can't comprehend simple English or you just choose to want things done your own way.

I think you should visit the kids mum to ask why his face isn't shown to you in his birthday picture.

Mind your damn business, una no go gree. Carrying a third party's matter that has nothing to do with you on your head like gala.

Are kids' faces normally hidden on their birthday photos?

yemre:
This is a kid whose DNA is in contention and whose safety is of utmost concern to family members and authorities.

So, there's no point showing the face... before you'll start hearing stories that touch.

Are kids' faces normally hidden on their birthday photos?

MercyFirst:
Did you see the boy's face in the pics she posted?

Why does she post his pictures at all if she doesn't want him to be seen on social media?

MercyFirst:
What do you want to do with his face?

Is it normal for people to hide their faces on their birthday photos?

Exousiang01:
Some parents are mature enough to keep their children off social media.

A friend recently spent millions to get his 10 years son's face off google.

You may not understand that anyways.

It's actually good parenting.

You are confusing yourself. This lady is posting her son's pictures on social media. So, what exactly is your logic?

yemre:
Why do you need his face shown?

Is it normal for people to hide their faces on their birthday photos?

Were you black when other African countries licensed it?

Of all the things on earth, why was cultism what you could think of?

It is either you already know the meaning of what he posted or you have been suspecting him of being a member of cultism.

On all the pictures, the boy's face is hidden while the lady's face is shown.

Why? Is she trying to hide what is obvious?

Whatever, happy birthday to the innocent boy.

After their names are released, they will be rewarded with political appointments.

Every human is to be loved. Why do you use the opposite gender as the subject when questioning love for someone?

Try to be straightforward. Your question is not about love but about sexual intercourse.

AnonPoet:
-(d): Suspicious BVNs will be placed on a 24 hour watchlist.

I hope this one will not victimize innocent people. Network error can trigger it and innocent people will surfer. This is Nigeria.

May we know the business you tried with him?

Boladogailese:
Wooow okay thank you

CloseUp worked for me. But I think any brand can do it.

I heard that Coke can remove stains. But I have not confirmed it.

As the clothe is dry, apply toothpaste on the stain, leave the clothe for at least 4 days and wash it afterwards.

AMINDA:
Isn't it obvious? Attempts to sell Tinubu's candidacy in the South has been meeting a brickwall despite the level of intimidation, coercion and inducement. He remains even more unpopular in the South than he is in the North and the North are fast abandoning him after his betrayal and woeful performance. He has no realistic pathway to victory.

Olu omo's method will be used.