New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

To me bro......your time is your time....nobody knows the accurate and the exact time your path will be destined towards another direction....it could be possible for you to have sex with her on the day one and she should be pregnant....but as it is now.....the deed is done....think thrice ....don't think of today's problem...think more of the future problems that can arise from this.....if you think aborting it would be better ...if she doesn't give birth again nko ..or if you have difficulty in giving birth as a result of what you did to her..when you think you are ready.....in your pre destiny did you know the numbers of children God assigned to you or her ..suppose it is just one for either of you or both of you....think!!! ........no problem is bigger than the heaven....at worst your both families will disown you....and in the nearest time when you are enjoying it....no one will be there......if you are suffering for it in the future no one will also be there .....think thrice.......if any problem arise in the future as a result of abortion then what your family will say is WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL US ...WE WON'T FIGHT YOU". ...tell them let them fight .......let trouble start......let heaven fall......but it will be fine a t last....stand up for her as a man...if you allow her to go another person fathers your child ....wahala....another mother .....wahala.....let both of you come together for this fight ....both enjoy.....##imperial Keji

There is this girl..... I met towards my final year in the university....we had loved each other very well....although we met through a friend of mine who is her church member..the relationship was smooth not until my friend started going against her ...picking up an offense with the girl...but at most cases his offense are meaniless. It Got to a stage that the my friend started to humiliate her , staging series of lies against her in church that the prophetess who owns the church and my friend collide to call my mum that the lady i am dating is a witch.....she use to suck glory , i can't make it if i marry her .........so my mum got stucked in the words of my friend and the prophetess....soon after they did not see us apart....they came up with a plan by calling my mum that they saw a vision that she is the head of a occultic group.....this got my mum weird and it became a serious issue that my mum hate her ..she told me to quit with her....i went out to my pastor whom i believe so much in...he told me the are just planning to destroy my relationship and to poison the heart of my mum against her .....but spoke to my mum about it telling her it is a lie .....they are just been devilish .....she refuse to believe me ....those things she was told are still stucked in her heart.....i need help.....how can i go about it. And how can i change her mindset from those shit she heard

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