What sort of news is this one now. Wetin the innocent boy do u kwanu?? He wasn't disturbing d sex process. Please kill this fool before the day breaks.

liberalchick:
Why do you call someone that is dating two women?

Please understand the story line very well. Am not dating the second girl, she is nice to me, she is not in any relationship and she has openly told me she likes me. Understand the picture.

Please, let me state where the confusion really is coming from. After the first girl cheated the first time with a married man, she promised not to do it again, then comes the second time, after I found out, she cried, called people to beg me and then finally swore wit her life never to cheat on me again, Wat actually caught me in d trap is the fact she swore wit her life. Could it be she is serious this time around??

baby124:

If he’s not a cheat, where did option B come from. Abi you can’t see well?

Please am not a cheat.. If u must know, the second girl came for an IT in my place of work, she was down on a certain day wit malaria. I willfully gave her money to buy drugs and dat was it. She started calling since dat day. I only started thinking about her after the first girl cheated on me the second time.

Besides, the day 2nd girl took me out, I told the first girl about it. She accepted I go.

crackhaus:
The only thing I noticed in your thesis:

Not once did you talk about the love you feel for any of them.

In sincerity, I love the first girl but hard to trust her now. I have never cheated on her and she knows it. For the past 1yr plus, av shown her undiluted love, buys things for her but she went ahead to sleep with two different guys on two different occasions. She confessed though but trust is hard now. When ever I call her and she doesnt pick, I normally feel she is wit a guy.

For the second girl, I met her d period I was wit the first girl. I never gave her any chance of love but I discovered she has interest in me. Like calls from time to time. She actually developed interest in me cos of a little kind gesture. I actually started thinking about her after d first girl cheated on me a second time.

dingbang:
You know, you can actually buy dresses for the second lady and make her more presentable. Please try to invest in the appearance of your girl too, it says a lot about you.


I think you should settle for the second woman.

Money is not the problem, money is not even her problem. She is d kind dat does things the way she wants.

Guys help, I'm planning to settle down in at most, 12 months time - if everything goes according to plan.

I currently have two ladies in my life, and I'm very confused on whom to choose.

Girl A is my present girlfriend. We've been together for 2 years. Now I'll list her pros and cons for clarity sake.

Pros: she's tall, slim and beautiful. I'm very average in height so she complements me physically. Still a student but will soon finish(HND 1 Mass Com). At the moment, she loves me more than anything in the world.

First thing that got me attracted to her is her physique. In 10-15 years time, she'll still have that ''Bangable'' body.

And she's also very romantic.

She's also very honest, as I'll enumerate below

Cons: proclivity to cheat. During our period of dating, she has confessed to cheating on me with a married man, and one guy close to her lodge twice recently (that honesty I was talking about). She has sworn on her destiny not to ever do it again. But then I'll be a fool to trust a woman by her words.

She's more interested in fashion than building capacity. She doesn't read, even as a mass communicator which I find appalling. I've tried many times to convince her to be serious about her studies but facebook no go gree her. In a nutshell, she's not the type that can bring anything to the table when it comes to critical reasoning and problem solving.


Girl B.

Pros: She's what you'll describe as a virtuous woman. Caring, lovely, academically brilliant ,Very serious with the Lord - a bit too serious if I may add.

She loves me too but wouldn't be vocal about it. She prefers to show it through her actions. Well, action they say, speaks louder than....

A few days ago, I saw her in my dreams as I introduced myself as her husband. I've never had that kinda dream. And she too has had same which she told me.

Cons: she's not attractive at all.

Hair most times unkempt, no makeup whatsoever And she doesn't care! Very adamant that she loves the way she is.

She once took me out on a date to a classy restaurant looking like a deeper life sister on Evangelism. Shame wanted to kill me that day.

She's the type that's gonna add weight within a few years after marriage. I've seen her mum. Something I abhor so much.

Biggest problem is, I'm not sexually attracted to her one bit. Not one bit!

I'm very confused now. Do I go for the dumb one (a bit harsh to call her dumb) with the looks I so desire, or the virtuous woman whom I'm not attracted to?