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I read about such things happening abroad some times. when you see such money its best to leave it and contact the bank first. withdrawing money you know you don't have may equal stealing even if done with the best intention. Don't go testing if ATM will spit out money for you if tin foil is inserted and then report your findings to the bank but rather report to the bank first what you think may happen if tin foil is inserted and then, to prove your case, you do it in the presence of a bank official with his permission.
What I will like to know is, did he first thing  the next morning return the money and report to the bank or did he try to "prove" his case by withdrawing money again only to find his account debited and then he started complaining. As at the time he went to the bank was he with the withdrawn 20k or  did he go borrowing after the bank complained?

I wonder why people just believe what others say online to be true words. For all I know, both occultist and ivy were just playing each other to get what they wanted. She was giving believable hard story to get sympathy from him to hasten his help and give her info about the cult while he, just gave her a small info. Just the tip of an iceberg from his cult o.I am thinking that since she was unknown to him he kept the bigger sacrifice a secrete till she really joins. Ivy would have ran nuts and never trust anyone again if she had dug deeper and unraveled more rituals performed by this cult to make money and buy protection. All in all sha people beware of who you nail. Girls watch out. Boys playboy season is fast running out.

@ Col asabe

whats your price range and what products do you have for sale?

Thanks all. I was thinking of leaving and going out for more useful life out there I was tired of sitting at home doing nothing. God bless you all. It was embarrassing to sit at home from dusk till dawn doing nothing for 3 years it felt like the world was passing me by. After our discussions my brother offered to lend us some money so I can set up a business oh God I am so looking forward to getting busy. Now I feel useful to myself.

Thanks all I have decided to talk things over with him again the biggest problem we had was that of him insisting that we travel every year to celebrate Xmas with his family and that drains our pocket the more I told him to lets reprogram ourselves so that we can afford to save money. I understand that some families live on 20k naira but in the end what kind of lives do they lead? what about health care and education for their kids? That is the kind of thing I want to avoid. We have reached an agreement on how best to live more financially balanced lives.I am also considering getting a job here too at least it will keep me busy and proud to be earning some money for the family too

I am grateful for the responses given. God bless you all.

ifyalways:
First,you or rather both of u should have thought abt finances b4 marriage.
I wont advice you to leave your husband and go to another city,its not just good for a young marriage.
Your husband can start looking for another job in another town alongside u.
Make do with whatever job and pay u get in the city where u stay for now and if u get one,pls endeavour to keep aside a little something each month,save something,no matter how small.I cant decide for u but u guys might do better if u wait for a year or 2 b4 making babies 
As for the things u want that he cant afford for now,better thing no dey finish for mkt jare,u can always get them morrow.
Keep and save your marriage first.Goodluck

Our finance was fine when we got married and had our kids but like I said things just aren't working as well as they used to. We were not over the top wealthy but we had enough to meet all needs but now after the incident that we spent money on, things became tight and that's why I want to look for a good job to enable us live  more comfortable lives.

@zeal500 and dyt

thanks

Thanks Everyone things are getting better between us now.I guess I must remember the for better for worse till death do us part vows we made to each other. I pray things work well for you all too. Thanks.