jeffizy:
Gifting is good if awarded to the right person.
The right person is the one that appreciates kind gestures no matter how little.

In this write up, I see a lady that is taking your kindness for granted.

Pls, help yourself by sitting back a bit and reflect . Are you trying too hard to win her heart?
Is she not seeing you as emotionally weak and exploiting you?

Only you can access the situation. Hope you won't be clouded by infatuation when doing the reflection.

Hmm....
She claims to have a high class. You think I should be worried. Does it matter that I actually earn more than she does?
But she does appreciate some of the gifts I get her. She texts to show appreciation, calls too. That's usual for her. But I have to admit, sometimes the appreciation text is just a line.

I read some bf-gf stories lately on front page and I thought to share my own. I'd admit I'm not very emotionally intelligent so this may be difficult for me to figure out. So, I need external help.

She's the lady I'm considering marrying. Anyways, she's the best among those I'm relating with. So, I invited her over. We are actually talking serious, so it was expected for her to visit, not that I exclusively invited her. That didn't make me totally responsible for her trip. Nevertheless, I paid her return flight from lag, total of 40k. That, I believe, should be her first time flying too.

When she came around, we had a nice time and when she was leaving, I took her shopping to buy things for her and her siblings/sisters. I think I spent like 20k just buying things. At a point, I didn't have enough cash so I told her to give me 5k and that I'll return it.

She gladly did. Fast forward some days later, she was back in lag and we talked on phone, then I reminded her I'll still return her money. Well, she didn't say anything. She just said I should do it with interest. Poor me, even though I could give her back easily, I was gently hoping she could be generous enough to insist I should just keep the money and not refund. After all, she hadn't spent a dime throughout her visit. Plus, the gifts were not even for me.

Anyways, I wired her back the money(+ interest) and she didn't mind, merely only thanking me. Thinking back, I don't know if she could have done better or if I could have done better. Does she appear like someone who's kind at heart?

Since then, I have given her gifts worth more than 30k and have only received one gift of 7k back. Nothing even for Xmas, just valentine. We both work, though I earn more than she does. Should I be worried?

Abeg o, i need some help here.
Never imagined I'll be posting here for help, but tinz don happen. Na condition dey make crayfish bend.

I have been saving from my job. It is a good job, so i don manage to save about 20m naira through the 2 years of employment. I managed to buy one car too and got one nice apartment in a very good part of town.
And as far as assets go, that's all i have.

I get a lot of free time but don't know how to use it to maximize my money. So, now i dont know what to do . na just wake up, eat, sleep, drive to cinemas & watch movies, cook something, hang out with my friends-with-benefits girl, and then the cycle repeats itself until work calls.

I don't know what to do o. A trustworthy guy introduced me to forex, so i gave him 1.5m(5000+ usd) today to do some forex for me this month. I dey watch dat side.
I don fix about 15m in different fixed deposits, and I'm making like 55k+ every month from these.

Besides this, i don't know what else to do with my life when not working. I just feel so somehow. I'm thinking of starting a biz, but i don't even know what to do. Anybody can help me?

Abeg o, lalasticlala help me here, abeg. Na beg i beg.