i believe

having sex is the intention,
getting drunk is a media, and
considering it a mistake is just an excuse.

simple as that.

we can always have casual sex, even married people, then say sorry for the mistake which has been made.  if that happens in the 2nd time or more, it's just "oops, baby, we did it again!"

i have to say something. i believe ilovepda is sharing the id with friends. how can a person perform such different roles at the same time?

besides, Seun said he has banned him/her. i don't think he/she has any ability to go on this forum and clarify the truth.

com'on, be an open-hearted person. maybe he/she does have some problem in life and need your generous help.

by the way, I think Seun should ask ilovepda why he/she act this way before he banned this person on this site. There is no such rule saying a person cannot ask questions with different perspectives. we just ASSUME that one id should be exclusively to one person.

i'm a law school student. maybe Seun will ban me from this forum since I said something for the minority. Anyway, I want ilovepda to be able to come here again and give everyone an explaination and then we decide if this person or this id should be get rid of from this forum.